Good afternoon little men!
How are my little ones doing this lovely Saturday afternoon ? I hope fantastic and full of smiles….
We had a power cut yesterday just after I did your daily update until about 4 am this morning, the joys of massive storms in Africa, Ouma and I had to get the candles out , felt like a camping trip , I think you two would have loved it! Oupa had to get the little gas stove out for Coffee for them. I must say the world feels clean and bright again this morning. It looks like we might get yet another storm tonight so am looking forward to that.
I think all the stuff is ready for next week, I have provided a select number of people full access to your blog also now should Judge Singleton decide to send me to jail for sharing your story and the facts on this case , so don’t despair your blog will keep going daily with updates if I am not able to do it myself anymore that I have ensured. All the Court documents etc. will also be released on here if need be to ensure that you both know the truth no matter what happens !
I emailed your school again with the police update received from Chester PPU to ask what they have to say now about the delusional claims of your care giver and her spokesperson, as thought they have not responded , thus we will have to file for the removal notice for you both from this school on Monday to ensure that you both are placed in a school that is approved by myself and your care giver and a school that will honour my rights also and not just the fantasies of your care giver , least they now know she is a drunk and addicted to pain killers as I am sure she has neglected to share that little bit of information with them the past couple of months…..I have also mailed them the PAS child abuse guidelines so that they are aware what your care giver is doing is classed as child abuse even in the UK.
I am still just really sorry that you both are being used by your care giver and her drunk spokesperson to get their kicks and to help them fuel their drunken delusional fantasies, like I told your school yesterday I think they watch to much CSI when they are smashed as your cousin says….I can only hope at some point people start seeing these people for what they really are …child abusers and drunks ……
Not sure what you two muppets have been doing today but I hope you are safe , fed , warm and happy …….I am not sure this is the case ,of what I am being told but let’s just hope what the family friends are telling me is wrong…. Very wrong ……
I hope you both liked the picture of the doggy trying to wake people , I guess that is what B&B will do with you both if they are not chained up outside in the rain as I know your care giver and spokesperson will do with little puppies that might cause a mess!…..
Not sure what time I will be writing after today little men , but I will try and do so whenever I can……
Just want to wish you both a nice fun , safe and happy Sunday ……
Can’t wait to see you both later under our big old green tree in dream land ….please bring extra double little O cuddles……
Night , night little men…..safe , warm , happy Sunday dreams…
Love you both very large trucks full and miss you much more ……
Love you little champs …..
Dad xx
The Story of my Twin Boys Oliver and Oscar Ferreira 
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Wow are you some kind of retard ? I thought you was clever but what the fcuk are you doing about your kids in there school ?
Do you know how hard it is to get a nursery place these days ? You say you wanted them in school from tiddlers and now you want to stop them . Are you barking mad ? Sounds like you are playing sum kinda fucked up game with your ex and using your boys as some kind of weapons . You seriously need your head looking at as you isn’t normal . You really think they will thank you for taking then outta there school and away from there mates ? Sorry but you is a fukwit!
You say one minute you ain’t coming to see your boys cos they won’t let you out with them , but if you is soooo desperate to see them why don’t you play the rules ? Surely you’d see them in a locked room rather then not at all or is this game not about them , which is what it seems and about you trying to look like some sort of marter . Well I got news for you . You are looking like a tit and if you want my sympathy you don’t got it no more . I reckon your ex is probably a saint and you are sum sort of power hungry nasty piece of shit . If I was her id fight to keep you away permanently cos you are obviously twisted .
I hope you get what you deserve and that clearly ain’t access to your kids . Maybe prison is the best place for ya ! Be careful what you wish for !
Babs
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Hi Babs,
Thank you for your comment as always and taking the time to read our boys blog.
Like I have said before we all have our opinion and that’s fine , you forget that my ex removed the boys from their last school in Sussex with no regard for them , all I have asked for since July last year was to know where they go to school and if the school is good and safe but I have been denied this information.
I have now asked to go see the school next week when the boys are not there but I am being told I am not allowed to see the School , how is that right ? So you agree with her doing what she likes ?
Have you ever been locked in a room to see you little ones ? I guess not , so don’t judge until you have had to deal with that situation…..
