Monthly Archives: March 2014
Daily update for my Boys 19 March 2014
Hello Little men….
Hope you both are doing great and having a fun day …..
It’s been a bit of non productive day here in the end….I guess we all get days like this…feels like the world is in slow motion for some reason…at least the skies are blue and the Sun is shinning…. See you always need to look for the silver lining as there is always one to be found , that I believe….
Been thinking about you both lots today , I assume you have seen the message from Ouma on the blog …..breaks my heart but nothing I can do about it….this is how it is…..I think Ouma has been working on your life box also today ….sure you will get plenty of cards and letters one day to read should you two muppets choose to do so…..
I am typing mine as my handwriting is so poor you two I think will never be able to read it…lol , I know I should have been a doctor …… But don’t think I am sympathetic enough with sick people sometimes , I live by the idea if you are sick , go to the doctor or take a tablet and get on with it , guess that will be my down fall….
O I forgot to tell you both the domestic worker has gone missing the past two weeks now , I don’t know if she is ok or is she has decided to take a holiday without telling me ….hope she is ok , but if she is not back next week I think the lady from the ironing shop is going to think she won the a Lotto , lol….. They joys of home help in Africa …..
I wonder if you two are able to have some fun outside playtime now that the weather is better in the UK , I do hope you are taking B&B to the park daily now for some fun….sure they must be loving it also…..make sure you wipe their paws when you get back home so they don’t mess up the carpets …….
As I said yesterday tomorrow is bank holiday as you would call it , here …so no big plans…might have to sort some work stuff but am waiting for some info…if not we will tackle that next week again…..
O I have had to turn the Dubai phone off as your paid surrogates bank is phoning me 10 times a day because she is not paying her bills it seems , nothing changes with her, I have told them to phone her father and bank her security chqs so they can press criminal charges against her as I still think jail is the best place for her long term , not being horrible , just stating my opinion….
Well champs can’t wait to see you both later in dreamland under our big old green tree ….can’t wait for my dream cuddles and dream smiles…..
Night night champs , dream big and adventures…..
Love you both a billion tons and miss you a trillion tons more ….
Love you little men …..always …
Dad xx
A great video to watch re family law
Final Court order Little men……. So , so sorry….xxxx
Hello Little men…
Well we now have the Final Court order as you can see your alcoholic , drug addicted paid surrogate Jayne Elizabeth Ferreira aka Jayne Elizabeth McClure is not willing for me to be a normal part of your lives until you are 18 , now I know I will not be here anymore by then so I really hope you get to read this one day and that this horrible women has a good explanation for what she has done to your lives ……… And the continued Child Abuse her , her family , Cafcass and the Courts are going to inflict on you both for the rest of your lives….
Just always know this has come to this point as your paid surrogate, CAFCASS and the Court wants to treat me like a criminal which I am not and can’t except, as they have no evidence but the drunk delusions of the paid surrogate and her horrid alcoholic father Steve McClure and the fact that they are English and I am a foreigner……
Just always know , I tried , Ouma tried , Oupa tried but I guess the paid surrogate got what she always wanted as she could not do it by herself due to her serious STD infections she carried all of her adult life ……
Breaks my heart little men but as I have said for as long as I am able to I will be writing your daily updates and hope that you both will know how much I love you and all the other people also whom the surrogate and her family have decided to cut out of your lives as they do not want to face the Truth…..
Love you both with all my heart and sole little men ….always ….
Dad xx
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Some good foot print posts Little men….xx
What I asked the High Court for in Feb Little men …….
In The Lancaster High Court Case Number: LA13P00059
24 February 2014
In the matter of the Children Act 1989
And in the matter of Oliver James and Oscar Alexander born 20 May 2011
Between: Whilhelm Philippus Ferreira Applicant
AND
Jayne Elizabeth Ferreira Respondent
AND
Oscar and Oliver Ferreira Second Respondents
(Children by their r16.4 Children’s guardian Peter Morley)
Position Statement for hearing 28 February 2014 by HHJ Singleton QC at the High Court Blackburn.
Statement to confirm goals of Mr. WP Ferreira for this listed hearing
I Whilhelm Philippus Ferreira of a confidential address Will STATE as follows:
I make this statement pursuant to the upcoming hearing on 28 February 2014 listed in front of HHJ Singleton QC in the High Court Blackburn, I have prepared this statement personally and as such it will be submitted to the Court and other respondents by email.
