10 thoughts on “The story of us 3 dealing with the paid surrogate little men…..”

      • Phill,

        I can’t tell you how sorry I am….

        There are a lot of Dad’s like you out there. One of my survivor Dad’s was never allowed to see his children. His female ex psychopath was wealthy, as was her family….and bought off the judge….who, ironically, was an expert in psychopathy….

        He committed suicide last December. His pain was too great and he could not live knowing he would never see his children.

        I understand your feelings of sadness,…but I can’t share enough how important it is that you continue to be as involved as possible..karma, baby…BELIEVE IT! I’ve seen it happen, even with my own children.

        Peace to you, Phil and lots of love.

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      • Hey ,

        Thank you for your kind words and taking the time to read our boys blog , it means the world to me and I know my little men will appreciate very much also one day …..

        The support I have had from this blog the past 3 months since I started it has been overwhelming to say the least , I just never knew so many , mum, dads and little ones have to deal with this daily …..breaks my heart and all I hope to achieve is to make things a little better or more logical for one little if not my own…..

        Hope you boy is doing better now also …

        Take care

        Phill x

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      • Phil,

        Thank you for your kind words. A lot of us really have connections in spirit because of our experiences. I have your boys on my prayer list, which seems to be expanding by the day!

        I’m so glad you’re finding support with your blog. It has been one of my life saving supports. Survivors are as helpful to my process as they feel I am for them. It is a genuine blessing.

        My boy is not better, unfortunately. I’m keeping him close to me, hence writing a lot, as he is so anxious he needs to be on my lap, or right next to me sucking on one of his stuffed toys. I love him so…it hurts to watch him struggle. He is okay as long as I am near to him. I know that this sounds very strange, but he is like one of my children. When he passes, it will feel like having lost one of my children.

        Keep writing, Phil. While it can be heart wrenching to see some of your posts, it is a constant reminder to me to be humble and conscious of others pain and struggles. It’s one of the reasons I read others blogs.

        Bless your heart.

        Kelli xxoo

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      • Thank you so much for Kelli ! I have vowed to keep righting as long as I can…..

        Hope you boy gets back on his feet soon , my pups have always been like children to me also , many people don’t get that but I guess until you have truly loved a animal you will not understand the feeling ….

        Take Care

        Phill xx

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