FAQ Friday – 5 Common Questions About the Common Narcissist

A great article once again Kim 🙂

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1)       When Does the Narcissist go No Contact?

The Narcissist doesn’t go No Contact.  They either implement the Silent Treatment or discard you.

When the Narcissist starts ignoring you, blocking you, and leaving for a couple of weeks at the time (or more), it’s his/her way of forcing you to comply and accept abusive behavior patterns.  For instance, it usually happens when you point out unfairness, confront them about cheating, or express your displeasure at something they’ve said or done.  The Silent treatment is a manipulative tool the Narcissist uses when the relationship is ongoing.  Further, they are usually grooming new supply during this time.

If the Narcissist has found a new source of supply, they will discard you, but oftentimes, it isn’t a final discard.  At this point, they might admit they’ve found someone new, or simply leave without explanation and may begin to block you from contacting…

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Daily update for my Boys 18 April 2014

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Good evening Little Men!

Hope you muppets are having a Good Friday on this Good Friday !

I am sure you both would have had your fair share of chocolate today …as a post I read on Facebook today , chocolate comes from coco which comes from the Coco tree so that makes chocolate a fruit …thus it can not be bad for you ….lol 🙂

It’s really cold here today , my feet are frozen again , I have not left for the weekend yet as I ended up being tied up with work stuff most of the day …the joys of working with markets that do not celebrate Easter …..

The Jenkings 5 had what’s upped already to check where I am , so have told them I will spend Sunday day and stay over with them…so I am looking forward doing the bedtime story for the twins and their big sister ….. I need to see what book to take with that might make the most compelling little people fairy-tail….maybe I should just play it from the hip and tell them about when us three went to the farm near the house after work to feed the goats and ducks or maybe the chasing game we use to play at the soft play place on Sunday mornings …makes me smile thinking about that and how you Oliver had no fear and was ready to go down any thing and you Oscar were happy playing on the ground floor with your blanket …I wonder if you still take the blanket with you when you go out and how Oliver and I use to play with you and say to you ‘my blanket’ and how well you stood your ground to tell Oliver and I No ‘ my blanket ‘ lol

I hope you both have had a great start to your Easter weekend also and that you are doing lots of fun things…..

O before I forget did you monkeys leave some carrots and lettuce out for the Easter Bunny ? I do hope so , I am sure he would have enjoyed it very much , it’s a good thing B&B does not eat stuff like that or the bunny might have had to eat some of your chocolate ….lol

Well Champs 3 more days of relaxing ahead … Please be safe and have lots of giggles and plenty of play time ……

As always I can’t wait to see you both later in our normal place under our big old green tree in dreamland …..big bear furry bunny dream cuddles and smiles tonight please …..

Night , night Little Men ….dream big …remember not even the sky is the limit if you dream it …..

Love you both around the world and back ….and miss you a billion times more ….

Love you Little Men …..always ….

Dad xx

Paasnaweek

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Paasnaweek. Die slegste ding wat seker ooit gebeur het. Die wonderlikste ding wat ooit gebeur het.

Dis so tragies dat ons mensdom so ongehoorsaam is dat God dit moes nodig ag om mens te word, sy Seun moes stuur om die ergste van marteling te moes ondergaan, gestraf moes word vir ons sonde, moes sterf op ‘n onmenslike manier, net sodat ons kan breek met die sonde.

Dis so wonderlik dat God so oneindig groot is, so magtig is, dat Hy Heerser is oor lewe en ook oor die dood, dat Hy vir Jesus na 3 dae kon opwek uit die dood, die dood oorwin, sodat ons kan lewe. Woorde kan dit nie beskryf nie. Dis net ongelooflik en ek is so bitter dankbaar vir daardie groot genade wat ook aan my bewys is.

So vandag, op Goeie Vrydag, wanneer ons dink aan Jesus se dood, dink ons terselfdertyd in…

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Happy Easter Oscibear ! Xx

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Hello Little Man..

I do hope you are doing great today ….

I just want to wish you a Happy Easter …lots of smiles , chocolate dreams and fun bunny play time…

Remember to share your treats with B&B and leave some lettuce and carrots for the bunnies to say thank you …

Thinking of you lots and lots Champ …. I will see you later in our normal place under the big old green tree in dreamland ….packing big furry chocolate cuddles for you ….

Love you to the moon and back …….

Love you Little Man….always …

Dad xx

Happy Easter Olibear ….. Xx

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Hello Little Olibear !

Hope you are doing very well..

I just want to say Happy Easter ….hope the Easter bunnies will bring you lots of fun and smiles and yummy nibbles this weekend ….

Remember to leave some carrots for them and share all your treats with B&B….

Thinking of you lots Champ ….can’t wait to see you later under our big old green tree in dreamland ……huge Easter dream cuddles Little Man !

Love you around the world and back ….always …

Dad xx

Happy Easter from Ouma and Oupa Little Men !

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Hi Little “O”s

Hope you keeping well?

Our Easter message for you both:

You’ll wake on Easter morning and
You’ll know that he was there
when you find those choc’late bunnies
that he is hiding everywhere…..

Happy Easter…. but remember what
Easter really means…..because it is not
all about the Easter bunny eggs, candy
all that…. but it is about Jesus when He rose
from the dead and His crucifixion……

Lots of Easter choc’late kisses and hugs
Love you always

Ouma and Oupa (from a far, far away country)
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