A challenge to all who read my blog !

Dear All,

Please feel free to comment or add to my blog any time , I will not edit any of your content but will respond if your facts are incomplete or wrong as I have the right to do so , thus by this message I give you all that same right.

Just always remember a story has 2 sides also but however much you try to lie to try and justify what you are doing you are practising parental alienation and child abuse under the terms of your own laws in the UK

And after your blatant lies to the Court this week you should be ashamed of yourself that the judge had to write you to call you out ! And know you are using the boys Solicitor and Cafcass to try and brush this under the carpet by ignoring it as you dragged them into your web of lies also!

Kind Regards

Phill Ferreira

A special message for Sheila as she say I have something to hide….

Please find below the full Email from Sheila Mcclure received on my old work email;

——– Original message ——–
From sheilamcclure
Date: 16/01/2014 7:38 PM (GMT+00:00)
To pferreira@…..

Subject Re your blogg

As for me harrassing you on your blog page you invited people to follow your story if you dont stop calling me on this page I will take court action against you I will also inform your work chairman as you must be doing this blog in work time
Phil let me tell you few home truths which you may not like as the truth hurts
Your boys won’t for nothing which is no thanks to you as you cant even contribute to them you won’t everyone on your blog fe el sorry for you phil

Your boys need feeding nappies etc let your blog page know you don’t contribute phil bet you not got the balls.?, only for good grandparents they have here and good family support your boys are credit to your ex wife as everyone says from the general public they met everyday to their teacher’s I spent alot of time with the boys as their pleasure to be with and so much fun anyone can be dad phil takes a man to be father and stand up to his responsibility . Cant wait myself to take them away for their birthday which I am paying for not the state as you make out jaynes living off I wanted send this as comment to your blog page but you block what you dont wont people to see why dont you stop calling the mother of your boy’s and be very thankful for good family up bringing they have and good family and friends support they have in years to come your boys will read your blog phil dont think they will be pleased their dad calling their mum and her family can I give you bit advice phil do your blog by all means keep it to little boys growing up not calling everyone Your misssing out so much on two very loving little boys growing up who are credit to their mum phil we will no longer let you call us as family when we are doing everythink for your boys hope your trearment is going well for your illness

SHEILA

My response to Sheila

Hi Sheila thank you for your email ,

As I have told you various times leading up to me blocking you on Facebook I want nothing to do with any member of the mcclure family , nothing personal against you.

I do not work full time any more and my employer is 100% behind the cause and supports me with any and all flexibility I need, So do not dare to threaten me !

I am also shocked that at almost 3 the boys are still in nappies , this is bad parenting if I have ever seen.

Re support you forget that your family refused to let me see my boys or provide the papers I need to have stayed in the UK and work and support them , you also forget I made your family a cash offer with the car same as CSA amount that they turned it down as they wanted more ! I have not been asked once since I had to leave the UK about these arrangements , I have emailed your families divorce lawyer more than 10 times re the divorce from April last year with no response to how they want to proceed as they have to pay me half of Bingley which they are not willing to do.

My blog is for friend and family who care about my boys and the truth , I did not invite you to join…

You also seem to forget me and my parent are not even allowed to know where the boys go to school and live , send them a card or say hello on the phone and this makes your family good patents ???I think not this by law it makes them and you child abusers !

Thank you for taking my boys on holiday as I will never be allowed to do this because of your family , being a mum is not about controlling your kids it’s about what is the best for them and this is not what your family is doing at all , read up about parental alienation please …

If you want to make comments in future I promise I will add them to the blog no issue but check your facts or you make yourself look stupid like the rest of them

Kind Regards

Phill Ferreira

Daily update for my boys 16 Jan 2014

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Hello little men…

Hope you both are doing fantastic on this lovely very hot Thursday afternoon….

I have had a lazy day to be honest had a bit of work stuff to sort this morning but more than that I have just relaxed, guess I am getting use to working on African time again , least I know it gives me so much more time to devote to you both and our contact battle…

Your blog had 2615 visitors yesterday and now have 239 full time email followers of which only one is a stalker , your Aunt , but shame I guess she means well and is just nosy to have news to feed your spokes person and care giver, I guess they all will get bored at some point with stalking me and our daily communication, I read yesterday people like that are called internet trolls, lol made me smile as when I was a child we use to have a program that we watched that had these horrible green trolls with snot dripping from their noses , that comment made me think about that , maybe a fitting mental image , lol

I think you two are still at school so hope you are having plenty of fun , learning and giggles…..hope you don’t get to much home work for tomorrow , lol , I know spaghetti sticking can be stress full , the glue goes all over your hands and you stick to everything for the rest of the day , hard work , lol

So it does not look like I will be allowed to see you both end of Feb , so I have asked that my 3rd date your 3rd Birthday be agreed for contact and then we can move the Court case to the day after as it seems your spokesperson and care giver is exposing their narsesitic personalities more each day this week , the web of lies is actually amusing as they don’t seem to see how stupid they all look….time will tell…..

