When Narcissists Claim to be Victims of Narcissists – Who is the Narcissist?

Great blog ! I have a report done in 2 hours at an airport by a court phycologist that says I am a Narcissists but her and the Coury refuse to relate the data for in dependant review but yet it had been used for a year now to not allow me any contact with my twin boys , I know I am not perfect and yes I am angry but I know why I left my ex as she was the narcissist but Cafcass and the Court has crowned her mother of the year as they refuse to investigate her …..

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Daily update for my Boys 16 May 2014

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Hello Little Men !

How are my Champs doing ? I hope fantastic ….

Apologies for being a little late , it has been a long day and I got held up in a meeting at the factory ….

Not a great deal of news here muppets , just normal work stuff , so not very exciting daily feedback I think!

I have to go out to the factory tomorrow again as I need to close off the April reports that are still pending , thus a fun admin day ahead , I must say I am looking forward to a break on Sunday , only have some Skype conference calls to do, then I should be free most of the second part of the day ….

So let’s hope the 1986 American telly serious re- runs might have an episode of something I have not seen before as most shops etc are closed here until evening time …so can’t even go shopping to kill some time …

I hope you muppets are still having fun on your trip , almost time to head back home I think , sure B&B will be pretty well pleased to see you both …:-)

I got the flight details for my visit to the Philippines , but I might go end of this month rather then end June but I need to see if that works for Darren and them , so might go for a week or 10 days , as I told you the other night really looking forward to meeting the new little lady , I think she is going to be very cute !

Well Little Men , as always I hope to see you both under our big old green tree in dreamland , can’t wait for my beach bum dream bear cuddles and smiles ….

Night , night Champs , sweet dreams of great things to come ….

Love you both trucks and trailers full and miss you oil tankers full….

Love you Little Men, always ….

Dad xx

Daily update for my Boys 15 May 2014

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Good Evening Little Men!

Hope you both are doing oki doki !

I am back a little earlier at the hotel tonight so I am looking forward to a shower and bed to be fair , I think a day in a little 1000cc car in which the air con does not work whiles it is 45 degrees outside is not as much fun as it sounds …had some very good meetings but I must admit a couple of times during the day I was reminded of a phrase I heard once ‘ I am sweating like a very large lady at a rave’ lol , that is the R rated version , O and no offence to large people use to be one myself a year ago 🙂 and most of my life !

Tomorrow early I have a meeting in town and then heading out of the city again to the factory as I have some pending things I would like to close off before Sunday.

I saw this picture below last night and it reminded me of B&B so I thought I would share it with you muppets as it made me smile ..

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Don’t have any plans for the weekend , or rather Sunday only as it’s the only off day here , will see if I can sort the Philippines trip dates etc.

O and I have to go see if your Birthday cake is going to be ready for the big day next week.

Sorry Champs but was halfway with your post and then had to take a call from Dubai.

My chain of thought is interrupted now , as I had Ouma on Skype also after the work call now but the connection is not great , but her and Oupa send you both big cuddles 🙂

I have heard nothing more from the Court today , but will keep you both posted should I get any further feedback.

Can’t wait to see you both shortly under our big old green tree in dreamland then Champs …..please pack me some nice cool bear dream cuddles and smiles …..

Night , night muppets ….happy dreams of fun times in the kiddies pool at the hotel …

Love you both to the stars and moon and back and miss you unexplored milky ways away more …..

Love you Little Men ….always…

Dad xx

The word is spreading Little Men …… :-)

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Daily update for my Boys 14 May 2014

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Hello Little Men !

How are you two muppets doing ? I hope fantastic and having lots of fun in the sun still….

I had a good day at the factory , some machine issues but we soldier on as we have orders that must be supplied so had to decide today do we shut down to wait for the maintenance guys or risk it …we risked it and all went ok luckily so will get the lads to do the same tomorrow until we have cleared some of the back- log and then I guess we will shift over to wet production until things are sorted …..

O I have to tell you both Judge Singleton has now instructed the Court staff to not put their names to any correspondence with me due to me publishing it on your blog , so what she is actually is saying her and her staff are cowards and not willing to be identified for the continued misconduct on their part ! Must be great working for the UK Government and High Court and NOT do your job and not having to be accountable for what you write to people …

As I am sure you have seen from my earlier post I had to go stock up my fridge again tonight on the way home from work , thus I am ready for the next couple of fun day 🙂

Spoke to my friend Darren whom now lives in the Philippines on BBM early this morning whiles waiting to be collected from the hotel , I am going to try and visit them maybe early in June or July , just need to try and find the days in my work schedule as I would like to go for a week as they also have a new little one whom I have not met yet , so that should be fun …..

I am going out with the sales guys tomorrow on some site visits , so dirty shoes again ! 😦 just had to sort mine now from being on the production floor so much again today , you both might not know it but I do not like dirty shoes or sand for that matter but in the places I work both are unavoidable thus the OCD shoe cleaning kit is with me always ….lol:-) sure Delvindar Kaur Kelly is taking note of that comment again for her psychological cross questioning ! And you know what boys I don’t care , as there is no excuse for dirty shoes ! Call me crazy if you like but that is what I believe ….

So Little beach bums , I am sure you are missing B&B loads , and them you both , make sure you get them some nice fresh Turkish delight , I am pretty sure they would love it ! 🙂

Well Champs I am off to dreamland I think , it’s almost 10pm here already and I have to be up pretty early ,although I have been waking up at 5 am the past 2 mornings , the jet lag must be wearing off now ….. Thus I will see you muppets later then under our normal big old green tree in zzzzzzz land ….big dream cuddles full of beach sand in your shorts tonight please …lo 🙂

Night , night a Little Men ….dream big and happy things …

Love you both around the world and back and miss you so much more ….

Love you Champs ….always …

Dad xx