Hello Boys

How are you two doing today? I hope very,very well…

Sorry I am a bit late today but just got back from Jaco , Janine and little Jayden, I am sad to report that little missy had to go stay on a farm with lots of other animals with medical issues…

Today made me realize again boys how many great friends I have here and that I have loads of people here that truly care about me and me about them, Jayden and I had such a busy fun afternoon, he was like a little firecracker today, reminds me so much of you both, had to hold back a tear when he came up to give me the biggest bear hug cuddle when I had to go , he is lovely I think you two would get on with him so well , the communication and chatting would be funny to see but I guess as kids language is irrelevant, fact of nature I guess not sure why… well I hope to see the 3 of them again before Christmas if all goes to plan.

O before I forget driving home now on the motorway I cant believe the amount of broken down cars even a bus , all with people that worked for 11 months for 150 pound a month to save to go home now for 3 weeks to see their children and families that they work away from for such a long time, sad thing is this time of the year and in the evening not a sole will help these people and they will be stuck on the side of the road for who knows how long before they get home as planned and most probably end up spending the money they had saved to fix the car and get home which means their families will have no gifts or maybe even a proper meal for the next month…

But you know what boys for all these people that is not important all of them and their families want is to see each other and spend a little bit of time as a family over the Holidays…..I guess that is just so normal as they will keep smiling and be festive no matter what ….

Makes me proud in a funny way to say I am African as this is our culture we rise up above whatever life gives us to deal with … I hope although you have almost no contact with me that the 19 months we were a family unit a little of my African spirit is alive in you both always as it is such a fantastic personality trait, even if the UK Courts says that means you have a personality disorder but I guess then so have 49 000 000 other people in South Africa …..

Well little boys I hope you two had a great fun day and  have done lots of things you wanted to do…..

As always little men I hope to see you both shortly under our big old green tree in dream land , I am so ready for my double little O’s double bear cuddles and smiles … can’t wait …..

Just want to say also I love and  miss you both with all my heart ……

Night, night , warm happy sweet dreams…..

Love you both THIIIIISSSSSSSSSS much ………..

Dad xx