Monthly Archives: December 2013

Daily Update 8 Dec 2013

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Hello Little O’s

How are you two doing today, I hope very well..

Well I can’t believe tomorrow is the start of a new week again, really feels like this whole year has been a bit of a blur with all the issues we have had to endure but I guess such is life.

I have to still pack as I need to leave before 5am for the airport again as I said yesterday I really hope this is the last trip for this year….

So what did you two funny monkeys get up to today ? whatever it was I hope you had fun as little men should.

O before I forget as suspected mum has closed her ‘ Top secret’ email id down as I emailed her as I said I would each Sunday but the mail came back to say the mail box does not exist, I guess this is how she is now trying to practice even more parental alienation, I have sent a copy to your Solicitor and CAFCASS to show them than mum is already ignoring the UK Courts already again , but I guess I knew her and Steve would do this,

So boys I have emailed you a copy of the email asking mum re you both and giving her my thoughts on Oliver’s operation , but I guess she has no regard for your pain Oliver only her own ego to proof a point, all bit silly if you ask me , but hey that’s mum for you…no regard for your needs and wants boys…. story of my life having lived with her for 5 years so I feel your pain….

I am not sure what time I will be able to post tomorrow but will do so before I go to bed , I promise..

I hope you two will have a great week at school and all the other things you might be doing , I am sure you must be starting to get excited that Santa will be coming to visit you both shortly , but remember you need to be good boys or he might skip mum’s house in Chester.

As always pals I hope to see you both a little later under our big old green tree in dream land … can’t wait to see your dream smiles and give you both a double little man dream cuddle….

Sleep well champs , sweet happy dreams , night , night …

I miss and love you both so very much each day and everyday …….

 

Love you boys …

 

Dad xx   

 

Daily update 7 Dec 2013

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Hello Champs,

How are my two monkeys doing today , I hope great….

Well I am home at last, but not for long can’t believe I need to pack a bag tomorrow again as I am traveling Monday for 2 days again, after this I really hope I am going to be home for a while for the Holidays to spend some time with friends and family, just really sad thinking about the fact that I have no clue what you two are planning or doing for the Holidays but whatever and wherever you are I am sure it will be great fun as little boys 3rd Christmas should be.

I can’t believe how nice the weather is here at the moment you two would have loved playing outside in the Sun and swimming pool. I hope Chester is not to bad and that you both are keeping warm…..

I here mum is posting loads of pictures of you both on Facebook so am pretty sure one of her ‘friends’ will send some on to me, I personally still think she is a bit silly to not even allow me to see what you look like, a bit sad to be honest but I guess as you both would know by now , no surprise there.. LOL

I have been looking at Amazon to see what I could have gotten you for Christmas if I was allowed to send you a gift , I still wonder if you got the huge train town table set thing I sent you a couple of weeks ago to Steve’s house as mum never said , maybe she is keeping it for you for Christmas , that would be nice to know that you were at least able to get something from me , but then again knowing mum and her dad they would have just put it in the bin as they would rather make you suffer and not have fun then for you to know I am part of your lives… all part of the big ‘least wipe daddy away plan’

You know what boys as much as they will keep trying to make you forget me the harder I will fight to make you aware of who I am and that I will always be here for you both no matter what….

Going to see friends of mine tomorrow Jaco & Janine, the have a little champ that is about 3 months older than you , he reminds me so much of you both so really looking forward to meeting the little man for the 1st time , I will send you some pictures tomorrow.

I will write to mum also tomorrow on her ‘TOP Secret’ email that I am allowed to use to ask about you both as I said I will do each Sunday but as normal I still have not had any response from mum on my email to you all last week Sunday , so let’s see ….

Well little pals I hope you two had a fun day , maybe mum took you to the Zoo again in Chester to see the wild animals as I know how much you love them , I wonder if she put the Lion King head up Oupa made you or if she put that in the bin also…

As each and every night I hope to see you both a little later under our big old green tree in dream land for my double O’s cuddles and smiles….. keep me a nice spot please ….

