Why Do Narcissists Cry at Movies?

Very , very true ….

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This is a popular search term with inquiring minds Googling the phrase about 357k times.  It’s also a common search that leads people to my site.  They want to know why the Narcissist cries at movies because it’s so out of character with what they know about their oft-cruel partner.

It goes something like this:

You’re sitting in the theater beside your Narcissist.  At the climax of the story line, two star-crossed lovers become separated when a mudslide rips through the hotel where they’re vacationing in Brazil.  You hear a small whimper and look over to see the Narcissist crying.  He or she might even grab your hand for effect.  You almost expect them to turn to you and say, “Just kidding…fooled ya!”, but their eyes remain glassy with welling tears.  You’re so busy analyzing this unexpected behavior that you find it hard to concentrate on…

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Just received little men from your Solicitor….

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In the High Court of Justice Family Division ​​Case Number: LA13P00159
Lancaster District Registry ​​​​

Between :-

Whilhelm Philippus Ferreira​
Applicant
And

Jayne Elizabeth Ferreira
First Respondent
And

Oscar Alexander Ferreira and Oliver James Ferreira
(Children through their r16.4 Guardian Peter Morey)

Second Respondents

Case Summary for Hearing on 2nd April 2014

The Court is concerned with Oscar and Oliver Ferreria, twin boys born on 20th May 2011. The boy’s parents are Whilhelm Philippus Ferreira (known as Phill) and Jayne Elizabeth Ferreria. The children are represented in these proceedings by their r16.4 Guardian Peter Morey.

Proceedings were issued by the Father on 7th May 2013, and were concluded by way of final order made on 29th November 2013 and 5th December 2013 (B50 and B56). The Father sought to set aside the final order, and the matter was listed to determine that application on 28th February 2014.

After hearing submissions from all parties, the Judge ordered that the Order be set to be set aside in so far as contact and exercise of parental responsibility was concerned. Although it was made clear that the matter would be listed for a contested final hearing at which the Father would have his opportunity to test the evidence, the Father elected not to pursue his application any further, other than to invite the Court to make an order for unsupervised contact immediately. The Father made his position clear that if that was not the Order of the Court, he did not intend to engage further either in the Court process or in supervised contact. In spite of the considerable efforts made by the Court and representatives on behalf of the children to organise contact during the course of the day long hearing, the Father remained resolute in his position.

Against that backdrop, the hearing concluded with an order that the father should have no direct contact with the children. The Mother was not required to send any further updates or photographs of the children to the Father (as had been provided in previous orders) as the Father indicated that he would post these to his ‘blog’ upon receipt. Arrangements were included in the order for the Father to send indirect contact to the children via a third party should he wish to do so, although the Father indicated he would not take up such contact, and to the writers knowledge, no indirect contact has been received since 28th February 2014.

A raft of other orders were made to deal with the various applications made by the parents, including a separate non-molestation order against the Father. It was intended that this would stand as the final order in the proceedings (B231).

On 19th March 2014, the Father sent an email to the Guardian, the Children’s solicitor and to the Court containing a link to his blog which showed that he had published the Order (save for page 1 of the substantive order) on his blog. In his email he stated ‘Please start the contempt of Court proceeding ASAP’ (C1)

On 20th March 2014, the Mother sent an email to the Court (C37) asking the post to be brought to the attention of Her Honour Judge Singleton, and in which she indicated that she had been subject to ongoing abuse from the Father on his online blog. She also indicated an intention to make a formal application to change the children’s surnames. No such application has been received as yet.

The matter is listed for a directions hearing ELH 1 hour at the volition of the Court. There is currently no live application before the Court on behalf of the Mother, Father or Children.
​​​​​​​​​Becky Butterfield
BSG Solicitors
27.03.14

Daily update for my Boys 28 March 2014

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Good evening Little Men ….

Hope you both are really well and had a great Friday …

Sorry I am a little late today , I have been trying to find some moped tires for Oupa’s new pet project …not as easy as it sounds …but looks like I have been able to track a replacement for the DKW motorcycle from Honda in the UK …now we need to just get a white wall version …. I will have to wait and see if the supplier can track some down for us ……

I had to go out this morning to sort some domestic stuff … Lol … I think the lady from the ironing shop thought she had hit the jackpot with 3 weeks worth of ironing as the domestic worker has still gone missing ….still have no clue if she is ok or if she just decided to find a easier job …lol …. As you both might recall I like things done in a certain way as that is how I was taught growing up …..