I hope you two will have a great day tomorrow also at school , say hello to all your little friends from me ……

As always little boys I will see you both a little later under the big old green tree in dream land , can’t wait to give you both huge cuddle….

Night , night happy big school boy dreams ……

Love you both to the moon and back and miss you more ….

Love you boys …

Dadxx

Daily update for my Boys 15 Jan 2014

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Good afternoon my little O’s,

Hope my champs are doing very well today ……

I heard today that you two now go to School on a Thursday and a Friday , I find that a little strange as the person who is caring for you now, never wanted you to go for two consecutive days as I was always told it makes your week better to go on a Tuesday and Thursday, but as normal I was told I am wrong and know noting… Story of my life the past 5 years… But keeping this in mind then I hope you two will have lots of fun the next 2 days at school , my apologies for not knowing but as I am kept 100% in the dark now about your wellbeing and lives I had no way of knowing…

So I had some very amusing emails from your Solicitor , spokesperson and your care giver , the 3 of them are not even trying to talk to each other so each make up their own lie to try and cover up the breach of the contact order , I must admit the 3 of them look like total fools in front of the Court but they seem to thick to even realise this… Guess this is what I have been saying all along that these people are a little bit slow but I guess that is normal for the Courts in the UK as they support and back up the blatant lies….. As I told you both before the life lesson here is that if you give a monkey enough rope he will hang himself …and as a horrible old man likes to say ” the truth will prevail ” and I agree with this and am seeing this each day now more and more in this battle of fair and normal contact with you both….

I have also heard the last bit of evidence has now been circulated and I am sure a certain big loud mouth person is hanging his head in shame as the truth did prevail and what I have been telling the court and Cafcass for 8 months has now been confirmed in black and white for the whole world to see , want to see how they get around this one and what lie they will come up with to save face value …..going to be hard to dodge this one….

I still don’t know if I am going to be allowed to see you both on 27 Feb with all the going-ons of the last two days…I assume it will just help our case if people still with all these lies exposed decide to play the so called victims….. I will keep you posted if I hear more little men…

It’s been mega hot here today and looks like we might get some rain shortly again, would be nice I think we need a cool down….

Don’t know what you two have been doing today but I hope it was fun and that people did not take their frustration and tension out on you both as they normally do , as that would make me really sad……and reinforce that they are child abusers under the UK legal term…

As I said boys , have a great two days at school lots of fun , learning and happy times….

As always pals I will see you both a little later under the big old green tree in dream land , can’t wait to give you both a big mountain bear cuddle …..

Night , night little boys , happy learning lots dreams …

Love you both so , so much , guess you will never know …..

Love you my boys …

Dadxx

Daily update for my boys 14 Jan 2014

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Hello little men…

Really hope you two are doing well….hope is all I can do….

Still no news about your operation little man , so as I have said before we are all thinking of you each day and pray that you are or will be ok as I am not sure if you have or still need to be done ….

I have been running around a little this morning but all sorted now, so I am sitting here on the sofa with my feet up just relaxing …it’s very hot here today again and looks like we might get some rain a little later….

Oupa seems to be doing much better , he has finished the work he was doing on his camper bike trailer thing so it’s seems all ready to go ….

Had confirmation of my appointments next week also , I guess then we will know how crazy I am , if indeed at all..sure it will make some interesting reading if nothing else…. I will keep you both posted and make sure you have copies in your hard copy of all the Court documents should you want to read it one day …..lol , please make sure you both are well rested before you tackle this box as I almost put my back out just moving it the other day , can’t believe how much paper we have already and I guess after today lots more to come….

You two must be in full winter bear mode now and dressed like Eskimos daily ….I know you two don’t like the hats and cloves but you need them to stay nice and cosy if you have to go outside or even play outside at school…..would love to see you both having some fun if I am honest , but that is not meant to be for now….. Or is it ….

I am going to be a little tied up the last part of this month as I have a fair bit of travel to do , might even try and pop in at your school if I have time to come and say hello…. Sure that might land me in hot water again but will be well worth…..

I hope you two have had a great fun day full of smiles…..

As always little champs I will see you both a little later under our big old green tree in dream land ….I need extra double bear cuddle tonight I think , lol ….can’t wait….

Night , night little men , warm cosy dreams of happier days….

Love you both truck loads full and miss you more ….

Love you boys…

Dadxx