Boys I miss and love you both so very much words can not describe the hurt I feel each and every moment of each day not knowing how you are and that you are ok…maybe one day hey? …..

Night, night champs , sweet happy place dream please ……

Love you both big truck loads full always….

Dad xx

6 Dec 2013 – Daily update

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Hello Little Men,

How are you two doing today. I really hope well…

Well I have had fun and games to say the least today to try and set up this blog , and one of the photo’s are still defaulting to a standard picture not sure why , but I guess I will learn over time.

I hope you two had a nice day at school with all you little friends and had loads of learning and fun, I am sure you must be making Christmas cards this week, I still have the ones you made last year which was just a dry leave and a hand print , lol , I guess this years one will be even better , perhaps even with you names on.

I guess mum will not send me one this year but I know in my heart that you two would have made me one, so no worries.

I hope you two got your cards I posted to S’s house last week when I was in the UK , really sorry that mum is not allowing me to send you any gifts but I guess from now on I will send you ‘ I owe you’s’ to your email accounts should we ever be allowed to see each other again.

I see on BBC news the weather has not been so good around Chest I hope you both are wrapping up warm and yes I mean even you Oscar I know you don’t like your coat but you need to wear it , Oliver please keep telling him bbrrrrr its cold like you use to do , maybe one day he will listen and keep his coat on.

Pals I have heard no more yet from the Court today if they are going to give us a date next year again for this contact battle to continue , so lets hope , I will keep you posted as I might be allowed to see you both the day before again like last week.

I have mailed mum to ask if I may see you both on Christmas day as the current Court order says I may only see you four times a year but as normal mum has not responded and her and her father are ignoring the UK Courts once again, nothing new then boys hey , lol

So pals I have a busy week a head with work next week but as always will write each day but as I said to you in my email last night I will now use this blog and  not just your gmail accounts , there must be away how I can email these on or post them to your account, will have to look around and see if I can find out how to do that.

So my little O’s as each night for the past 10 months I hope to see you both a little later under our big old green tree in dream land for some dream little men cuddles and smiles…….

Night , night champs , sweet happy place dreams……

I miss and love you both so very much , to the moon and back in fact ……

Love you always pals …

Dad xx

My first try at the blog thing boys , for My Twin boys

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This is my first post to tell the world the story of my little boys and the struggle with their Mum , CAFCASS and The High Court in the UK

Boys I know you are very small and it might only be many, many years before you get to read this blog , but I honesty hope you get to do so one day as this is all I have been left with to try an keep contact with you both after the games JEF your mum , her father SM and her Brother SM has played to keep me from having any form of normal contact with you both.

Champs as far as I know today 5 Dec 2013 you are both being kept hostage by your mum in Chester near where her brother Simon also stays. Since I left mum on 1 April 2013 because of all the abuse I had suffered under her and her fathers hand , they have only allowed me to see you 4 times for 2 hours at a time.

I have been fighting in the UK courts since April this year to get to have a normal relationship with you but mum and her dad have lied and played the victim so well that Mr PM from CAFCASS and Judge S and your own solicitor Miss BB all believe I am crazy for trying so hard to stay in your lives , they are all backing mum so she can get state benefits in the UK while she keeps control of you both as she is to lazy to work and at the end of the day this will mean that you both will be deprived of so many opportunities due to mum not willing to stop drinking and taking pain killers , but PM from CAFCASS and the Judge all thinks this makes mum the best person to care for you , I guess it because I am South African as they have shown zero concern for your human rights only mums wallet as normal.

You might not know but I have created email accounts for you both on 20 April and have been writing to you both each day as it seems its the only way we get to spend a little bit of time with one another , I have also sent all the legal stuff to your accounts so should you wish one day to read the truth behind all of this and the fact that your Daddy has been taken away from you, you will be able to do so.

Boys I will use this blog going forward for your daily emails also and should I maybe get a photo of you from friends.

Boys just always remember I have never walked away from you and will continue this fight for you until the end of my time…

I miss and love you both so very much pals , breaks my heart that I am not even allowed to say hello to you on the phone or Skype

Love you both truck loads full …

Dad xx