Daily update for my Boys 29 May 2015

  

Hello Big Guys ! 
Well the weekend is here ! The pic above is me …weekend ready 😄… 
Hope you muppets have had a nice day and perhaps some sunshine at some point lol 

Heading out for Dinner in a bit thus I thought best to say a quick hello as I am not sure what time I will get back.

Had a great trip this morning on the new high speed train ,felt like a flight to be honest , don’t think I have ever been on the new trains before or at least not what I can remember.

Need to go to the office for a couple of hours in the morning , loads to do before the new products go live in all the stores but should be fun to see this 3 year project showing some major results 🎉👍 , I think the lads are not so happy as all the new projects seems to have closed in the last 2 weeks but hey as I told them today it’s the best kind of problem to have.

O I almost forgot to tell you both , as Jayne and cafcass is not allowing me to send you both any more gifts or things you want since 13 May , and seeing they both say my gifts for you are inappropriate I decided to go all out and bought Ouma a brand new Fiat 500 1.4 auto , full leather , Ferrari red with a private reg that is OLIOSC – GP , your savings account has taken a 15000 pound hit but I guess you both will never get to use or benefit from the funds so now at least each day when Ouma goes mingling she can think of you both and remember your kindness as I told her when she goes to collect it you muppets bought it for her and I took a red one as I think that is the one you both would have liked most 😄

I will get her to send us some pictures when she goes and collects it when they are back in Pretoria 
Well Champs , hope you both will have sweet safe , happy dreams and as always I can’t wait to see you both a little later under our big old green tree in dreamland for some big bear dream cuddles 
Night , night , love you to the moon and back a billion times and miss you more 
Love you always Little Men ….
Dad xoxo 

Identifying Pathology

Dr. Craig Childress: Attachment Based "Parental Alienation" (AB-PA)

I recently heard (secondhand) a critique by a mental health professional about an attachment-based model of “parental alienation.”  This mental health professional was apparently concerned about “labeling” the alienating parent’s pathology as being related to personality disorder processes (“Why do we need to “label” the parent as having a personality disorder?”)

I wish to take this opportunity to address this concern for “labeling” the pathology of the allied and supposedly favored parent.


Identifying pathology is the central and primary function of mental health professionals.

To say that we shouldn’t identify the nature and severity of psychological pathology is like saying the legal system shouldn’t identify the nature and severity of the violations of the law.

Judge: “I really feel uncomfortable labeling someone as a murderer. Can’t we just say they’re a doer of bad things?”

Psychologist: “I know the person has prominent hallucinations, delusions, and conceptual disorganization, but why do…

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