Update on the first day of the Pilgrimage to Canterbury Cathedral by the Pilgrim Fathers (who are Tom, Matt, Vincent, Paul and Adam)  as recounted by Thomas Judge :

On a fine day, the Fathers assembled at the Royal Courts of Justice in the Strand.  Father Thos put a leaflet inside the  RCJ, which seemed to annoy the security presence( G4 security); who ” went ballistic” (in Father Thos’s words).   Matt then decided to add a little colour to the outside of the court building, and  stucka  poster up.  The route took them through Middle Temple where they  delivered  leaflets to barristers and then walked onto Southwark Court.  

The Fathers then moved onwards to Blackheath Tea Hut for a pit stop, going via Deptford.  The vast expanse of the heath cheered up the Fathers  walked east out of London into the dark rain cloud that followed them  all the way to…

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I talk to people rather frequently who’ve come out of the relationship with their Narcissist and cannot seem to work through their feelings of anger and resentment.  This is natural; something we all go through.  After all, we gave and gave to the Narcissist, believing the problems in the relationship were our fault.  We tried harder, became more forgiving.  We swept their transgressions under the rug and perhaps even told them we knew they didn’t mean to hurt us.  As humans we aren’t perfect, right?

I also talk to people who are in denial about their situation.  They start thinking about all they’d lose if they left their Narcissistic partner who provides them with a nice lifestyle.  If children are involved, they may feel it’s unfair to deny them this more affluent lifestyle than they’d be able to afford as a single parent.

Deniers convince themselves that the situation isn’t…