Daily update for my Boys 3 April 2014

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Good Afternoon Little Men…

How are my Champs today ? I hope fantastic …..

It feels like it has been an extremely long day , I think it might be because I kept waking up last night , I had to close my window at bed time as it started raining really hard again and as you might know , I do not like sleeping with the window shut , thus the restless night I think… And yet today is a lovely bright sunny day here , a little cool but still very nice …..

I have been out to town for some shopping and to go pay the bills , my own fault I guess I should have set these up for internet payments …maybe next month , lol ….

Been doing lots of reading today also on PAS and the impact it will have on you both as you grow up ….also realised it’s been 4 months now since I have seen you two muppets last ….that’s the longest it’s been in the past year …made me really sad , but seems that is how things will be from now on ….I think I know in my heart that you both have long forgotten about me as I have only seen you 10 hours in the past year , and I don’t remember anything much before the age of 5 ,so can only take it that you both will be the same and I am sure you have had so much change around you in the past year that I have not been a part off …….

Some days I think to myself that I am a total nutter for writing this blog but then again it gives me a couple of minutes each day that it feels like we are in fact spending some time together even if the conversation is one way traffic or a monologue as they say …..let’s hope you both understand all of this one day when the time comes …….

The weekend is here again tomorrow also , I have the Big birthday on Saturday and looks like I will have some work stuff to sort on Sunday if all goes to plan…..

So Champs I hope you both will have a great Friday …lots of learning and plenty of giggles …….

I will see you both a little later then under our big old green tree in dream land , I think I need massive dream bear cuddles and smiles tonight ….

Night , night Muppets ….happy dreams of better days ….

I love you both This much ; ( see picture , lol) — Dad xx

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So tomorrow is the hearing the Court will not inform me what for …..

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So as you all will know by now tomorrow morning at 10 am my boys Oliver James and Oscar Alexander Ferreira is part of a hearing at the High Court Lancaster sitting in Preston and Blackburn by Judge Singleton , the Court told me a week ago about the hearing but refuse to provide the details what it will be about , you have seen the email from Miss Rebecca Butterfield the boys Solicitor saying she has once again been in ” private” consultation with the paid alcoholic drug addicted surrogate of my boys Jayne Elizabeth Ferreira aka Jayne Elizabeth McClure whom was to once again apply to the Court to change the boys Family name as she want to hide the Truth and Mr Peter Morey and the Judge continuous their misconduct in supporting this Child Abuser ! No such application has been issued or received as per normal this is just threats by her and her father Steve McClure to try and intimidate me as they have always tried to do in their efforts to hide the Truth about what they both are ..Child Abusers …nothing more ….

I hear they plan to shut this blog down , I would like to remind them that this blog was started on 6 Dec 2013 after they allowed the paid surrogate to ignore their Court order by which I requested to see my boys on Christmas Day last year …….

This blog will today have more than 12400 views , 575 posts , 385 comments over 235 daily email followers and has been seen in more than 60 Countries now and it has been re-blogged and re-posted on a large number of other sites by the followers that as I, believe in the Truth and transparency of the Family Law System in the UK ….

So all I can say is I wish them luck tomorrow as this footprint and platform is here to stay as my boys Will know the Truth one day …….the whole Truth …

Kind Regards,

Phil Ferreira

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Just received little men from your Solicitor….

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In the High Court of Justice Family Division ​​Case Number: LA13P00159
Lancaster District Registry ​​​​

Between :-

Whilhelm Philippus Ferreira​
Applicant
And

Jayne Elizabeth Ferreira
First Respondent
And

Oscar Alexander Ferreira and Oliver James Ferreira
(Children through their r16.4 Guardian Peter Morey)

Second Respondents

Case Summary for Hearing on 2nd April 2014

The Court is concerned with Oscar and Oliver Ferreria, twin boys born on 20th May 2011. The boy’s parents are Whilhelm Philippus Ferreira (known as Phill) and Jayne Elizabeth Ferreria. The children are represented in these proceedings by their r16.4 Guardian Peter Morey.

Proceedings were issued by the Father on 7th May 2013, and were concluded by way of final order made on 29th November 2013 and 5th December 2013 (B50 and B56). The Father sought to set aside the final order, and the matter was listed to determine that application on 28th February 2014.

