What alienated parents don’t know and what alienating parents don’t tell them

Great post as always Karen , thank you 🙂

karenwoodall's avatarKaren Woodall - Psychotherapist, Writer, Supervisor, Trainer

This post is part of the process of finishing off the book I am writing about parental alienation. Coming soon will be our therapeutic coaching services for alienated parents, using an approach which we have developed at the Family Separation Clinic.  This approach is unique to us and is based upon almost ten years of work with parents who are alienated from their children. It is an approach we are having success with and, combined withour new handbook, it is an approach that we know will put power back into the hands of alienated parents.  This approach is based upon what alienated parents don’t know and what alienating parents don’t tell them.  This approach is, in our view, one of the secrets to resolving alienation in children and it puts power into the hands of the people who can do that most effectively of all.  You.

The approach…

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Through to the a***hole

New Fathers 4 Justice's avatarNew Fathers 4 Justice - Superhero Dads

In a remake of the 1980’s series we sent Batman to  trek through famous people’s houses looking for clues as to who’s house it is. Then the three celebrity panellists by making assumptions and asking questions have to guess who it is.

Bit like the secret family courts really…..based on assumption not facts!

So here we go…..”Who’d live in a house like this? David, it’s over to you.”

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Watch closely because, remember, the clues are there, as we go through… to the a***hole.

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Daily update for my Boys 7 June 2014

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Hello Little Men !

Hope you both are doing great and had a lovely Saturday !

I am still at the factory , sitting here on the floor whiles the guys are trying to finish a large order we must get out tonight as we had forklift issues and power cuts most of the day ! The guys are doing a great job , they should have gone home already 3 hours ago and I think we will be here 3 hours more , so I have said I will try and see if they can maybe take next Saturday off to spend a 2 day weekend with their families , but I need to see if the GM will agree and also depending on work load but I think the guys need a break if I am honest !

I think we take it for granted what a manual work country this is as things that machines will do it most places people do here so yes , things take a little longer but the guys are so pleased if they have had a good day and met the targets we have placed , I got them all a big lunch also today that we shared not sure what it was , they told me buffalo but I am pretty sure mine was chicken , lol , hey but you never know because what they call a buffalo here I think we will call beef or a cow in most places I think 🙂

I think I might sleep better tonight also as I feel pretty tired now already after the fun we have had today , tomorrow early I have decided to take my maiden voyage on the roads here , really early as they all sleep in it seems , so the plan is to drive to the factory and back to the hotel by my self to see if I know the road as well as I think I do , lol , keep in mind as you two might not know , I can not read a map and I do not have a gps here thus I might end up in India or Afghanistan but hey either way it should make for a nice outing early morning 🙂

Ouma emailed me she is having Skype issues it seems as she could not speak to me last night , her PC says she is having playback issues , no clue what that means so have told her to google it and see what they say as I think it might be a Skype program update issue ,

So monkeys I hope you both will have a nice fun Sunday with lots of giggles and safe happy play times.

I guess I will be late tonight to meet you both under our big old green tree in dreamland , but don’t stress i will make it , but you two go have some fun dream playtime and I will come look for you for some extra nice big dream bear cuddles …

Night , night my Little O ‘s , sweet dreams of great fun things !

Love you both around the world and back again a billion times and miss you a trillion times more than that !

Love you Champs …always …

Dad xx

Ps – hope you two like the pic below as it made me smile and think of you both lots 🙂

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Daily update for my Boys 6 June 2014

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Hello Little Men !

Hope you both are well and had a fantastic day 🙂

I had lots of fun and games at the factory today but hey we smile and soldier on …. Let’s hope next week things are back to normal !

I have been doing some work on the Facebook pages the past hour or so , I see Chris is doing really well outside Cameron’s house , I hear the BBC wants to interview him now so that is all good news in the fight to expose the UK Family Courts 🙂

I forgot to tell you two your Pinterest page is also now up and running and your new Twitter page I will try and finish on Sunday but I see your blog is already getting plenty of link shares on Twitter!

I went to work in shorts and a T shirt today as I told you last night , I think the guys thought I was a bit crazy but hey it was like 49 degrees here today and I was on the floor most of the day so still think it was a good plan at the end of the day ,

I slept a little better also , was up around 5 am so not that bad , just wish Gloria Jeans was open at 7 am like Costa in Dubai and the UK so I can get my mocha early as I have my red bull when I wake up as you both know thus have been having more than one before I get my coffee , lol

No big plans here for the weekend , am at work tomorrow , Sunday maybe a lie in and some work stuff and then in the evening I need to go shopping , I am in desperate need of Jeans that fit as the size 34’s are now way to big so it feels like I have to keep pulling them up or I look like M&M from behind with my boxers sticking out , lol 🙂

Still no news from the Court also , thus as I mentioned earlier this week I will email Judge Rawkins on Monday to follow up as I need to close off my August travel plan next week and get flights etc. booked.

I really hope you both will have a nice weekend, remember it’s Jayne’s birthday tomorrow , so you must remember to wish her happy birthday!

Well Champs I guess I will then see you both later under our big old green tree in dreamland , looking forward to some dream bear cuddles ..ps , these two bears here with me have jumped into bed already again with their hats one ! Lol

Night , night little Men ….dream big of great things and better days!

Love you both all the sand in the desert much and miss you all the water in the ocean much !

Love you Champs …always ..

Dad xx