The Story Of Kerry and Mark McDougall Continues

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The Story Of Kerry and Mark McDougall Continues

Yesterday afternoon, after a five hour wait with police sitting in their living room keeping them under house arrest (without an arrest, of course)  Fife Social Services came and took Ben and Lochlan McDougall into their custody. This will be a terrible long fight and both boys will need your help and support for them, and for Kerry and Mark.  The boys have been removed.  No one knows why?

The police turned up at midnight last night with Social Workers who asked if the family were going to return to Ireland  (where Social Workers deemed the family fine).  Mark asked if they could go out and visit the grandparents today. Social Worker said they could go wherever they pleased, there was nothing to stop them.

Yesterday, police turned up at approx 1pm.  Asked Mark and Kerry to remain in the house until…

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Daily update for my Boys 22 June 2014

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Good Evening Little Men!

Hope my Champs are doing very,very well and that you both had a nice safe fun Sunday 🙂

I did not have the most exciting day , had some work stuff and Skype calls in the morning and then I have been out shopping to go look for a phone , they don’t seem to have the new Blackberry here so I will have to look next week in Dubai , I saw the smart phones they do here with the 2 SIM cards but I must admit I did not like the touch screen on them , so alas we shall struggle on for a week more it seems before I will be able to resolve the phone issues.

It had also been a little cooler here today so it seems the storm last night might have done the trick 🙂 , let’s hope it’s a bit mild tomorrow also.

I think I need to start packing tomorrow night also as I am not going to laundry my shirts here again as all my white shirts come back grey every time , so I have a mountain of shirts in the cupboard from the past month just folded after I took them off …sure the ironing lady back home is going to think she won the jack pot when I drop this lot off for pressing.

I think after the past 2 months on the road I might take 2 weeks at home again , it just feels like I have been gone for ages and have not seen anyone thus I need a bit of a break I think , but I guess I will have to see if all goes to plan.

Ouma has been able to get me an appointment at the dentist also as I have not been since I left the UK , you muppets never showed up for your last appointment in Horam in June last year so I really hope they have taken you since as I was always taught you go every six months for a clean and a polish 🙂 makes the choppers nice and healthy and keeps them bright white.

I see the M25 blockade is still going ahead in last week of July and some of the lads have messaged me to see if I can join , so I will have to see , it’s maybe a good idea , I have a great idea for a banner with your photo and other people details to use as a cover for a car , just need to see if I can get it made in time and what my work load is like but I am sure I should be able to squeeze in a day to help the protest in London , the flights might be a little tough for one day , but what to do as they say 🙂

Feels like I am rambling , apologies muppets 🙂 , just want to wish you both a safe , happy fun week full of plenty of learning and loads of giggles and lots of sunshine for some outside playtime with B&B

Ouma emailed me this for you both below ;

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Her and Oupa send all their love and big warm African winter cyber cuddles for you both…..

Well then muppets , as always I will see you two a little later under our big old green tree in dreamland , can’t wait for my dream bear cuddles and smiles 🙂

Night , night Little Men , happy dreams of being silly as that’s ok and as it should be ….

Love you both to the moon and back and miss you a billion times more …

Love you Champs ….always …

Dad xx

M.I.A.

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Just a quick update. I know I have been M.I.A. this month. I have not been blogging much lately. Trial did not go too well. As expected with Judge Nazaratien. It was just another mom-bashing session where only I was grilled to no end and harassed. The ex-husband, as always, sailed thru with not even one question asked of him by the Judge. It was just yet another sideshow in the Circus that is Judge Nazaratien’s “family” courtroom. This man made up his mind from day one. We, of course, ran out of time as always. No closing arguments, no nothing. Some trial that is. Most of my issues were not even addressed. As usual. Judge already asked my ex-husband’s lawyer to draw up an order. Therefore, his mind was made up before he even left the bench. Obviously, he has no plans to review case law or anything else before ruling. Case…

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Activist from Honiton apprehended as she tried to arrest David Cameron

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A woman from Honiton tried to “arrest” David Cameron for his “crimes against children”.

The activist for the New Fathers 4 Justice group was removed by security police.

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The 42-year-old woman from Honiton tried to confront the PM at an agricultural event in Burford and claimed she wanted to “citizen’s arrest” the PM over “crimes against children in the family courts.”

She, along with fellow activist Bob Smith from London, attempted to force their way through the crowds but could not get within reach before security stepped in.

A spokesman for the group said: “We’d like nothing more than to be simply with our families, and happy in the knowledge our children would grow up with equal rights, but until anything is done – this is the only way anyone takes any notice of our message.

“New Fathers 4 Justice want nothing less than a legal presumption of 50/50 contact…

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Daily update for my Boys 21 June 2014

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Hello Little Men !

