“BUT, I DID NOT ALIENATE OUR CHILD FROM YOU” – Mom
If you as a mother claim that you were not responsible for alienating your children from their fathers, then answer me this – why do you continue to do it even when they are adults? Adults who seek out their fathers wanting to hear their side of the story and who then begin to rebuild a relationship. If you, mom, are not guilty or responsible for destroying that relationship through childhood, then your current ACTIONS, SPEAK LOUDER THAN YOUR CURRENT WORDS.
Tell me, what is so wrong with your child having a relationship with his father?
You had him or her for the best parts of their lives. Now, it is time for you to let go and let them have their fathers for the rest of theirs and for what is left in life. Because, they will never get back what was taken from them in the name of profit, greed and selfishness.
You cannot expect me to believe your version of the truth about that father, if you continue to destroy that father even when your children are no longer children anymore, but adults.
Get over yourselves. I realize that the world, society, the government and an entire family court system does actually revolve around you, but there are those of us who see you for who and what you are and will hold you both responsible and accountable.
Children do not naturally hate their parents. It has to be taught.
To the children of these single mothers who have been taught that their fathers were and are deadbeats, I beg you to step away. Step away from both of your parents if necessary. Spend some time pondering reality and truth from lies and deception. Ask yourself, had you been raised by your fathers all of those years, instead of your mothers, then how would you have turned out?
Just because things appear to be one way, does not mean that they is actually how they were or are. You just have to be willing to stand up to your mothers, because spoken from personal experience, I can promise you that they are not the poor, fragile, innocent victims that they have led you to believe that they are for your entire lives.
Right or wrong and who was or is right or wrong – in the end, does any of it matter to the child? In many ways yes it does. But, if you as that child grew up only knowing your mother, grandmother and your entire maternal circle of friends of family’s version of that truth, the in fairness sake, justice sake and for all that is right in the world, don’t you think you deserve to know and to have that other missing information, from your fathers? Given them the benefit of the doubt and stop seeking to protect your mothers because the truth will most likely shock the hell out of you.
If you are disrupting, abusing, berating and preventing a father-child relationship as adults, then you mom are proving to me that you were also guilty of destroying that bond throughout his or her entire childhood as well.
And, it is not about YOU.
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