I am not a criminal and will not be treated like one ! I have never asked for sympathy,all I have asked for is fair access to our boys , and to be part of their lives.. If you knew the whole story I am sure your response would be a little different , but as I said you are intitled to your opinion and I respect that regardless as always.
I have said from day one being locked in a room to see your Dad is not a normal situation for any child and will not benefit them at all , no matter what you say , all it will do is cause them upset and confusion and that is not fair on our little men….yes I will give my life to see them but I am not willing for them to be abused and totured to support a dulisional care givers fantasies. Not you or any Court will convince me that this will be good for our little men!
Hope things are going better for you and that you and the little ones are ok.
Take Care
Phill xx
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Sorry Babs , in future please watch the foul langue as our boys will read this blog one day , and as an intelligent lady I am sure you can make your point without swear words !
Must say if I did not know better I would have thought this comment was written by my ex today !
Take care
Phill xx
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Phill, please take this comment from someone who has heard your story from yourself and as a mother, the whole situation with the boys does seems to be heading to a serious disaster for you but surely thinking in their best interest is what is most important. Pulling the kids but of school because they don’t necessarily support your decision to be in contact with the boys is in your best interest not the twins. And until such point you are granted full or joint custody of the boys the school will follow the wishes of their mother.
Having met the boys mother as well (she is their mother no matter your opinion of her) I’m sure an amicable solution can be found at some point and if it is found, I hope, one day that when you are asked to explain this blog to the children you will have all the information you say you do to substantiate your allegations on your blog.
Please remember that at the heart of this story there are two little boys who should be your first priority and not bad mouthing their mother.
As always, we look forward to seeing you on your next trip to Dubai.
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Hi Nicky,
Thank you for taking the time to read the boys blog and commenting, as I have always said we all have our opinions, I find your comments re the care giver strange as you well know how she is and was when we lived in Dubai , she alienated you all as she felt you all were not her friends!
I lived with her and her family for 5 years so of course I can back up what I say that I can assure you ! No ” mother” will do to her children what this women have done to our boys in the past year to alienate them from me and my entire family because we know she is a drunk and a drug addict !
This blog is being written for our boys to have the truth not the rubbish the care giver and her family is telling the boys!
Do you think it is right to be locked in a room for 2 hours 4 times a year with your little one for no good reason more that what your husband says he wants? I think not…..
Hope fully after next week I will be able to load all 9400 pages of Court documents so that the Truth will be shown , not my version or the care givers version!
Hope to see you 3 soon!
Take Care
Phill xx
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Phill, I’m not commenting on a personal basis of either of you whether it might be from this morning or 5 years ago, I’m commenting on the basis that in a few years time there are going to be two utterly bewildered little boys, who may not understand what is going on now, but give it a few years will be struggling to understand the enormity of having two parents at odds with each other. There is no way in hell I would wish what is happening to you and your family upon my worst enemies nor do I believe that children should be apart from their parents, but the only healthy way for this both to happen is for both sets of parents to set aside their mutual dislike and contempt for another and find a way to work together.
Again please remember that I am only commenting as a friend and a mom.
Keep well.
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Hi Nicky,
Thank you for your comment again,
As I have said before I am a big boy and can take it on the chin if I am wrong , but remember since July last year I have been asking re the boys new school , is it good , are the people qualified are the boys safe , but I have and been denied this information !
I can give you hundreds of pages with me trying to resolve this amicably but the care giver and her father makes out that I am a criminal and a threat to our boys , how much time have I spent with your little one ? Do you think I am a criminal and a threat to little ones ? I hope not ….
This whole issue is about the care giver being angry with me as I said enough when I walked out on the Easter weekend last year as I was not willing to endure more abuse from her and her father but yet I am know the bad person because I fight to be a part of our little mens lives !
Which “mother” will not even allow a Dad and grandparents to wish little ones a happy Christmas ? These people are delusional and this blog will give our boys the whole story once they are old enough to understand it !
Speak soon,
Phill xx
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phil you need to do what you heart tells you dont listen to others listen to what means more to xx
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I try each day , but this I am told makes me a bad person , doing and standing up for what is right !
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