Author Archives: Phill Ferreira
I Love It When You Call Me A Bitch
My ex use to turn to name calling and swearing also always , must admit I never got that as I was taught having to revert to swearing shows your inability to have a logical argument or debate, her whole family likes doing it also , just sad our little men are being kept hostage in this type of environment!
…….like it’s a bad thing!
This is just one of a litany of colourful words a narcissist sociopath will use. Their vocabulary can be quite eloquent at times. However, when they are caught in a lie, feel like they are loosing control, or ready to be done with you, a whole other vocabulary comes out. Remember the hearts & flowers conversations at the beginning of the relationship? They were establishing a bank full of information only to be cashed out and used against you later.
So why do we keep going back? Why is it so difficult to walk away, or leave a narcissist and sociopath? They have an ability to prey on our emotions, our mental and spiritual stability, and our sense of self-worth. They can build you up, only to rip your heart to shreds. When they call you names, it is as if you need to defend…
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Daily update for my Boys 15 April 2014
Hello Little Men!
How are you monkeys today ? I hope well and safe ….
It’s been a funny day here , it looked like rain since this morning but nothing …it’s very dark outside now already , a bit early if you ask me but it might be a sign of a very cold winter ahead as I told you both before very cold here is like your Summer ! Lol ….
Got lots done today …in between watching the Oscar trial …he is off the stand now but I still can’t see when this trial will come to an end as they have asked for a two week stay on proceedings again ….
I started with n161 forms today for court for the judicial review of your case , I also think social services will now after a year get involved and do their own investigation in regards to the incompetence of Mr Peter Morey from Cafcass and the tailoring of the evidence that he thus far have decided to use and the serious issues he has ignored to cover up his lack of care for you both …. Would be interesting to see what the outcome will be as social services are now in a corner as they have not responded to anyone of my four calls made to them re the child abuse you are suffering daily and the serious risk the paid surrogate and her family poses to you and your future.
Not much more news here champs today , so as always I will see you both a little later under our big old green tree in dreamland …I found a new picture today of our trees ….. Can’t wait for my dream bear cuddles …..
Night , night Little Men … Dream big of better days …soon …
Love you both to the moon and back and miss you lots more …
Dad xx
Have your Say on Family Court……………!
Some great morning Footprints Little Men …xx
This article is worth a read in the Daily Mail
#PAS or Parental Alienation is Child Abuse!
One for the Mcclure family little men..lol !
A Victims Traits
What an accurate perspective Tela , thank you 🙂
…. These are a few personality traits that persons with Narcissistic Personality Disorder and Sociopaths are attracted to. Followed by traits after being involved with these people. These are not solely the type of people they target, as their ruthlessness knows no boundaries. You do not necessarily need to have any of these traits to become entangled with a sociopath, narcissist or psychopath. These are the pre-relationship traits;
- wanting to please
- lack of or low self-esteem
- nurturing
- difficulty establishing and sticking to boundaries
- wanting to be loved; being lonely
- stability in your career
- large circle of family & friends
- wanting to be rescued from your life situation
- accepting a persons bad characteristics & thinking you can change them
- easily influenced by other’s
- independent, yet wanting a partner
- wanting to have an affair
These traits above can describe just about anyone on the planet. There is something with one or more…
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Daily update for my Boys 14 April 2014
Hello Little Men..
As we are at the start of yet one more week of no contact Champs I hope you both are safe and well…
Been a bit of a funny day here , I only woke up at 8 am , seems I needed a good nights rest …been on the phone with work calls most of the morning ..been out to the shops and a not so fun outing to the post office to pick up a parcel from the USA …hardly had time to keep an eye on the Oscar trial today …just watching the day summary on the live TV channel here …
I have found it very interesting what the psychologists are saying about trauma and abuse and how you are able to remember each detail of the event …funny how then your paid surrogate has a different story on each and every statement she has filed …some food for thought I think…. Not that I think it will make any difference to our Story at this stage seeing that the Judge admits she does not read anything … Least you both will be able to read this all when the time comes to make up your own minds ……
Makes me sad to know that when that time comes I will not be around for you both to be able to ask questions and help you understand , this blog and the legal files will be all that you will have and your paid surrogates version of the Truth ….. But it seems very clear that this is how this Child Abuser wants things of course with the support of her father and brother ….
It’s been a really dark and rainy day here , yet more of a realisation that winter is around the corner ……
I hope to finish the last bit of reports I have been working on tomorrow and then I have to go check on my visa’s etc for the next couple of weeks …..
Got the registered mail thing today also for your documents so will go try and pick those up this week …..
I hear you have been placed in the new school ,under your new top secret names …lol … I think the paid surrogate thinks she is a FBI witness not just a council estate drunk and drug addict …very amusing if I am honest …. As if I don’t know your Aunt has a new ( well almost a month now I think , maybe a bit longer ) car etc and all the other little details in your life …… I guess they whole of the Mcclure and O’Hanlon family members will get new identities also all our friends and contact from over the world and don’t forget Catherine and Lauren ……
Well Champs , hope you both will have a great week …..don’t eat to many mini Easter eggs …lol
Can’t wait to see you both later again under our big old green tree in dreamland , big fury Easter cuddles and smiles please …
Night , night little men , great big dreams of happy Child Abuse free days …
Love you both truck loads full and miss you earthmoving equipment size more …..
Love you …Champs …always ..
Dad xx
The Story of my Twin Boys Oliver and Oscar Ferreira 
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