Daily update for my Boys 3 Jan 2014

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Hello Little O’s

How are my muppets doing today ? I hope fantastic ! ….

Boys I see there is a huge amount of bad weather warnings out all over the UK again today , so I really hope you both are safe , warm and looked after……. All I can do is hope ……

It’s a really nice day here again , not as hot as what they said yesterday but really nice , Ouma and I have been shopping , looks like most people are still on Holiday today as the shops are mega busy … I guess it’s all back to normal next week ! I saw some really cool school bags today but was not sure if I should get them for you as I don’t know what you are allowed at your school…or even where your school is ….

O before I forget I was standing in line to pay at one of the clothing shops and I saw twin boys they must have been about 11 I guess , one also blond and one dark and the one had a shirt he wanted to buy I guess for a school dance or something so his brother came back and he had the exact same shirt , I thought the blond boy was going to go mad , they spoke Afrikaans but He said to his brother ‘ listen we are twins I know that and you are my best friend but that does not mean we have to look like freaks ! Mum said we should buy what we each like , so stop copying me please! ‘

I had to smile as I guess that will be you two in a couple of years … The dark haired boy came back a couple of minutes later with the same shirt again just a different colour and his brother then seemed ok with the idea….boys I spend each thinking about how your little personalities are developing and how badly you both will be affected by the people who are around you each day !but as I have said before no matter what just always make sure you look out for each other no matter what your ‘family’ tries to do to you …..stand your ground for what is right …..

The weekend is here again believe it or not , I don’t have any major plans , I think Ouma and Oupa wants to go for dinner , that’s about it …need to catch up on some work stuff also and get the Court papers file sorted ,I am using Ouma’s new Hoover box to store it all in for you can’t believe it’s more than 8000 pages already and we still have a long way to go boys … So as and when you are ready you will have to take a week to sit down and read this all…if you want…

Boys not sure what your big plans are for the weekend but I hope it is safe , warm and fun , I suspect there might be a little bit of tension around you this weekend but you know what people need to know the truth ! People can only hide their real personalities and life style for so long until they get exposed for what they really are … You two will understand this one day ! I think the lesson here is be yourself always , if people don’t like it tuff , but never try and be a two face as it always , always bites you in the end ……

I asked your ‘spokesperson’ if I can see you both on 27 Feb the day before we go back to Court and 20 May on your birthday as I was not allowed to see you for Christmas or New Year , I am sure they will ignore the request again as they did for Christmas but I guess if you give a monkey enough rope he will hang himself ……

Well little boys I will see you both a little later under our big old green tree in dreamland , can’t wait to give you both a huge cuddle and tell you how much I miss and love you both….

Night , night Champs , sweet happy weekend dreams ….

Miss and love you both big oil tankers full and miss you more …

Love you pals …

Dad xx

Daily update for my Boys 2 Jan 2014

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Hello Boys …

Happy 2nd Jan 2014 .. Lol , hope you two are doing really well…

I had a lovely day , we had a surprise visit from some family friends the Koekemoers , with their 2 little men , or I guess not so little now , the last time I saw them was a couple of months before you were born when I was home the last time .. The boys are lovely , makes me smile when they call me Oom ( uncle ) such a South African thing but I guess we have all been brought up always with that respect for people that are older than you , makes me sad knowing that you two might never have that in your life growing up in the UK ,

Been a fantastic day here weather wise also but looks like the next couple of days are going to be extremely hot ! Not going to be fun ….

O i had a email from one of my old friends from Dubai , they stay in Namibia now , they have a little boy that is a little younger than you both , I am going to try and go see them end of Jan or Middle Feb if my schedule allows as I have not seen them in about 4 years also now … Should be a fun trip ….

I started work on my Jan travel schedule looks like it is going to be a busy month but productive and I guess it keeps my mind of this mess us 3 are living each day ….

I guess you two must be doing your back to school shopping this week now as I assume you are going back to school next week , you two must be well excited to see your little friends again and get back to some fun learning activities …..

My friend Renette is getting married tomorrow , or I guess rather having her wedding party , I have not been able to make it to Cape Town to see them , I am a bit disappointed about it , but was just not able to get it arranged , you two might not remember her but I have some lovely pictures of her with you two when you were a couple of months old .. Her sister has twin boys also so I know she has a soft spot for you two , regardless of being not so happy with me for not making the wedding party…..

I am not sure what you two have got going on for the weekend but I hope it will be packed with loads of fun , smiles and happy time … And that it is not toooooo colddddddd… Lol

Champs I will see you both a little later under our big old green tree in dream land , keep me a nice spot … Can’t wait to see you both and hold you for a minute ……

Love you both to the moon and back a billion x 90000000000000 times and miss you more …

Night , night my little Super Stars …. Happy warm cosy dreams …..

Love you lots pals ….

Dad xx

Daily update for my Boys 1 Jan 2014

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Hello my little O’s

Hope you two have had a great start to 2014 …..

Well as you can see I have had a busy day on the blog , learned loads… Had some very interesting emails about a Channel 4 documentary being done re Family Law in the UK and child contact , looks like this will be a great way for us to promote our fight for a normal relationship…..

I am so surprised about all the random support that is coming in for this battle , your blog had 2002 visitors today an all time high for the 4 weeks since I started doing it , it just shows me how many people care about you and love you and how many people ,mums and dads are going down the same road and have the same issues ….. Least we are not alone , hey boys ….

You will see the video of the young lady that is now living with her Dad for 2 years , I must say it brought a tear to my eye , yes I know I am a softy … Lol ,maybe one day boys … Who knows….

Well since I got up this morning I have been dealing with all the posts , emails and YouTube links I have been sent … Looks like this is now becoming a full time job for me , but you know what if our fight helps one other child to have a normal stable relationship with his or hers mum or dad then it’s all been worth the effort …. We as mums and dads and children who are living these battles are the only people that will be able to bring the change by speaking up and to continue the fight no matter what … Always remember that ….

So I assume you to monkeys have had a lazy day also playing at home or maybe you went to the Zoo again , whatever you did I hope it was mega fun and safe ……

O before forget in added a couple of pictures I have been sent which I thought was very appropriate to out situation … Hope you both also think the baby ones are a little funny … I did , lol

I guess you would have received the wildlife DVDs by now , I really hope you both like them….

Well little champs as always I will see you both a little later under our big old green tree in dream land … Can’t wait to give you both a huge jungle bear cuddle and wish you a happy new year again and tell you both how much I miss and love you … Always in my thoughts each minute of each day ….

Night , night little Lion King fans , sweet happy jungle dreams ….

Love you both so , so much ….. Miss you champs ….

Dad xx

A message from Ouma and Oupa boys

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Hello Little men ,

Ouma and Oupa wanted to post this for you but I am not sure how to do it , lol I know I know , I am sure you two can show me in one second ….

“Oscar and Oliver with broken hearts we just want to forward this little message to you both for New Year. You are always in our thoughts and prayers. Maybe one day in the future we will have contact. Love you forever and a day. From Ouma and Oupa in a far , far away country.
Xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx”

Night , night pals …

Love you Dad xxx