Daily update for my Boys 31 March 2014





Good Afternoon Little Men…

I hope you two are doing great and having a very nice Monday …

Sorry I just spammed your email accounts …lol ..I am still having issues with the wordpress.com IPad application ….it’s driving me up the wall if I am honest , so let’s hope IOS is going to release the new bug fix update shortly ….

Can’t believe the day is gone again…it feels like I got nothing done that I had planned but such is life some days … I did have a nice chat with one of my friends whom now lives in the Philippines , had the cutes photo of his little girl …she is absolutely gorgeous .. Defo gets her looks from her mummy …lol

I think I have solved the Dubai bank harassment , at least for me seeing that it is not my account …so happy days for me …not so much for your paid surrogate I am afraid to say …..

I wonder what you two muppets are getting up to this week ? Well whatever it is I hope you both will have plenty of safe , fun happy times and lots of learning O and don’t forget to giggle …makes the world a better place I believe …….and I am pretty sure you both can do with some love and care at this stage and not just the daily Child Abuse you are being subjected to….

O I must send you both a picture , I have noticed today that I have written all the paint of my IPAD pen whiles writing to you both …lol , I must admit I did not even think that was possible , good thing I bought a spare when I got this one ….don’t know why but I am not able to finger type on this pad ..just does not feel right … I assume as you both will be growing up with this you will be able to do it with great ease ….. I have even got Ouma and Oupa trying the touch screen when I see them and they read your blog …never to old to learn Champs as they say ……

Well muppets I can’t wait to see you both a little later again under our big old green tree in dreamland ….. Big bear cuddles and dream smiles please …..

Please also give B&B an extra cuddle from me and maybe a sneaky Oreo biscuit when no one is looking …lol

Night , night little men …..dream big always …the sky is the limit ….remember this always , no matter what the people around you try and tell you ….

Love you both TTHhhhhiiiiiiiiissssssssss much and miss you both so muchhhhhhhhh more …..

Love you Little Men…..always ….

Dad xx

Why Won’t the Narcissist Psychopath Leave Me Alone?

I hope my “friends” in Dubai read this ……

Let Me Reach with Kim Saeed

Handsome-Calling-On-Phone-Secret ~ image by Shutterstock

This is a common question among those who are thinking of leaving or have left an emotionally abusive partner (Narcissist, Sociopath, Borderline, etc.)  While some exceptions exist, the main reason that a Psychopath won’t leave someone alone is because their target hasn’t implemented No Contact in its true form.

For example, I often read on forums that someone has been “No Contact” for x-number of days, but then they receive a phone call, an email, or a Facebook message from the person they’re trying to get away from, which of course keeps them in a state of confusion and doubt.  (The only reason an Ex should have an open line of communication is in the case of shared custody, and even then, there should only be one).

If there is a way for the Psychopath to contact you, then you haven’t gone No Contact…you’ve gone “No…

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Daily update for my Boys 30 March 2014




Good Evening Little Men..

Hope you both are doing really well and that you have had a nice Sunday …with lots of playtime and giggles ….

It’s been a really nice day here again , I have been out to the Mall to do some Birthday gift shopping for the Big bash next weekend , I must say I am really looking forward to seeing all the old friends whom I have not seen for many , many years……

I looked today again for some Easter cards for you both but still no luck so it seems that I will have to get my glue stick out and go buy some pasta and glitter , lol ….. I thought by now I would be able to get some but as I have said before we are not so big on sending cards here thus I guess no demand …. I did see lots of chocolate bunnies but they I am sure will be a little stale by the time you turn 18 and we meet again ……

Have some running around to do later in next week in the City , so that should be fun , I think I have forgotten what it is like to sit and struggle in traffic …..

I have not had much time to work on the blog and Facebook pages today but I see the blog is at 12000 views more than 60 Countries and around 380 comments so it seems to be hitting top ranking on Google, Yahoo and Bing search , thus you two should be able to find me when the time comes with great ease know … I see loads of people have been sharing and viewing your Birth certificates so that is a very good footprint also I think ……

Well Champs I just want to wish you both a great week with lots of learning and safe happy loved times ……

Can’t wait to see you both tonight again as always under our big old green tree in dreamland …hope you have big dream cuddles and smiles for me ….

Night , night little men …..pleasant dreams of better safe fun days to come …

Love you both big truck loads full and miss you extra much more ….

Love you little men….always …

Dad xx