Monthly Archives: April 2014

Daily update for my Boys 3 April 2014

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Good Afternoon Little Men…

How are my Champs today ? I hope fantastic …..

It feels like it has been an extremely long day , I think it might be because I kept waking up last night , I had to close my window at bed time as it started raining really hard again and as you might know , I do not like sleeping with the window shut , thus the restless night I think… And yet today is a lovely bright sunny day here , a little cool but still very nice …..

I have been out to town for some shopping and to go pay the bills , my own fault I guess I should have set these up for internet payments …maybe next month , lol ….

Been doing lots of reading today also on PAS and the impact it will have on you both as you grow up ….also realised it’s been 4 months now since I have seen you two muppets last ….that’s the longest it’s been in the past year …made me really sad , but seems that is how things will be from now on ….I think I know in my heart that you both have long forgotten about me as I have only seen you 10 hours in the past year , and I don’t remember anything much before the age of 5 ,so can only take it that you both will be the same and I am sure you have had so much change around you in the past year that I have not been a part off …….

Some days I think to myself that I am a total nutter for writing this blog but then again it gives me a couple of minutes each day that it feels like we are in fact spending some time together even if the conversation is one way traffic or a monologue as they say …..let’s hope you both understand all of this one day when the time comes …….

The weekend is here again tomorrow also , I have the Big birthday on Saturday and looks like I will have some work stuff to sort on Sunday if all goes to plan…..

So Champs I hope you both will have a great Friday …lots of learning and plenty of giggles …….

I will see you both a little later then under our big old green tree in dream land , I think I need massive dream bear cuddles and smiles tonight ….

Night , night Muppets ….happy dreams of better days ….

I love you both This much ; ( see picture , lol) — Dad xx

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CRAPCASS ! Children and Family Court Advisory and Support Service (Cafcass) becomes part of the Ministry of Justice

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New F4J statement
Since Cafcass was set up, bringing together 113 organisations including probation officers in family court welfare, social workers representing children in care and adoption cases, child protection agencies and welfare groups it has suffered a troubled history . On many occasions the Children and Family Court Advisory and Support Service (Cafcass) has been exposed to official and independent scrutiny and been found wanting.
New Fathers 4 Justice has continually stated that Cafcass has failed in it’s duty of care to protect children in private law family cases and should be closed down immediately.
Fathers have become victims of this incompetence  and we will fully resume our campaign against this organisation which is not fit for purpose.

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https://www.gov.uk/government/news/children-and-family-advisory-and-support-service-cafcass-becomes-part-of-the-ministry-of-justice The welfare of children will be brought closer to the family court system as key safeguarding organisation Cafcass joins the Ministry of Justice, Family Justice Minister Simon Hughes…

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Quintet of Radiance: Five Ennobling Blog Awards

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Wow~ I was so surprised when I opened my email this morning and found I was nominated for the Quintet of Radiance:Five Ennobling Blog Awards.

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The greatest honor in any ‘profession’, ‘hobby’, ‘sport’ etc. is to be recognized for your due diligence and dedication. I would like to thank “to je smůla” for the nomination. I can relate to her blog so well as she was also involved with a Narcissist and the going back and leaving, back again, to leaving one more time! Please stop by and read some of her wonderful posts. Especially this one, I can relate so well to it.

Now to the rules of the nomination and the ‘ABC’s’ of Me

  • Adamant
  • Beautiful of mind
  • Caring
  • Dog Lover
  • Enthusiastic
  • Faithful
  • Gorgeous (of thought)
  • Happy
  • Insightful
  • Jaded (thank you Ex)

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Daily update for my Boys 2 April 2014

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Good Evening Little Men…

How are you both doing today ? I hope very well….

Well I have had a little bit of an event full day , woke up at 5 30 am to some Troll news , followed shortly by a lovely nomination of your blog by a fellow blogger and then a second nomination for your blog this afternoon again.

I must say I am a little bit shocked at how your little daily letter blog has become a massive Global footprint …. I am so moved by all the stories of other families , all the comments positive and negative as I have always said I am happy to take any criticism or fallout of this but as long as I know should you both wish you would have this blog to read , it might give you some answers or even a little insight into me and my life ….

