Author Archives: Phill Ferreira
Statement and attachments for the Court 28 May 2014 , Little Men part 1
I Love It When You Call Me A Bitch
My ex use to turn to name calling and swearing also always , must admit I never got that as I was taught having to revert to swearing shows your inability to have a logical argument or debate, her whole family likes doing it also , just sad our little men are being kept hostage in this type of environment!
…….like it’s a bad thing!
This is just one of a litany of colourful words a narcissist sociopath will use. Their vocabulary can be quite eloquent at times. However, when they are caught in a lie, feel like they are loosing control, or ready to be done with you, a whole other vocabulary comes out. Remember the hearts & flowers conversations at the beginning of the relationship? They were establishing a bank full of information only to be cashed out and used against you later.
So why do we keep going back? Why is it so difficult to walk away, or leave a narcissist and sociopath? They have an ability to prey on our emotions, our mental and spiritual stability, and our sense of self-worth. They can build you up, only to rip your heart to shreds. When they call you names, it is as if you need to defend…
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Daily update for my Boys 15 April 2014
Hello Little Men!
How are you monkeys today ? I hope well and safe ….
It’s been a funny day here , it looked like rain since this morning but nothing …it’s very dark outside now already , a bit early if you ask me but it might be a sign of a very cold winter ahead as I told you both before very cold here is like your Summer ! Lol ….
Got lots done today …in between watching the Oscar trial …he is off the stand now but I still can’t see when this trial will come to an end as they have asked for a two week stay on proceedings again ….
I started with n161 forms today for court for the judicial review of your case , I also think social services will now after a year get involved and do their own investigation in regards to the incompetence of Mr Peter Morey from Cafcass and the tailoring of the evidence that he thus far have decided to use and the serious issues he has ignored to cover up his lack of care for you both …. Would be interesting to see what the outcome will be as social services are now in a corner as they have not responded to anyone of my four calls made to them re the child abuse you are suffering daily and the serious risk the paid surrogate and her family poses to you and your future.
Not much more news here champs today , so as always I will see you both a little later under our big old green tree in dreamland …I found a new picture today of our trees ….. Can’t wait for my dream bear cuddles …..
Night , night Little Men … Dream big of better days …soon …
Love you both to the moon and back and miss you lots more …
Dad xx
Have your Say on Family Court……………!
Some great morning Footprints Little Men …xx
This article is worth a read in the Daily Mail
#PAS or Parental Alienation is Child Abuse!
One for the Mcclure family little men..lol !
A Victims Traits
What an accurate perspective Tela , thank you 🙂
…. These are a few personality traits that persons with Narcissistic Personality Disorder and Sociopaths are attracted to. Followed by traits after being involved with these people. These are not solely the type of people they target, as their ruthlessness knows no boundaries. You do not necessarily need to have any of these traits to become entangled with a sociopath, narcissist or psychopath. These are the pre-relationship traits;
- wanting to please
- lack of or low self-esteem
- nurturing
- difficulty establishing and sticking to boundaries
- wanting to be loved; being lonely
- stability in your career
- large circle of family & friends
- wanting to be rescued from your life situation
- accepting a persons bad characteristics & thinking you can change them
- easily influenced by other’s
- independent, yet wanting a partner
- wanting to have an affair
These traits above can describe just about anyone on the planet. There is something with one or more…
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