After hearing submissions from all parties, the Judge ordered that the Order be set to be set aside in so far as contact and exercise of parental responsibility was concerned. Although it was made clear that the matter would be listed for a contested final hearing at which the Father would have his opportunity to test the evidence, the Father elected not to pursue his application any further, other than to invite the Court to make an order for unsupervised contact immediately. The Father made his position clear that if that was not the Order of the Court, he did not intend to engage further either in the Court process or in supervised contact. In spite of the considerable efforts made by the Court and representatives on behalf of the children to organise contact during the course of the day long hearing, the Father remained resolute in his position.

Against that backdrop, the hearing concluded with an order that the father should have no direct contact with the children. The Mother was not required to send any further updates or photographs of the children to the Father (as had been provided in previous orders) as the Father indicated that he would post these to his ‘blog’ upon receipt. Arrangements were included in the order for the Father to send indirect contact to the children via a third party should he wish to do so, although the Father indicated he would not take up such contact, and to the writers knowledge, no indirect contact has been received since 28th February 2014.

A raft of other orders were made to deal with the various applications made by the parents, including a separate non-molestation order against the Father. It was intended that this would stand as the final order in the proceedings (B231).

On 19th March 2014, the Father sent an email to the Guardian, the Children’s solicitor and to the Court containing a link to his blog which showed that he had published the Order (save for page 1 of the substantive order) on his blog. In his email he stated ‘Please start the contempt of Court proceeding ASAP’ (C1)

On 20th March 2014, the Mother sent an email to the Court (C37) asking the post to be brought to the attention of Her Honour Judge Singleton, and in which she indicated that she had been subject to ongoing abuse from the Father on his online blog. She also indicated an intention to make a formal application to change the children’s surnames. No such application has been received as yet.

The matter is listed for a directions hearing ELH 1 hour at the volition of the Court. There is currently no live application before the Court on behalf of the Mother, Father or Children.
​​​​​​​​​Becky Butterfield
BSG Solicitors
27.03.14

Birth Certificates for Oliver James Ferreira and Oscar Alexander Ferreira

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Hello Little men ,

Please find above your Birth Certificates , should your paid surrogate Jayne Elizabeth Ferreira aka as Jayne Elizabeth McClure , change your Family name I will repost these weekly and tag with both names to ensure you will know the Truth one day ….

I should also get your South African passports in the next couple of weeks so will post those on here also with your copy UK passports I have now and your confirmation of duel citizenship.

Please also note the date in April 2013 when these certificates were issued, the Court and your paid surrogate really underestimate my intelligence .

Love you always Little Men ..

Dad xx

The reason I will NOT take up supervised contact little men…

Your alcoholic drug addicted paid surrogate Jayne E Ferreira , Judge Singleton from Lancaster High Court and Peter Morey from Cafcass Blackburn office says this is in your best interest , I think all these people must be on Drugs ! Or delusional ….
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Anonymous

I need some fatherly advice right now…. and i was wondering in you could help me with this torn feeling I’m having. I have supervised visits with my daughters and I love them with everything that I am would gladly go to hell and burn for all eternity just to keep them from ever being hurt again. My dilemma is that it is really hurting me and them going to these visits because they want to come to my house and they dont understand why they cant they are 4 and 2. It hurts so bad hearing them cry daddy please don’t go and I wanna go home with you daddy that I cry the entire 30 min drive home every week. I want to stop the visits until after the court date so that We don’t feel this heartache and have the tears shed anymore but I don’t want to be a bad dad for not seeing them whenever i can please if you have any advice on want I should do please contact me and one day I will tell you my story of why all of this come to light and you WON’T believe it. I have Visitation court in 15 days

By: Admin

Trust me…
….I will believe it.

Supervised visits are pretty standard for dads that become separated or do or end from the mother.

I myself was a loving involved Father for 11 years. A stay home dad and the so called “primary caretaker” for many of those years.

Yet in less then 30 minutes and a judges gavel I was reduced to a visitor to my children.

Only allowed in their presence with a 3rd party monitoring my every move, our every word and documenting it for review and critiqued.

I endured this visitations for an entire year.