So it’s around 6 pm , we have not heard anything from your Solicitor , Cafcass or the Court about the ” hearing” held this morning , I can only assume they will take weeks again like before to share the information , but be that as it may , I will keep you both posted and share whatever I get from them , should I get anything…..

Ouma told me today she has also gone to look for Easter Cards for you muppets but have also gone home empty handed …..I think I might have to share my glue stick and glitter with her so she can start making you cards also …..or maybe she will find a nice online card to share with you …

So I am not sure where you both have been kept hostage today but I honestly hope you both are safe and were allowed a little bit of fun….maybe even a giggle or two ….

Boys I have been asked over the past couple of days again to tell our story in full , so I am toying with the idea to do it on here over a couple of weeks ..don’t stress …I will keep writing the daily updates for you both but maybe add a couple of hundred words under the Story of us heading …I need to gather my thoughts on this as I know I might start rambling when I do this , thus I think a time line might be the starting point and then we can add the facts , documents , pictures and other relevant info around the time line , it should also allow you muppets to fill in some blanks one day if you like……

Well Champs I must say I am very much looking forward to see you two later tonight as always under our big old green tree in dreamland ….lots of bear cuddles and dream smiles coming your way …..

Night , night Little Men ….dream huge …never stop …always believe …anything and everything is possible IF you dream it …..

Love you both around the world and back a billion times and miss you both a trillion times more …..

Love you Champs ……always ….

Dad xx

Troll news update …

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So I have neglected the Troll News segment on this blog for a couple of weeks ….

Just to bring you all up to date I have been blogging now for 4 months and I must admit I did not really know what an Internet Troll was until I started doing this.

I have today decided to not blog the 2 nd comment from the start of this blog due to the fact that it contained some wild claims which I am not able to confirm and as such emailed the troll to inform her of my decision, of course she did not like it as she feels I am only telling one side of the story , now as I have said before if I know it to be true or you can proof what you are saying I am more then happy to post your comments.

My Current list of Trolls are :

1. Sheila McClure of Liverpool
2. Hellen Miles aka Emma Royds of Surrey
3. Barbara Dwyer aka Babs not sure of her location in the UK

Now number 1 I know is the Aunt of the paid surrogate the other two I assume are either friends , family or even the paid surrogate herself , some of the langue they use and writing style very much reminds me of the paid surrogate when she is not happy or does not agree with what you have said.

I am sure this list will grow lots over the next couple of years and I will endeavour to keep an open mind on approval of your comments even after you have made my Troll list.

Thank you all again so much for taking the time to read the story of our Twin boys and more so for commenting , and apologies for the 2 post to date I have had to delete , as I am sure you have seen there is not much I am not willing to share on this blog in the pursuit of the Truth for our little men one day.

Kind Regards ,

Phill Ferreira

Female Sociopath

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A Great read …

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Statistically there are more male sociopath’s than female. Because there is not a database as such for ‘documented’ Sociopaths this statistic is made up from  Martha Stout Ph.D and her book ‘The Sociopath Next Door’.  The National Mental Health Institute says it’s 1 in 100 and that it’s more likely to find Antisocial Personality Disorder (the DSM-IV term) in men.

I believe it is harder to identify Antisocial Personality Disorder, specifically Narcissistic Sociopath in women as often times they have been labeled the ‘vindictive ex-wife’, or the ‘crazy ex-girlfriend’. These women can also portray the helpless victim mask, therefore gaining more sympathy. Society as a whole, tends to overlook female Sociopaths simply because it has been the man’s role as caretaker, and/or breadwinner. So when a relationship with a female Sociopath falls apart they are usually labeled the crazy ex-whatever. Sociopath women lie so easily that, when the relationship…

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Chemistry (2)

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This is second part of Chemistry.  🙂

As I explained in the previous post, some of the badges did not appear in the original post. My solution was to cut it and publish a succeeding post to complete the missing items.

I hope this confuses no one. I apologize for the error.

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Joe of Art Inspired and Created from the Heart nominated me for The Shauny Award. Please visit his site to discover images you may like.

You can check the post For Everyone to see the rules of the award. Feel free to pick up the other award as a sign of my appreciation to all of you, who keep on supporting me through my online journey.

 shaunya

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I am deeply honored to be nominated by Amreen of Paint the World with Words for this award. Check the site for motivational posts. I am sure you will be inspired.

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