Co-Parenting with a Narcissist 2: The Nightmare Continues

I left off last time after having a weekend visit with my 6 year old daughter back in October. It was my first visit with her since June. Although I have a legal court order that states I am to have her one weekend a month of my choosing my ex husband Frankie refuses to […]

The Plug and Play Method of Your Favorite Narcissist

In the narcissist’s life, never overlook the fact that he or she views your relationship with him or her as similar to a “plug and play” electronic device. In your relationship with the narcissist, the narcissist views you as someone whose sole purpose is to perform for him or her without requiring any real input/upkeep/or […]

The Narcissistic Disconnection

After interactions with a narcissistic individual, we often sense a need for healing. Healing of “what”? I began asking myself. I realized we are often looking to heal multiple wounds of disconnection. When you interact with a narcissistic individual, gaping wounds may develop as one part of you is disconnected from another. In dealing with […]

Guidelines for Interactions with a Narcissist

Oh, it has been so long since I have written about narcissism. Perhaps I just needed some space to process. More likely, its simply the result of watching the narcissistic pattern again and again form its endless, repetitive loop of confusion. Here is what I have been telling myself in regards to maneuvering around those […]

2016 No Baggage

A New Year! Resolutions are made, loose weight, stop smoking, stop drinking, exercise more etc. But wait, are ‘resolutions’ not the same thing as goals? If this your first time visiting my website, searching for answers regarding your partner {or parent’s} strange behavior, pathological lying, having been caught in affair’s, and so on. Please read […]