An extremely humiliating experience to say the least.

Damaging to the parent/child bond and relationship.

Emotionally draining. Emotional torture to both my children and myself.

Something that should only be required or implemented in my opinion in cases that include actual and Real Abuse beyond a reasonable doubt.

Unfortunately, that is not the case.

Supervised visits for the Father during a separation are becoming the standard.

With that said.

You need to endure them.

You need to continue them.

If you do not, it is my opinion it will be held against you as not desiring to be with your children.

They will say you do not show interest in having the time they are granting you with your children.

Why should you be allowed additional time?

Others on the page may have a different view.

I will post to the page for additional feedback.

Respectfully,

Thomas Fidler

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Final Court order Little men……. So , so sorry….xxxx

Hello Little men…

Well we now have the Final Court order as you can see your alcoholic , drug addicted paid surrogate Jayne Elizabeth Ferreira aka Jayne Elizabeth McClure is not willing for me to be a normal part of your lives until you are 18 , now I know I will not be here anymore by then so I really hope you get to read this one day and that this horrible women has a good explanation for what she has done to your lives ……… And the continued Child Abuse her , her family , Cafcass and the Courts are going to inflict on you both for the rest of your lives….

Just always know this has come to this point as your paid surrogate, CAFCASS and the Court wants to treat me like a criminal which I am not and can’t except, as they have no evidence but the drunk delusions of the paid surrogate and her horrid alcoholic father Steve McClure and the fact that they are English and I am a foreigner……

Just always know , I tried , Ouma tried , Oupa tried but I guess the paid surrogate got what she always wanted as she could not do it by herself due to her serious STD infections she carried all of her adult life ……

Breaks my heart little men but as I have said for as long as I am able to I will be writing your daily updates and hope that you both will know how much I love you and all the other people also whom the surrogate and her family have decided to cut out of your lives as they do not want to face the Truth…..

Love you both with all my heart and sole little men ….always ….

Dad xx

Note to all the readers of this blog from all over the world please feel free to share this so the world can see how corrupt the Family Courts and CAFCASS really are in the UK…….

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What I asked the High Court for in Feb Little men …….

In The Lancaster High Court Case Number: LA13P00059
24 February 2014
In the matter of the Children Act 1989
And in the matter of Oliver James and Oscar Alexander born 20 May 2011

Between: Whilhelm Philippus Ferreira Applicant
AND
Jayne Elizabeth Ferreira Respondent
AND
Oscar and Oliver Ferreira Second Respondents
(Children by their r16.4 Children’s guardian Peter Morley)
Position Statement for hearing 28 February 2014 by HHJ Singleton QC at the High Court Blackburn.

Statement to confirm goals of Mr. WP Ferreira for this listed hearing

I Whilhelm Philippus Ferreira of a confidential address Will STATE as follows:
I make this statement pursuant to the upcoming hearing on 28 February 2014 listed in front of HHJ Singleton QC in the High Court Blackburn, I have prepared this statement personally and as such it will be submitted to the Court and other respondents by email.

I have now had the opportunity to have sight of the statements from the respondents and as such felt it necessary to clearly set out the goals I would like this listed hearing to achieve in the matter of Contact with our Children.

