Good Morning Little men!

Hope you both are well…

As expected I did not receive the monthly update from your care giver , so just one more breach of the Court order !

I guess she has something to hide thus she refuses to provide info , maybe she knows I will see the physical abuse again on the pictures that she subjects you both to daily !

Just hope and pray you both are safe and well!

See you both on Thursday little men!

Love and miss you lots….

Dad xx

Please consider spending a few minutes of your time and sending this form letter to your representatives.

~Tom

I believe the gift of parenting children is the single greatest blessing and experience an individual can enjoy in life. Therefore to me, parenting rights are not a “special rights” concern; they are a “human rights” concern.

So, I want to ask where you stand on an important political issue: Family Law Reform.

As you may or may not be aware, our current system of Family Law has devolved into one in which a whole host of Family Court Industry players are profiteering from the minimization or elimination of parenting time and rights for non-custodial parents.

Many custodial parents, lawyers, parenting plan evaluators, supervised parenting services, States, friends of the Court social workers, many Courts, and others; are making money by using children as an excuse to exploit non-custodial parents, causing irreparable harm to both children and their parents in the process.

I, and a rapidly growing base of many others, would like this to stop. More specifically, we are asking for five primary reforms to Family Law:

The presumption of 50/50 custody and parenting rights during and after divorce. We are NOT asking for a REQUIREMENT of 50/50, because we still want parents to be able to decide for themselves what works best for them. However, in the event that case goes to trial, instead of having the NCP being forced to rise to a high standard to show why they should have time with their children, I believe it’s far healthier (for both parents and children) for the parent contesting this time to be required to rise to a high standard to show why the NCP should NOT have equal time with their children. And while this may dramatically hit the financial accounts of those who are using children for profit by creating or aggravating conditions of conflict, this reform will affect far healthier outcomes for families.

I would like reforms to child support calculations. More specifically, an elimination of financial incentives for minimizing or eliminating a non-custodial parent’s time with their little ones. As it sits now, there are basically two pieces to the child support calculation: (1) An actual physical needs worksheet, and (2) A tax-free income redistribution; with the Court establishing the higher of the two as the child support order. I recognize that custodial parents may need some time to adjust after divorce, and I have no problems with alimony/maintenance. However, I would like the alimony portion of child support to be eliminated. If a CP wants to better their lifestyle, they can put the work into bettering themselves just like NCP’S are often admonished to do. Children are NOT tax-free income producing assets, and NCP’s are NOT indentured servants.

Reforms to child support enforcement: If one wants to accomplish a goal, it helps establish good or helpful conditions to achieve that goal. Unfortunately, the Family Court has become accustomed to pathological and often draconian measures for enforcement in which the civil rights of NCP’s are systematically ignored or eliminated through administrative court procedures. If a person loses their job, or becomes ill or disabled, it makes no sense what so ever, to take away their driver’s license, vocational license, destroy their credit, throw them in jail, or force them into homelessness. How does this help to ensure the support gets caught-up? It doesn’t. It simply makes the problem worse and sets the non-custodial parent up for future, life-destroying failures. Truthfully, current regimes for enforcement that treat “deadbroke” parents as common criminals are completely inappropriate.

Social Security Act, Title IV, Part D, Section 458 “Incentive Payments To States”: I have no problem, in theory, with states being rewarded for child support enforcement. However, I have a big problem with States profiting from it, and a REALLY big problem with the lack of resources available to NCP’s for visitation enforcement. For little or no cost, a CP can have the state pursue civil or criminal remedies for delinquent child support. However, an NCP in reality, must hire an attorney if his or her visitation orders are being ignored, and often, these orders are not enforced with anywhere near the same severity by the Court as they are with child support orders. And I’m confident this is happening in large part, due to the financial interests of those parties noted in paragraph four. Therefore, if there is going to be Federal incentives for the enforcement of Family Court orders, I want equal weighting and importance put the enforcement of visitation orders. Honestly, the message that money is more important than a parent’s relationship and the emotional well-being of children is remarkably disgusting. I simply can’t tolerate that kind of worldview.

VAWA reform. I agree that victims of abuse and violence need the ability to feel safe in swiftly seeking the protection of the Justice system. However, fraudulent allegations of abuse made during Family Court are getting out of control. This is a gender-neutral problem, and it seems it now boils down to which party can launch this nuclear attack first. There are no remedies available to the victims of fraudulent allegations – none, and the damage these allegations cause to both children and parents is catastrophic. The American Bar Association loves to fall back on VAWA as its reasoning for opposing any kind of Family Law reform. However, I can’t help but wonder how much money attorneys and investigators are making from a law that allows someone to be accused of such a serious crime and presumed guilty of it with no credible evidence what-so-ever. Something needs to be done about this, right now.

