Letter to Judge Singleton and the Daily Mail …

Phill Ferreira's avatarThe Story of my Twin Boys Oliver and Oscar Ferreira

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Dear Judge Singleton,

Further to your redicilous Court Order on 2 April 2014 , I must say you continue to amuse me with your highly unprofessional conduct as a High Court Judge in the UK.

You seem to forget that our boys South African passports have now been approved plus I have duplicate UK passports thus any name change you allow the drug addicted , child abusing paid surrogate to do will be traced with in minutes ..I am African a little bit of money gets you loads of information , you thought I would never get the Cafcass reports and guess what I did !

You have decided in your unprofessional conduct to not allow me a normal loving relationship with our boys now for more then a year , you continue to ignore facts in this case about the surrogate and you madam are just as guilty of…

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Letter to Judge Singleton and the Daily Mail …

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Dear Judge Singleton,

Further to your redicilous Court Order on 2 April 2014 , I must say you continue to amuse me with your highly unprofessional conduct as a High Court Judge in the UK.

You seem to forget that our boys South African passports have now been approved plus I have duplicate UK passports thus any name change you allow the drug addicted , child abusing paid surrogate to do will be traced with in minutes ..I am African a little bit of money gets you loads of information , you thought I would never get the Cafcass reports and guess what I did !

You have decided in your unprofessional conduct to not allow me a normal loving relationship with our boys now for more then a year , you continue to ignore facts in this case about the surrogate and you madam are just as guilty of Child Abuse as she and Peter Morey and I will expose you all for the Child Abusers you are. You have even admitted in person in Court on 28 Feb 2014 you have not read any of the stupid statements you keep ordering , I have the full recording of Court for that day and am happy to post that on my blog for your peers to hear you admit you are not doing your job ! Maybe it is time for you to step down from this case and place it with a Real Judge !

My boys will always be tracked as they have been for the past year ! Technology and money goes a long way , so always remember that.

The paid surrogate can keep on hiding behind you and your clown Court but our boys will know the truth and the rest of the world, and she will forever be looking over her shoulder …. The boys will grow up and they will know her as a drunk and a Child Abuser nothing more….

Kind Regards,

Phill Ferreira

Sent from my iPad

Daily update for my Boys 7 April 2014

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Hello Little Men…

How are you both doing this afternoon ? I hope very ,very well…

It’s starting to get cool here in the morning , I could feel it in my hands and feet today ….

Been out shopping today …needed to get loads of stuff for the house.. I think Monday mornings must be the best time to go out whiles all the other people have gone to work …..

Been sorting some of my work stuff also , even looks like my Blackberry service on my other work phone is now sorted , am a little tired of having to carry 3 phones from different countries so should be great to now be back on one again …less things to plug in each night …lol ….

If all goes to plan tomorrow I should be able to go and sort some of my visas , I need to go collect my 2nd passport also as that should make the visa waiting periods a little easier for now …. I will check if your passports are perhaps ready but I doubt it , they said end of the month only …I shall keep you posted all the same …..

I have just seen the recap of the Oscar trial , some days I think he stands a chance to get off and then other days not so much , I do however think they tried too hard today to show his humanitarian character, I have always thought he was a nice enough guy , but as we all, he has his faults and what he did was wrong no matter what he thought …still sad that the world had lost such a great role model for young people …the only other person I think that has ever had that level of impact was Nelson Mandela , two very different people but I think they have both done so much good …..hard acts to follow I think …..

O before I forget , I see your blog is at 13100 hits today, thus your story is growing each day more and more ……

I do hope you both will have a great week filled with lots of learning , giggles and fun things ….

Can’t wait to see you both later under our big old green tree in dream land for my dream double O cuddles and smiles ….

Night , night Champs , dream massive , bigger than big ….always …

Love you both big oil tankers full and miss you aircraft carriers full and more ….

Love you Little Men…..always ….

Dad xx

The One Thing You Need to Know About Narcissists

Kim Saeed's avatarLet Me Reach with Kim Saeed

Or… Do Relationships with Narcissists Last?

I get many ideas for blog posts from search terms that lead people to Let Me Reach.  This particular question always pulls at my heartstrings because I know the place readers are coming from when they ask, “Can a relationship with a Narcissist last?”

First, there is no guarantee that any relationship will last.  A successful relationship endures through dynamics such as mutual trust, respect, compassion, and a degree of emotional maturity.  Even if a partner isn’t a Narcissist, it doesn’t mean they are long-term relationship material.  Establishing a friendship before becoming romantically involved is the best route to take.  Many people get into the dating scene and establish an “instant relationship” with a virtual stranger.  However, it takes a long time to really know someone and determine if they are a good match.

Now, onto relationships with Narcissists.  In general, Narcissists…

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Daily update for my Boys 6 April 2014

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Good Afternoon Little Men…

Hope you both are having a very nice lazy Sunday…..

It’s been a proper Sunday here , roast chicken dinner and all…

I have been doing some work stuff and had to download the Emirates iPad app , now I am either thick or all the flights I am trying to book are sold out , the latter is highly unlikely so I will have to check with my local travel agent in the morning to see if I can sort this out , a bit frustrating to be honest ….

I cleaned up my iPad photo file today also and I found this photo of you two muppets below ; made me smile as I can remember so well that you Oliver was able to bounce very well , whiles you Oscar would just hang and look at me as if to say … Are you messing with me …. You just never wanted to do it , maybe you just did not find it as amusing as Oliver …. Can’t believe you both were that tiny not so long ago ….you two only used those things a couple of times as you did not find them much fun I think …lol sure you love bouncing on your beds now …..

Seems this coming week is going to be made up of standing in lines to apply for visas ….not the most fun thing to do ….. Least some of the places on the travel list does not need visas if I travel from here so that makes the pain a little better …lol

Don’t know what you monkeys have planned for next week but I hope it will be safe , fun and full of excitement….. I think you might have one more week in the UK before you go on Easter break …don’t think you have long school holidays now like what we have here……

So Champs …I will see you both later under our normal big old green tree in dreamland ….can’t wait for my dream bear cuddles and smiles ….

Night , night Little Men ….big dreams of huge chocolate Easter bunnies …

Love you both to the moon and sun and back and miss you lots more …

Love you Champs ….always …

Dad xx

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Me and my BFF , 34 years later Little Men …..

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Me and my best friend Little Men that I have been telling you both about , we met the first day of School in 1980 …feels like yesterday ….

I hope that you both will have friends like this one day that will always be part of your life , during the good and not so good times …always able to talk even if you have not seen each other for years …always being able to get each other and offer support and advice …..

Love and miss you Champs ….

Dad xx

Daily update for my Boys 5 April 2014

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Hello Little Men…

Hope you both are doing really well and having a nice weekend ,

Sorry I am a little late , just got home , have been out with Gerhard to the big Birthday bash …. Was great seeing all the old friends , loads of chats and catching up ….

Just want to say a quick goodnight …….

Will write you both tomorrow …

Can’t wait to see you both now in dreamland …big bear dream cuddles and smiles please ….

Night , night champs ….happy dreams ….

Love you both lots and lots and miss you both lots more ….

Love you Champs …. Always …

Dad xx