Further to the final order made by this Court on 29 November 2013 and updated on 5 December 2013 I confirm that I have no objection to the contact being suggested between me and our boys to take place four times per year, the original order does not give clarity on the duration of the suggested contact nor the venue and required agreements to make the proposed contact happen.
As such I would like the Court to clarify this issue and would like to make the following suggestions / requests in this regard;
1. Contact to take place four times a year for 4 to 5 consecutive days, thus allowing the contact to be beneficial to our boys to allow them to develop a normal relationship with me and not cause them distress or confusion on what my role in their lives is in fact.
2. I should be allowed to include my parents, the boys nominated Godparents and or possible new partner in any and all contact relating to our boys.
3. Contact should be allowed unsupervised or by a mutually agreed party by myself and the care giver.
4. As the boys are still young this contact should be allowed for half days, either morning or afternoon or alternated during the 4 to 5 day period whiles I will be in the UK.
5. All contact dates until the age of 6 should be agreed in Court today if possible and recorded in full detail thus allowing me to enforce committal of the care giver should she once again decide to ignore the contact order. After this period I suggest we return to Court to set out the full details for the following 5 years thus limiting the time and costs spent by all parties in making additional applications to the Court.
6. The care giver should not be allowed to remove or travel with our boys from the UK without confirming dates and destinations with myself until our boys are 16 years old.
7. As the boys get older contact should be extended to overnight stays in a hotel once the boys are able to understand the change of environment, I would suggest this is a possibility from the age of 5 or 6 years old.
8. Once the boys start School contact can be arranged during the School holidays but for the next 4 years I do not see the logic of this being only allowed during school holidays and as such will come at a massive premium when you look at traveling costs during the suggested Holiday periods.
9. Skype/ phone contact should be included twice a week for 15 minutes with myself and my parents to help the boys develop a relationship with myself and my extended family which would be normal. As the boys get older the Court order should allow for email contact if the boys choses to do so.
10. Birthdays should be agreed on a yearly alternating schedule thus allowing myself and my family to be allowed to share in special days with the boys.
11. Christmas holidays should be agreed on a yearly alternating schedule thus allowing myself and my family to be allowed to share in special days with the boys.
12. Indirect contact should be allowed by way of post and gift delivery service on the alternating years for Birthdays and Christmas thus once again to allow myself and my family to develop a normal relationship with the boys.
13. By the age of 6 or 7 years old I would like the boys to be allowed to be taken on extended days for Holiday outings within the UK at agreed Holiday parks or venues by myself and my family.
14. By the age of 9 or 10 I would like to be able to travel with the boys to South Africa to allow them to meet their extended family and learn a little of the culture and heritage this Court is depriving them from having as toddlers.
15. I would like to receive copies of all written reports in regards to the boy’s medical issues and Schooling.
16. I would like to be provided with any School or extra-curricular activities thus being given the opportunity to be allowed to show my support and participate should this be practically possible.
17. As the boys get older they should be allowed free and daily contact with me and my family should they choose to do so.
18. By the age of 10 or 12 the Court and Cafcass should allow the boys the option to decide if they would like to continue residing with the care giver or if they would prefer to come and reside with myself.
19. The boys should be allowed to exercise their Human Rights to have South African passports and as such dual nationality ASAP.
20. By the age of 16 the boys should be provided with a full set of documents in regards to this case for them to see the actions and behaviors of both myself and their care giver in their early years.
21. All Schools , Doctors and supplementary care givers should be mutually agreed by myself and the care giver as to ensure that the welfare of the boys are always placed first.
22. Until the boys are of an age that they are able to provide updates themselves I would like to have monthly updates with photo’s but I do not wish to receive this information if the care giver is being forced to provide this by way of a Court order as this would not be fair to expected her to do so long term, as such this needs to be done out of her own free will as a loving and caring care giver wanting to share the achievements and development progress of our boys.
23. I do not want Mr. Steve Mcclure to have any form of contact with our boys until the Court and CAFCASS have done a full risk and psychological evaluation to confirm he is a safe and mentally competent 70 year old to be allowed around our boys as I have very serious concerns about this man that I have continued to bring to the Courts attention since April 2013, but no action or investigation has in fact been done to secure our boys from this man. He should not be allowed after this to drive or be left alone with our boys at all.
24. I would request the Court to put a long term plan in place as stated above thus ensuring that we do not need to return to Court on an ongoing basis to address the issues relating to contact and our boys developing a stable normal relationship with both myself and my family.
25. I would like the Court to ensure that there is NO requirement for contact between myself and the care giver in regards to contact after this hearing or matters relating to our boys. As such I suggest the Court appoints Mr. & Mrs. McClelland the boys Godparents as the only point of contact between myself and the care giver should a requirement arise at any point until the boys are 16 years old at which point they will be able to make the required arrangements with me directly.
26. I would the Court to give consideration to the independent psychological report provided by Mr. Henk Swanepoel when making final directions in this matter.
Kind Regards,

WP Ferreira

Daily update for my Boys 11 Jan 2014

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Good afternoon you two !

Hope my Champs are doing well today …..