In short, much of the current political and judicial rationalizing for the current structure of Family Law centers on the concept of what’s “in the best interests of the children”. However, what is becoming increasingly clear is that children are simply being used as a seemingly noble excuse to mask a greedier underlying motive that is causing significant and irreparable harm to parents and children alike.

I understand you can expect to receive significant resistance to my ideas for reform because those parties noted earlier have a great deal to lose when they take place.

However, I’m not concerned about them. I’m concerned about the health and well-being children and parents, and your position on this matter will affect my voting behavior going forward.

Therefore, I will be grateful if you will tell me, in plain and simple words, where you stand on Family Law Reform.

Thank you so much for your time.

Sincerely,

Does not seem that Cafcass staff can read , I do not live in the UK thus do not have a MP so can not go to the Ombudsman! How stupid are these people ???

Dear Mr Ferreira,

I understand that Mr Durban wrote to you on 17th January 2014, confirming that Ms Dudley’s complaint response letter (dated 16 January 2014) marked the end of the Cafcass complaints procedure. He confirmed that Ms Dudley’s letter outlined your options if you are dissatisfied with the outcome of your complaint.

I would reiterate the point made by Mr Durban in his letter of 17th January that the Cafcass complaints procedure is a one step process and does not provide for further review of your complaint by the Chief Executive or any other senior manager. It has come to my attention that you have been sending a number of emails to Mr Anthony Douglas and others at Cafcass recently. As we have responded to your complaint I would ask that you stop sending such emails or letters.

Should you have any reason to contact Cafcass regarding your case please send this to your practitioner, Mr Peter Morey only.

Should you have any reason to contact Cafcass for any reason other than directly relating to your case please put this in writing to me, at my address below. If you send a written communication to anyone else in Cafcass than it will be deleted without reading.

We will of course provide any information for the PHSO, should the Ombudsman or her officers be in contact regarding your complaint.

Regards

Colette

Colette Jacobs
Head of Communications
Cafcass, 6th Floor, Sanctuary Buildings
Great Smith Street
London
SW1P 3BT
DX Cafcass 157050 Westminster 3
Mobile: 07867908215
Website: http://www.cafcass.gov.uk

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Dear Mr Ferreira

I have raised your query with Her Honour Judge Singleton QC and copy her reply below:-

My order of November provides for professionally supervised contact. That order is in force and I would hope that this can take place this week in accordance with that order but neither I nor anyone else in the case can oblige anyone or any agency to take on the task of supervision if they consider the risks of doing so are too high.

regards

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Family Section

Lancaster County Court

Please note my new e-mail address – xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

I am not authorised to bind the Ministry of Justice contractually, nor to make representations or other statements which may bind the Ministry of Justice in any way via electronic means

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Hello little men!

How are you two muppets doing today ? I hope very well…

Lots going on today , I had a phone conversation with Peter Morey from Cafcass this morning re the current state of affairs , this man has his head so far up a place the Sun does not shine , that he does not even realise the rubbish he tries to tell me to defend his misconduct and Child Abuse support! I as you will have seen emailed his CEO again , am sure they will not respond as they keep trying to hide behind the system instead of doing the job the Queen pays them to do , and who suffers abuse because of this ? You both no one else….but it seems I am the only one that sees that !

Boys I do not know where and if this will ever end but I need you both to know the Truth and that I have and will fight to make you both safe until my last breath , no matter what happens to me in the end , I am a big boy , I can take it !

I think what breaks my heart is that you both will read this one day and think I am loopy I am sure as by then you would have been so brainwashed and alienated that this all will sound like crazy talk to you both.

I can only hope and pray that you will understand and know the Truth!

Enough dribble from me , lol..

I hope you both have had a great start to the week and still looking forward to your monthly update that is due today and then our visit on Thursday. I have confirmed to your school that as they have not responded with any concerns that I will visit them on Wednesday at 2pm , depending on traffic I guess !

Would be nice to know where and how you both spend your time at school…

Been a long day already for me , think it is early to bed today as tomorrow will be a long day again , but all good and for the right cause….

Hope you both will have a peaceful night , and I can’t wait to see you both later under our big old green tree in dream land , packing big warm bear cuddles for you both…..

Night , night little men happy dreams about spending some time on Thursday…..

Love you both , lots and lots , and o did I say lots ….miss you more ….

Love you little men…….always

Dad xx