I have now had the opportunity to have sight of the statements from the respondents and as such felt it necessary to clearly set out the goals I would like this listed hearing to achieve in the matter of Contact with our Children.
Further to the final order made by this Court on 29 November 2013 and updated on 5 December 2013 I confirm that I have no objection to the contact being suggested between me and our boys to take place four times per year, the original order does not give clarity on the duration of the suggested contact nor the venue and required agreements to make the proposed contact happen.
As such I would like the Court to clarify this issue and would like to make the following suggestions / requests in this regard;
1. Contact to take place four times a year for 4 to 5 consecutive days, thus allowing the contact to be beneficial to our boys to allow them to develop a normal relationship with me and not cause them distress or confusion on what my role in their lives is in fact.
2. I should be allowed to include my parents, the boys nominated Godparents and or possible new partner in any and all contact relating to our boys.
3. Contact should be allowed unsupervised or by a mutually agreed party by myself and the care giver.
4. As the boys are still young this contact should be allowed for half days, either morning or afternoon or alternated during the 4 to 5 day period whiles I will be in the UK.
5. All contact dates until the age of 6 should be agreed in Court today if possible and recorded in full detail thus allowing me to enforce committal of the care giver should she once again decide to ignore the contact order. After this period I suggest we return to Court to set out the full details for the following 5 years thus limiting the time and costs spent by all parties in making additional applications to the Court.
6. The care giver should not be allowed to remove or travel with our boys from the UK without confirming dates and destinations with myself until our boys are 16 years old.
7. As the boys get older contact should be extended to overnight stays in a hotel once the boys are able to understand the change of environment, I would suggest this is a possibility from the age of 5 or 6 years old.
8. Once the boys start School contact can be arranged during the School holidays but for the next 4 years I do not see the logic of this being only allowed during school holidays and as such will come at a massive premium when you look at traveling costs during the suggested Holiday periods.
9. Skype/ phone contact should be included twice a week for 15 minutes with myself and my parents to help the boys develop a relationship with myself and my extended family which would be normal. As the boys get older the Court order should allow for email contact if the boys choses to do so.
10. Birthdays should be agreed on a yearly alternating schedule thus allowing myself and my family to be allowed to share in special days with the boys.
11. Christmas holidays should be agreed on a yearly alternating schedule thus allowing myself and my family to be allowed to share in special days with the boys.
12. Indirect contact should be allowed by way of post and gift delivery service on the alternating years for Birthdays and Christmas thus once again to allow myself and my family to develop a normal relationship with the boys.
13. By the age of 6 or 7 years old I would like the boys to be allowed to be taken on extended days for Holiday outings within the UK at agreed Holiday parks or venues by myself and my family.
14. By the age of 9 or 10 I would like to be able to travel with the boys to South Africa to allow them to meet their extended family and learn a little of the culture and heritage this Court is depriving them from having as toddlers.
15. I would like to receive copies of all written reports in regards to the boy’s medical issues and Schooling.
16. I would like to be provided with any School or extra-curricular activities thus being given the opportunity to be allowed to show my support and participate should this be practically possible.
17. As the boys get older they should be allowed free and daily contact with me and my family should they choose to do so.
18. By the age of 10 or 12 the Court and Cafcass should allow the boys the option to decide if they would like to continue residing with the care giver or if they would prefer to come and reside with myself.
19. The boys should be allowed to exercise their Human Rights to have South African passports and as such dual nationality ASAP.
20. By the age of 16 the boys should be provided with a full set of documents in regards to this case for them to see the actions and behaviors of both myself and their care giver in their early years.
21. All Schools , Doctors and supplementary care givers should be mutually agreed by myself and the care giver as to ensure that the welfare of the boys are always placed first.
22. Until the boys are of an age that they are able to provide updates themselves I would like to have monthly updates with photo’s but I do not wish to receive this information if the care giver is being forced to provide this by way of a Court order as this would not be fair to expected her to do so long term, as such this needs to be done out of her own free will as a loving and caring care giver wanting to share the achievements and development progress of our boys.