Hope my muppets are oki doki today and that you both had a nice Saturday:-)

I am just back at the hotel , I have had no food the past 2 days due to not feeling great so when the guys dropped me tonight I went for a Cinnabon and large mocha , yes , yes I know not the best way to start eating again after a couple of days of food poisoning , lol , but hey it’s what I felt like and as you both know I like living on the wild side , lol

We had a good day at the factory , but we did again have a 3 hour power cut , I am told we are in the midst of the worse heat wave they have had in over 10 years , thus it’s not me getting menopause , lol , it is HOT ! , least we had a little rain on the way back to the City tonight and it looks like a heavy storm that is coming , so perhaps that will break the heat or if nothing else settle the dust a little , only sad thing is we got two trucks of sand tonight that is still outside drying which now will be as wet as when it came from the river bed , at least we have built a good stock level the past week so hope it will not effect us that much…..

I think it is off to bed early tonight as I slept really poorly last couple of nights again , more than normal and I can feel it tonight , so let’s hope I get plenty of zzzzzzzzzz’s tonight 🙂

Well champs whatever you have planned for Sunday , I hope it’s fun safe and what you like doing 🙂

Can’t wait to see you both a little later under our big old green tree in dreamland , I think I will be first tonight …. Will keep you both a nice spot in the shade 🙂 , looking forward to my double O dream cuddles and smiles …

Night , night monkeys ….sweet safe dreams ….

Love you both thhhhhhiiiiiiissssss much and miss you sooooooo much more that tttttthhhhhiiiiiisssssss 🙂

Love you Little Men …..always ….

Dad xx

Daily update for my Boys 20 June 2014

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Hello Little Men !

How are my Champs doing on this lovely Friday ? I hope you are well and safe !

Apologies for the short update last night but I only had 5 min before I had to head out again and then only got back to the hotel around 1 am after dinner , we had a Chinese take-away at the local associates house …well ….I woke up at around 4 am not feeling great , had to go out this morning for some meetings in the city and thought I was going to be sick all the time , the guys brought me back to the hotel around midday as I think I was green by then , they got me some stuff from the chemist so feeling a little better but not great if I am honest …guess I have not had a bad run here the past 2 months as it’s the first time I have had food poisoning , normally I get it all the time here so I think I have just been lucky thus far 🙂

We had no power today at the factory again but luckily all the stock that had to go out was ready , so no big train smash , it seems we might have this problem for the next couple of weeks on Fridays so we are checking if we can give the lads off on a Friday and then work on a Sunday till things are back to normal.

I think Ramadan is starting end of next week or over the weekend so I am trying to close of my pending stuff and then head home I hope on Sunday next week.

No big plans here for the weekend working tomorrow and then Sunday night when the mall opens I need to go phone shopping as I said , it has now reached breaking point with all the phone issues , lol , I have just seen on twitter there is a new Blackberry out ! , yes , yes I know I said I have to move with the times but the new one looks pretty cool , it has a keyboard and very large screen so it seems the best of both worlds !

I hope you muppets will have a fun , safe happy weekend full of giggles , loads of playtime and plenty of learning 🙂 looks like you might have some sunshine also , so happy day !

Well Champs , I shall see you two monkeys a little later under our big old green tree in dreamland than , looking forward to some , hope you feel better, dream cuddles …

Night , night Little Men …..happy safe , fun playful weekend dreams ..

Love you both around the world and back and miss you a billion times more , today the emptiness just seems so much more …

Love you Champs ……always …..

Dad xx

Daily update for my Boys 19 June 2014

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Hello Little Men !

Hope my Champs are doing great today !

I just want to say a quick hello , as I had to come to the hotel before a dinner meeting to clean my shoes , lol , yes , yes OCD , I know 🙂

Had a good day all and all not sure what time I will be back tonight so did not want to miss you before bed time !

Hope you two are safe and had a nice day also !

Can’t wait to see you both a little later under our big old green tree in dreamland , looking forward to some cool bear cuddles !

Night , night , sweet dreams …

Love you both lots and lots and miss you lots more ..

Dad xx

Understanding Borderline Personality Disorder ( BPD) / BPD Central

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This article was originally posted on BPD Central ( link at bottom)

People with borderline personality disorder see people as all good or all bad and have extreme, blink-of-an-eye mood swings. Their fear of abandonment, combined with feelings of emptiness and self-loathing, makes others feel like they’re constantly walking on eggshells.
Some borderline individuals are suicidal and self-harm. Other rage, criticize, and make wild accusations. People with BPD suffer, and so do those around them. About a third of people with BPD also have narcissistic personality disorder (NPD); they are especially unwilling to look at themselves and their own behavior.

Familiar Fights
We all use defense mechanisms to get us through the day. But people with personality disorders use them to a greater extent, which makes it seem like they’re living in their own little world. If you spend too long isolated in a crazy environment, you may start to…

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