Random Thoughts

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So most days I have non-stop thoughts and worries about things that have happened during the past 20 months or more. Usually random and often triggered by something or other. I want it all documented. I want others to be informed and I also want my daughter to see it someday when she is old enough. She is entitled to know the truth of what has happened to us. But, most times, I just can’t sit down and write out long blog posts. I am too drained, too sad and too depleted with all that has happened. So, I have decided that I will start doing short random blog posts for those thoughts and worries. They may be random and / or off topic at times but I feel better once they are out there. I want everyone to know what my ex-husband, his new wife, this Judge and my former adoptive parents have…

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Parental Alienation Awareness Day is April 25, 2014

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This video simply and perfectly describes parental alienation and its effects. A local Texas mayor and Dr. Warshak give short speeches along with Wendy Archer. Please share to help educate others including Judges and other related “professionals” to this very manipulative, destructive and pervasive form of psychological and emotional child abuse.

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Daily update for my Boys 13 April 2014

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Good evening Little Men…

Hope you both are doing great and having a fantastic Sunday ! …

I have just gotten home been out with Ouma and Oupa today …and yes we had some hot cross buns , even have some spare for midnight nibbles …lol

Just had a call from the Jenkings five , they are also going to their house at the dam next weekend , not the same dam as where Gerhard stays so I will have to split my weekend between the two , I think it will be very nice to spend some time with the twins and their big sister… They remind me so much of you both , makes me sad and happy at the same time ….. Still can’t believe you all are turning 3 in the next two or 3 months ….lots of birthday parties and plenty of cake ahead it seems.

I think little Mr Marx is first on 21 April , then you both on 20 May and the Jenkings twins on 8 June I think ….funny how you all were born so close to each other ….I think you two would have been great mates with these 3 , it would be hilarious to hear the 5 of you speak English-Afrikaans mix to each other …..maybe one day ….who knows what the future holds …..

Need to catch up on some email , work and your Story , I see the 4 Facebook pages and your blog had loads of traffic today …. Lots of new people supporting the cause and sharing their stories …… Least we are not alone in dealing with a parental alienator ,champs ….the world seems to be full of them , mums and dads …..each have their reasons to try and control but they all seem to forget who suffers the Child abuse ….the little ones …and it lasts a life time by some of the stories I have read on the Facebook pages….

Well muppets , I hope you both will have a great week full of giggles and lots of learning , hope you both are ready for the Easter bunny ….sure he might have some treats for you both….

Can’t wait to see you monkeys later under our big old green tree in dream land …packing big fury bunny cuddles for you both ….

Night , night little men ….bid dreams of better days ….

Love you both lots and lots and miss you both big lots more …..

Love you Champs …..always …

Dad xx

Your blog update Little Men….

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Your blog is hitting 14000 views today …. 🙂

Top Views by Country for all days ending 2014-04-13 (Summarized)

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Happy Birthday

A big Happy Birthday Tela ! Your blog and kind words are what we all are grateful for 🙂 hope you are having a fantastic day … Take Care Phill

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……to me ^^’^^’

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This is a big birthday. I think some refer to this as the transition from 30 something to middle age?My 30’s were terrific, hell, everyday is terrific!

“Most of us can remember a time when a birthday – especially if it was one’s own – brightened the world as if a second sun has risen.” 😎  thomas moore

Each year on my birthday I try and take a look back at myself and the year that’s behind me as well as the one that lies ahead. I do this more on my birthday than on New Year’s, as {resolutions} are easily made and just as easily broke by April :D. Reflecting on this past year, I can say there were definitely some craptastic days! Some better than other days, and some fabulous days! However, there was an abundance of personal growth, an increased awareness…

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Is It a Bad Thing to Want to Give Our Kids a Magical Childhood?

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Last week, a blog post went viral about why parents should stop trying to give their kids a magical childhood. 

One of my friends shared it on her Facebook wall and yesterday a speaker at a sustainability conference even recommended it, saying that parents today spend too much time “on those things like Pinterest” and “working so hard to make their children’s live magical.”

“They’re just making their own lives harder,” she scoffed, “trying to make everything perfect.”

Then she said it’s because we mothers are addicted to stress.

Yes, it turns out we secretly like stress and so the quest to make childhood fun is some deep, psychological quest to make ourselves unhappy.

Or something like that.  I had a really hard time understanding the logic in any of it.

These people seem to completely miss the point about what makes a childhood magical, and why some of us…

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