I have had a bit of a mind numbing day with all the legal stuff I have been sent for our next Court Date in Feb , I am just absolutely overwhelmed with how many children and mums and dads in the UK are having the same battle as us 3 but as I have said if we can make it better or different for one child or adult then it has been worth all the effort.

Its great how much you learn from other peoples cases and see the wrongs in your own when other people point it out to you but as the saying goes the wheel turns be it slowly but it does that I believe with all my heart.

I am also about eight pages into ‘our story’ for the UK documentary I have been asked to participate in I need to try and send the draft outline to the producer chap next week , they have asked if I want my name and face disguised while recording but I have told them I have nothing to hide , should I then end up in jail our case will become a criminal matter which will allow for even more exposure of the family law legal system in the UK , so I guess a small price to pay… O and I can then post it on YouTube for you both to watch one day if you like , maybe it will help you understand that I have and never will give you both up no matter how hard people and the system try……

Hope you two had a fun day doing whatever you might have done …. As long as it was fun and safe then I am happy ….

Can’t believe we are one week further into this mess I guess it will be a year before we know it and I assume we have many , many mores years of this battle still to come the way things stand now …but you know what boys it will all be worth it at the end of the day , just really sorry that you both have to suffer alone with the people who surround you …..keep strong …this too will pass as they say ……

Well my little O’s I hope you two are planning a huge Sunday lunch feast , with a long nap and lots of play time for tomorrow ……will be thinking of you both……

Boys I will see you both under our big old green tree in dream land tonight …. Keep me a nice spot …. Can’t wait for my bear cuddles and smiles….

Night , night little men , happy big Sunday lunch dreams for you both…

Miss and love you both oil tankers full and more …..

Love you pals ….

Dadxx

Daily update for my Boys 10 Jan 2014

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Hello little Muppets,

Hope you two are on top of the world today and doing great…..

The two pictures above made me smile , the baby with the dog is six months old and he is now already sitting at the front door at home time waiting for his Daddy …… Reminded me of how happy you two use to be when I got home from work , you would hardly let me get in the door ….happy days , hey little men , but I assume you both again will not have any memory of that any more , if you look in the picture archive on the blog there is a picture of you both sitting on me on the stairs one morning when I came back from a work trip to Turkey, you both would not let me go …. Makes me happy and sad thinking about that , can’t really explain ,guess it is part of my so called personality disorder , or I personally think it’s called being a Daddy who loves his little boys with all his heart…even if the legal system says I am a freak for showing any emotion…..

So I have done absolutely nothing today … Not a thing , well , I did shower , brush my teeth and get dressed , don’t worry , I am not losing it just yet…. But that was the extent of my activities…. I guess that’s all part of my new life as a person devoting his all into trying to get a normal relationship with you both …google is my best friend , lol …..think I am developing iPad thumb …lol

Oupa is still not doing well but is refusing to go back to hospital so Ouma and might have to drag him there later if he stays the same , not sure what is going on but have never seen him like this before , Ouma and I had a good giggle last night as his nurse told us the name of some tablets that will help with his ears so I went to get them yesterday but it says it is for motion sickness so Ouma and I are not convinced they will work but he swears by them as he had them once before … So Ouma is giving them to him 3 times a day , so now this afternoon he tells us he is feeling better but we think that is just a ploy so we don’t take him back to hospital , I know we are joking about it but he is really not well….

I guess you two little monkeys are in school today , if you are I hope you had lots of fun and learned heaps …. Would love to one day again see you both interact with all your little friends also not just us 3 locked in a room with a person watching us ….scary if you write it down , but that’s what we have got for NOW ! …… NOT much longer boys that I promise ……

I hope you two have lots of plans for the weekend and that the weather will be nice and not cold and wet….. So you can maybe go see the outside animals at the Zoo…..would be nice I think…

Still no news about your operation Oliver so as I have said before we are all thinking of you and hope you are safe , in one piece and it all went well or will go well , in our thoughts you both are each day all the time …..

Boys as always I hope to see you both tonight under our big old green tree in dream land …can’t wait to give you both a big mountain bear cuddle …..

Night night , my little Jungle book lovers , sweet jungle dreams ….

Miss and love you both more that the size of the Amazon jungle …..

Love you boys …..always …

Dad xx