23. I do not want Mr. Steve Mcclure to have any form of contact with our boys until the Court and CAFCASS have done a full risk and psychological evaluation to confirm he is a safe and mentally competent 70 year old to be allowed around our boys as I have very serious concerns about this man that I have continued to bring to the Courts attention since April 2013, but no action or investigation has in fact been done to secure our boys from this man. He should not be allowed after this to drive or be left alone with our boys at all.
24. I would request the Court to put a long term plan in place as stated above thus ensuring that we do not need to return to Court on an ongoing basis to address the issues relating to contact and our boys developing a stable normal relationship with both myself and my family.
25. I would like the Court to ensure that there is NO requirement for contact between myself and the care giver in regards to contact after this hearing or matters relating to our boys. As such I suggest the Court appoints Mr. & Mrs. McClelland the boys Godparents as the only point of contact between myself and the care giver should a requirement arise at any point until the boys are 16 years old at which point they will be able to make the required arrangements with me directly.
26. I would the Court to give consideration to the independent psychological report provided by Mr. Henk Swanepoel when making final directions in this matter.
Kind Regards,
WP Ferreira
Control Games with Words
A good article on PAS …
If you fear having feelings independent of and in opposition to one of your parents and becoming a target of rejection you’ve seen him or her direct at others who disagree, you’re likely being manipulated.
You (or a friend) may have a parent who is so controlling and possessive, he or she will want to cut those you love (or once loved) out of your life. This hurts. It hurts because, among other things, it’s not loving. It’s called Parental Alienation, and some experts call it “the worst form of child abuse.” 
Tragically, some parents will use the following to cut your other parent out of your life:
guilt (e.g., “I don’t know why your father left us; everything seemed okay”);
intimidation (e.g., “Go to your mother’s if you want, but you are not to hug her cute little boyfriend anymore. Do you understand?”);
fear (e.g., “I just want you kids to know that I’11 be here the whole time…
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Daily update for my Boys 18 March 2014
Hello little men….
How are my muppets doing this afternoon ?….I hope great …
Well it’s been a nice day here , still a little cloudy but no rain so that’s good …
I went out this morning to help Oupa with some things he had to sort on the small show bike he restored … The rest of the day has been a bit of a lazy one if I am honest ….not feeling great … So just been taking it easy….
Ouma packed all the Court stuff at her house , so this is also now all boxed and ready for you both to read one day should you wish to do so….
O I gave Ouma the cordless phones from the house …I think there is still a message on of you two monkeys picking up the phone and giggling and playing in the back ground …..guess she will keep that always to know what you both sound like …..
It’s long weekend here this week , well actually Thursday is public holiday but it seems most people are taking Friday off also …. I think it is Human rights day here if I have it right ……
If I am feeling better tomorrow I think I will go to the Mall a bit , maybe take in a movie and a banana muffin ….yum , yum ……
I need to get the 4 x4 washed also as it is covered in mud from going to the dam the weekend but I have been putting it of until I know the rain is gone as knowing my luck , we will get a storm the minute I drive off from the car wash…..
Been missing you both lots today , all your picture frames have now been unpacked also , the picture are from your School in Horam so they are more then a year old now already , but they still make me smile each time I walk into my bedroom and I see them …..
I hope you have chosen your favourite toy already to take to hospital Olibear on friday …..thinking off you lots just really sorry your paid surrogate is not allowing me , Ouma and Oupa to wish you luck for the operation…but just know our thoughts are with you ..I know it will all go well….
O and I hope you have made a list of fun things you want to do on Friday also Oscar as I am sure you will be left in the care of your paid surrogates child abusing family ….or even the old drunk …really sorry that you are stuck with these horrible people …… Hope you will be ok being left with these child abusers and drunks for a whole day ……
I have gone to look twice now also for some nice Easter cards for you both but the shops don’t have any yet , I guess as far as I know Easter is not really a holiday we send cards for in South Africa thus I might have to get my glue stick and colouring pencils out to make you both some cards …maybe some chic feathers and macaroni is the way to go …lol , I was always really bad at these type of things in school and as a child but hey for you two I am happy to try and have a go but you both are not allowed to laugh at my handy work….lol
Well champs as always I will see you both a little later under our big old green tree in dream land ….can’t wait for my little man double cuddles and dream smiles …..
Night , night my little big dreamers ……sleep well
Love you both around the world and back and miss you lots and lots and lots more …..
Love you always little men…
Dad xx

























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