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6 Dec 2013 – Daily update

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Hello Little Men,

How are you two doing today. I really hope well…

Well I have had fun and games to say the least today to try and set up this blog , and one of the photo’s are still defaulting to a standard picture not sure why , but I guess I will learn over time.

I hope you two had a nice day at school with all you little friends and had loads of learning and fun, I am sure you must be making Christmas cards this week, I still have the ones you made last year which was just a dry leave and a hand print , lol , I guess this years one will be even better , perhaps even with you names on.

I guess mum will not send me one this year but I know in my heart that you two would have made me one, so no worries.

I hope you two got your cards I posted to S’s house last week when I was in the UK , really sorry that mum is not allowing me to send you any gifts but I guess from now on I will send you ‘ I owe you’s’ to your email accounts should we ever be allowed to see each other again.

I see on BBC news the weather has not been so good around Chest I hope you both are wrapping up warm and yes I mean even you Oscar I know you don’t like your coat but you need to wear it , Oliver please keep telling him bbrrrrr its cold like you use to do , maybe one day he will listen and keep his coat on.

Pals I have heard no more yet from the Court today if they are going to give us a date next year again for this contact battle to continue , so lets hope , I will keep you posted as I might be allowed to see you both the day before again like last week.

I have mailed mum to ask if I may see you both on Christmas day as the current Court order says I may only see you four times a year but as normal mum has not responded and her and her father are ignoring the UK Courts once again, nothing new then boys hey , lol

So pals I have a busy week a head with work next week but as always will write each day but as I said to you in my email last night I will now use this blog and  not just your gmail accounts , there must be away how I can email these on or post them to your account, will have to look around and see if I can find out how to do that.

So my little O’s as each night for the past 10 months I hope to see you both a little later under our big old green tree in dream land for some dream little men cuddles and smiles…….

Night , night champs , sweet happy place dreams……

I miss and love you both so very much , to the moon and back in fact ……

Love you always pals …

Dad xx

My first try at the blog thing boys , for My Twin boys

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This is my first post to tell the world the story of my little boys and the struggle with their Mum , CAFCASS and The High Court in the UK

Boys I know you are very small and it might only be many, many years before you get to read this blog , but I honesty hope you get to do so one day as this is all I have been left with to try an keep contact with you both after the games JEF your mum , her father SM and her Brother SM has played to keep me from having any form of normal contact with you both.

Champs as far as I know today 5 Dec 2013 you are both being kept hostage by your mum in Chester near where her brother Simon also stays. Since I left mum on 1 April 2013 because of all the abuse I had suffered under her and her fathers hand , they have only allowed me to see you 4 times for 2 hours at a time.

I have been fighting in the UK courts since April this year to get to have a normal relationship with you but mum and her dad have lied and played the victim so well that Mr PM from CAFCASS and Judge S and your own solicitor Miss BB all believe I am crazy for trying so hard to stay in your lives , they are all backing mum so she can get state benefits in the UK while she keeps control of you both as she is to lazy to work and at the end of the day this will mean that you both will be deprived of so many opportunities due to mum not willing to stop drinking and taking pain killers , but PM from CAFCASS and the Judge all thinks this makes mum the best person to care for you , I guess it because I am South African as they have shown zero concern for your human rights only mums wallet as normal.

You might not know but I have created email accounts for you both on 20 April and have been writing to you both each day as it seems its the only way we get to spend a little bit of time with one another , I have also sent all the legal stuff to your accounts so should you wish one day to read the truth behind all of this and the fact that your Daddy has been taken away from you, you will be able to do so.

Boys I will use this blog going forward for your daily emails also and should I maybe get a photo of you from friends.

Boys just always remember I have never walked away from you and will continue this fight for you until the end of my time…

I miss and love you both so very much pals , breaks my heart that I am not even allowed to say hello to you on the phone or Skype

Love you both truck loads full …

Dad xx