Still no luck on your Easter cards I am afraid but I will try and go look tomorrow again , the schools closed here today it seems for the Easter break ..it’s the last time all the people go to the coast here for some fun before we hit our winter which really is like your best summer …lol

I hope you both will have a great weekend with lots of outside playtime as I see your weather is looking pretty good also …sure B &B must be ready for a nice bit of running and playing fetch in the park if you are allowed …..

No more news from the Court today little men so we shall see what they try and do next week again , I am sure there will be loads of applications filed on Monday to ensure they waste the maximum amount of the Courts time and the governments money as they have done in the past year …..

Well Champs I will see you both a little later then under our big old green tree in dreamland …..have huge nice warm bear cuddles for you both….

Night , night little men …big fun weekend dreams …..

Love you both around the world and back and miss you lots more …

Love you little men…..always …

Dad xx

Ouma just emailed me this for you both as she added a picture xx

Hi Litttle “O’s

Hope you keeping well?

Your Dad just informed us your paid surrogate again is trying to
change your names. Now let Ouma and Oupa tell you something
today. We couldn’t care if she changes it to “PIET POMPIES FROM PINETOWN”
You will always be able to trace it back to your day of birth.
That can never never change.

Take care guys and remember you are the reason
why we are still going strong.
Love you forever and a day xxxxxxx

Ouma and Oupa

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Birth Certificates for Oliver James Ferreira and Oscar Alexander Ferreira

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Hello Little men ,

Please find above your Birth Certificates , should your paid surrogate Jayne Elizabeth Ferreira aka as Jayne Elizabeth McClure , change your Family name I will repost these weekly and tag with both names to ensure you will know the Truth one day ….

I should also get your South African passports in the next couple of weeks so will post those on here also with your copy UK passports I have now and your confirmation of duel citizenship.

Please also note the date in April 2013 when these certificates were issued, the Court and your paid surrogate really underestimate my intelligence .

Love you always Little Men ..

Dad xx

2nd Part from the Court little men…

In the High Court of Justice Family Division ​​Case Number: LA13P00159
Lancaster District Registry ​​​​

Between :-

Whilhelm Philippus Ferreira​
Applicant
And

Jayne Elizabeth Ferreira
First Respondent
And

Oscar Alexander Ferreira and Oliver James Ferreira
(Children through their r16.4 Guardian Peter Morey)

Second Respondents

Index to Core Bundle for Hearing on 2nd April 2014

Section A – Preliminary Documents

Case Summary

Section B – Applications and Orders

07.05.13
C100 issued by Father for shared residence and/or contact

1 – 10
11.07.13
Residence Order made by District Judge Bland
11 -12
11.07.13
Order of District Judge Bland
13 -14
14.08.13
Order of District Judge Bland
15
28.08.13
C2
15a-15f
28.08.13
Order of District Judge Bland
16 -18
03.09.13
Order of Her Honour Judge Singleton QC
19 – 23
03.09.13
Undertaking given by Father
23a – 23c

Pages removed
24 – 44
27.09.13
Order of Her Honour Judge Singleton QC
45 – 47
04.11.13

Order of Her Honour Judge Singleton QC
48
06.11.13
Amended hearing notice
49
29.11.13
Order of Her Honour Judge Singleton QC (version as amended on 4th December 2013)
50 – 54
04.11.13
Order of Her Honour Judge Singleton QC
55
05.12.13
Order of Her Honour Judge Singleton QC
56-58
24.01.14
C2 issued by Father
59-89
04.02.14
Hearing notice
90-91
05.02.14
Order of Her Honour Judge Singleton QC
92
12.02.14
Application Notice issued by Mother
93-138
12.02.14
Hearing notice
139-140
19.02.14
C79 application issued by the Father
141-212
26.02.14
C2 Application issued by Mother
213 – 230
28.02.14
Final Order of Her Honour Judge Singleton QC
231 – 236
28.02.14
Injunctive Order of Her Honour Judge Singleton QC
237 – 238
Section C – Copy email correspondence since 19.03.14
Various
Email Correspondence
1 – 38