Narcissism Is an Identity Disorder

ANA - After Narcissistic Abuse's avatarAfter Narcissistic Abuse

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Isn’t this obvious as the light of day? They have no clue who they really are. There’s no deep spiritual well from which they can express themselves. They’re as flat as a carboard cut out. My guess is that a narcissist would opt to be one if they could, because of the relief they’d feel over not having anyone expect anything from them. Just so long as everyone thought the cardboard cut out was attention worthy.

 

Identity is about SUBSTANCE and FABRIC; essence and spirit.

 

When is the last time you’ve heard a narcissist described with such depth? Their depth is a framework of abnormal constructs & structures.

 

Their “identity” although permanently FIXED in disorder, is a fragile, mobile, versatile little creature. Like taking off one mask, in order to wear another, they can quickly morph into what they think is cool and appealing about others…

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What is The Silent Treatment ?

anupturnedsoul's avatarAn Upturned Soul

Are you a Narcissist?
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No…
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Then why are you taking the Silent Treatment personally?
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Why do you think that a Narcissist’s Silent Treatment is about you?
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It’s not about you.
It is all about them.

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Perhaps you’re D.U.I…or D.y.U.I.N… Driving yourself Under the Influence of a Narcissist?

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DUI of negative thoughts

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You should know that by now.
You should know by now…
after dealing with a Narcissist,
being in a relationship of some sort with them long enough to recognise that they’re giving you the Silent Treatment,
that the silence is not just silence…
regular silence,
golden silence,
that kind of silence which is enjoyable,
valued,
precious in a noisy world,
which is sought after,
especially by introverts and empaths,
and all those who need a bit of time to think,
unwind,
relax,
recharge,
etc…

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