Hello little men !
Hope you both are doing very well today ….lazy Sunday I guess for you both , felt a bit strange for me having to get up for work this morning as I have not done Sundays for the past 3 months….
I am really looking forward to your monthly update that I should get tomorrow as per the current Court order , maybe I might even get a current photo of you two…. You two need to also once you are able to send me a picture of you both with B&B , would love to see what breed they are and you having some fun with them both…
After your care givers spokes person went to talk rubbish to the Core Assets people re contact on 27 Feb I have not heard any news , all I know is your care giver said she would confirm a place for the contact on 24 Jan , that never happened , big surprise ! Also your solicitor said now that Core Assets class our family as to high risk after the visit of your care givers spokesperson she will find an alternative venue , that also have not happened so I guess I will have to come see you both at home then as the Court orders allowed me contact on the 27th , so can’t wait to see you both!
We had a comment from the lady called Babs again yesterday , if I did not know any better the poor English and foul langue I could swear that , that message came from your care giver or her spokesperson as that is they way they both speak to me all the time …nice people they are as I have said before…..
Ouma and Oupa sends all their love also , they say they hope that the will be able to see you both also one day soon or maybe even just say hello on the phone or Skype……
Just want to wish you both a great week , full of fun and lots of giggles , can’t wait to see you both on Thursday……
I will see you both a little later under our big old green tree in dream land, can’t wait for my dream cuddles and smiles…..
Night , night little men , happy new week dreams …..
Love you both more than mega big airports …..and miss you more ….
Love you little men…
Dad xx




Hi
Well I’m sorry my English ain’t as perfect as the queens( or the same as your ex! I will try harder) but you made my blood boil about taking your kids out of school as that sounds like a dumb plan ! Am a bit hacked off to be honest you seem to think I’m thick , my writing may not be brilliant but nothing wrong with my brain and I am pretty good at judging people !
I’m guess you will be going to prison then if you turn up without being allowed ? Why would you do that ? Makes no sense to me .
Oh and some of us would love to work but life costs more than we can earn , benefits isn’t a nice option but the only one sometimes . Otherwise I would work 12 hours a day and spend no time with my kids . Which is better ? Work yourself stupid so you don’t see your kids or work less, have less money but time with your kids ? Time with your kids can’t be bought .
Babs
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Hi Babs,
Thank you for your comment as always,
I have no issue with your writing, I do have an issue with foul langue used by people in general to make a point, but as I mentioned that is your choice to do so!
Re not working , maybe my mindset is negative on this as I come from a Country if you don’t work you don’t get money, if you look at your culture the state is forcing you to stay at home as they pay you more than you can earn when employed, which I am sorry in my mind makes no sense,
I paid almost 3000 pound in tax and national insurance monthly when I worked in the UK but as I was South African me and my family did not get any benefit from this money we paid monthly, so I guess what I am trying to say if people get benefits why not let them work for the state or councils like normal people all over the world do each and every day , I do not believe in getting or taking something because every one else is doing so… The model has to fail at some point and what will happen to all those people then?
Re jail, I have a court order giving contact my ex is the one refusing to arrange it , so the police told her with out a court order from her side they will not get involved….will see what happens but you forget it’s not the 1st time she has tried to lock me up and the CPS told her she is a joke last time also !
Hope you and the little ones will have a great weeks! happy Monday !
Speak Soon
Phill xx
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Hi Babs,
Just one more thought , I then have to buy the time with our boys ? So why can normal people not work ?
I have to pay around 200 pound a hour excluding the 1500 pounds for flight , hotel and car rental etc.
Kind Regards
Phill xx
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