Daily update for my Boys 10 April 2014

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Good Afternoon Little Men…

Hope you muppets are doing well and having a nice day ….

Champs I assume you have seen the C100 application and the statement , the mind boggles how this can be allowed to continue …. Today it’s bad that you have to change schools because of rubbish your paid surrogate told your school about me and the fact that she does not want to deal with the truth , but yet when she ripped you out of your school in Horsham after a year that was no issue , she kept you out of school for more than 6 months , yet again that was no issue , she has uprooted you 4 times in one year now but yet again that is no issue and all in your best interest …I am sorry but am I missing something here ? When is this dulisional women going to see how much she is hurting you both to make herself feel better about what SHE wants to do , she has no regard for you , you both are just a pay check to her and this will remain the case …sad but I guess that is normal in the UK for mums to use little ones to pay for their Booz and pain killers ….

I see she says she had 50 quid a week for the house , funny how we had only a joint back account which was more than 10 pages each month with her using her card on the account , must have been many single transactions at the One pound store ! She has never cooked you a meal , you only ate M&S ready meals so not sure how she did that with 50 quid , she drove a Mercedes ML 4 x4 that took almost 200 pound to fill up , she must have been on the game then as I suspected whiles working away from home , I also wonder how she paid the full time Mother’s helps , cleaner , Gardner , Ironing lady plus 100 pounds a day for your nursery school , seems 50 quid a week goes a long way !

You both only had Aptimal small packs of ready milk as she refused to use normal formula , your milk was 80p each , keep in mind you fed every 45 minutes as she would only feed you on demand and had Non of her own milk as she was toooooo old to produce any ! As I told her get a job and help support us as a family but she would rather go out on the drink when you went to school then look for work….really caring and reasonable mother she was …..

Sorry pals as you can see I am charged up today as this women needs to be stopped…sooner rather than later ……

I will work on my response over the weekend but I think it is time to stop playing nice and start bringing out the evidence ….sure she is not going to like that but let’s hope the stupid people from the Court and Cafcass will start to see all I have tried and begged for the past year is to be a normal part of your life with NO contact with the paid surrogate or any member of her Child Abusing family ……

Hope you both will have a nice safe day tomorrow ….not long now before the Easter bunny is in town….I bet you both and B&B can’t wait ….

Can’t wait to see you both later under our big old green tree in dreamland …packing warm bear cuddles what ever she is calling you both today …..

Night , night Little Men …..dream big of normal child abuse free days soon..

Love you both trucks and trailers full and miss you much more ….

Love you always Champs …

Dad xx

FAQ – Does the Narcissist Miss You After No Contact?

Thanks for a great article again Kim 🙂

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A large percentage of people who’ve implanted No Contact with their Narcissistic partner will inevitably ask this question.  Why?  Because they are often consumed with missing the Narcissist, and they wonder if he or she has the same feelings of loss and sorrow…perhaps wondering if there’s a chance to rekindle the relationship.

The short answer is no.  When we ponder if the Narcissist misses us, we are projecting our feelings onto them.  The important thing to remember is that Narcissists do not think the way we do, nor experience the same emotions that we do.  They operate solely from ego, so the usual emotions of missing someone or feeling sadness or regret typically don’t affect them.  Below are the most common stages (emotional and physical) a Narcissist goes through when one has implemented No Contact (**These are not listed in order of rank.   These stages are for reference and can…

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Daily update for my Boys 9 April 2014

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Good Afternoon Little Men….

How are my Champs doing ? I hope oki doki ….

I can’t believe how cold it has gone today ….feels like full-on winter here …

I have spent most of today watching the Oscar trial …the more I watch this the more I get the feeling he is talking to much for his own good , I still feel sorry for him , as I said before I don’t agree or think what he has done is right but something about the guy makes me feel for him… It’s not going to end well for him I am sure…..

I need to try and catch up on all the Facebook pages tonight also , so much going on it seems I have lost track a little the past week. I am still having issues with your blog on the iPad , I have done the update but it seems the view issue still remains unresolved ….a little frustrating to say the least ….

O before I forget , as expected no statement from your paid surrogate today as per the Court order , just normal I guess as she has ignored all Court orders and filling dates in the past year so why would that change now?….will keep you posted and blog it once it comes in IF it does come in…

Been reading up lots on parental rights and children’s name change laws in the UK and I think the Judge is wasting her time as there is so much case law that prevents her from making this order and if she does the appeal can not be heard by her so it seems we will be getting a new Judge pretty soon after all…

Hope you muppets are being loved and cared for and that all is as well as it can be as hostages ……

I will see you both later again under our big old green tree in dreamland …packing big warm bear cuddles for you both ….

Night , night Little Man ….great dreams of better days ….soon….

Love you both TTThhhhhhhhiiiiiissssssss much and miss you much , much more …..

Love you Champs …..always …

Dad xx

Parenting Tips On How To Talk To Your Children

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Speak Like A Child

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                Children are able to understand a lot of things, more than adults give them credit for. As a parent, it’s important to emphasize certain things in your relationship with your kids and help them develop into healthy, intelligent adults capable of abstract thought and compassion for others. A lot of people, in our culture, want to put children into a metaphorical box. Basically what I mean by this is that people have this idea that children don’t grasp concepts that adults readily accept or understand in our everyday lives; it’s the “kid’s menu” of life. The point is that we have this idea that things need to be dumbed down for kids. They do to some extent but the reality of the situation is that you just need to explain things in a different way, while still exploring the same concept. You can’t get…

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