Daily update for my Boys 12 Jan 2014

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Hello my Little O’s

Hope you two are doing very well on this very hot Sunday afternoon… Maybe not so hot where you are but still hope you are well…

I have spent most of today on the legal stuff again, I guess after this I should be pretty well suited to try and help other families in a similar situation….. The fact of the matter is that it is very apparent that Family Law in the UK is all based on the perception of the people involved , facts and evidence means nothing… Least I can hold my head up and say I have been constant in my approach and manner of dealing with those involved, the more I study this case and the process and games played the more it becomes clear who the two true Narsists are… Just makes me really sad to know you both are stuck in having to be around these people but as a person who thinks he is running this case ones elected to broadcast ‘ the truth will prevail’ and I honestly believe that with all my heart…..

So tomorrow is the start of yet one more new week with no contact with you both , I guess the weeks are all just blending into each other for me now after such a long separation from you both…somedays I can’t believe it’s only almost been a year as each day feels like a life time of missing you both….yes , yes , I know I am a wimp , sorry ,lol…

We should get the long overdue ‘response’ end of this week , sure it will be full of hot air and excuses but at least people had to now read the file and look at the details , just sad it had to come to this before people started doing their jobs ….maybe how the world works today …

I hope you have stared get your stuff ready for school tomorrow , you can’t leave it until the last minute or you might be late …..I sit here somedays just imagining what you both must be getting up to at school and if you both stick together at school or if you play separate , when I use to take you both to school and pick you up , you both wanted to do your own thing so I wonder if that has now changed……guess I will never be allowed to see or interact with you both in that normal environment…

Boys I really hope you two will have a great week full of fun and adventure and learning as little boys should ……

As always I will see you both a little later under our big old green tree in dream land , am so keen to see you both for a couple of dream minutes and give you both a huge bear cuddle …..

Night , night little Champs , sweet happy going to school dreams …..

Miss and love you both TttttttHhhhhhIiiiiiiiiSSSSS much and more ……

Love you boys ….

Dadxx

Daily update for my Boys 11 Jan 2014

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Good afternoon you two !

Hope my Champs are doing well today …..

I have had a bit of a mind numbing day with all the legal stuff I have been sent for our next Court Date in Feb , I am just absolutely overwhelmed with how many children and mums and dads in the UK are having the same battle as us 3 but as I have said if we can make it better or different for one child or adult then it has been worth all the effort.

Its great how much you learn from other peoples cases and see the wrongs in your own when other people point it out to you but as the saying goes the wheel turns be it slowly but it does that I believe with all my heart.

I am also about eight pages into ‘our story’ for the UK documentary I have been asked to participate in I need to try and send the draft outline to the producer chap next week , they have asked if I want my name and face disguised while recording but I have told them I have nothing to hide , should I then end up in jail our case will become a criminal matter which will allow for even more exposure of the family law legal system in the UK , so I guess a small price to pay… O and I can then post it on YouTube for you both to watch one day if you like , maybe it will help you understand that I have and never will give you both up no matter how hard people and the system try……

Hope you two had a fun day doing whatever you might have done …. As long as it was fun and safe then I am happy ….

Can’t believe we are one week further into this mess I guess it will be a year before we know it and I assume we have many , many mores years of this battle still to come the way things stand now …but you know what boys it will all be worth it at the end of the day , just really sorry that you both have to suffer alone with the people who surround you …..keep strong …this too will pass as they say ……

Well my little O’s I hope you two are planning a huge Sunday lunch feast , with a long nap and lots of play time for tomorrow ……will be thinking of you both……

Boys I will see you both under our big old green tree in dream land tonight …. Keep me a nice spot …. Can’t wait for my bear cuddles and smiles….

Night , night little men , happy big Sunday lunch dreams for you both…

Miss and love you both oil tankers full and more …..

Love you pals ….

Dadxx