Author Archives: Phill Ferreira
Note to my Facebook Stalker !
To my Facebook stalker, please note what I post on our boys blog comes onto Facebook by default and the other way around also , so please print from my blog as you are dragging my friends into issues.
Apologies, Xxxxxxxxxxxxx. And xxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Thank you in advance,
Phill Ferreira
Daily update for my Boys 12 Feb 2014
Hello little men!
How are my champs doing today ? I hope great !
Just got home from Bloemfontein, I think I have driven about 800 miles the past 2 days , so I think I have had enough of the car if I am honest, been a good trip all for a good cause so worth it at the end of the day….
Can’t believe how swollen I am from being in the car so much, I think the last time I was this bad was before you both were born when we went on the Nile cruise in Egypt with work…..not fun that I can promise you both…..
I can’t believe how much Bloemfontein and Klerksdorp have grown , but then again I have not been in that part of the Country for over 10 years….
Need to try and catch up on my email and admin , guess I will tackle that tomorrow if all goes to plan, Ouma and I have to go get a couple of things also , watch this space you two….lol , sure you both and the other readers of the blog will enjoy it….
The internet seems really slow here today, or maybe it’s just the blog , I see we are at 28 Countries , over 5600 views and more than 80 comments , I also see I have done over 200 posts for you two since Dec, don’t stress I am keeping your email accounts filed and sorted , with all the stuff from 20 April I think you both have about 1500 emails each to read when you are ready one day…..
Have no clue how you both are doing but I hope you are safe , I see the floods and bad weather continues in the UK….not good… Hope you both have your boots ready ! ……
I think you both are in school tomorrow again , so hope you both will have a cool day full of fun and lots of learning….say hello to all your little friends from me please ……
I will see you both a little later under our big old green tree in dream land …..brining you lots of dry warm bear cuddles……
Night , night little men …. Happy school day dreams …..
Love you both big oil tankers full and miss you more….
Love you little muppets….
Dad xx
Old F4J video … Worth a watch …..
How true is this little men, have just been sent this picture ,
True colours boys , see what I have been telling you both !
Dear All
Seems airing ones dirty laundry in public is better than being a real man and facing up to real life issues rather than looking for sympathy.
Pathetic !!
Look at what I told Babs boys and then see the email ?
Posted on February 11, 2014 by Phill Ferreira under Daily update for my twin boys
I said the psychologist interviewed me for 2 hours the extra hour and 20 min was used for me to complete the testing forms , so how am I telling lies?
Funny , how going to a double medium school and being able two read and write more than one language makes you a lire by people that left school at 16 !
Monkeys and rope boys , that’s all I can say !
See the response re questions asked to the psychologist, I smell a rat still boys !
Begin forwarded message:
From: “Rebecca Butterfield”
Date: 11 February 2014 14:31:20 GMT+2
To:
Cc: peter.morey@cafcass.gsi.gov.uk>
Subject: FW: Request for information Case Number LA13P00059 , Mr & Mrs Ferreira
Dear Mr Ferreira
Following your email to Mrs Kaur-Kelly on Friday, please find below a copy of the email that she has forwarded to me and a copy of my response to her.
I propose to draft a statement of issues and case summary to assist the Court, and will ensure that this issue is included in that so it can be addressed on 28th February.
Kind regards
Becky Butterfield
BSG Solicitors
BSG Solicitors is the trading style of Blackhurst Swainson Goodier LLP which is a
limited liability partnership registered in England and Wales (Registered No. OC350314).
We use the word ‘partner’ to refer to a member of the LLP, or an employee or consultant
who is a lawyer with equivalent standing and qualifications.Partners: Mark Burrow,
George Mercer BA, Tom O’Neill LLB, James Goodier MA (Oxon), Keith Parr BA,
Andie Brown LLB, Rebecca Lauder LLB.
Registered office 3&4 Aalborg Square, Lancaster, LA1 1BJ. Authorised and regulated
by the Solicitors Regulation Authority (no. 00524974).
From: Rebecca Butterfield
Sent: 11 February 2014 12:11
To: ‘Dalvinder Kaur-Kelly’
Subject: RE: Request for information Case Number LA13P00059 , Mr & Mrs Ferreira
Dear Mrs Kaur-Kelly
Thank you for your email. I have considered the questions that Mr Ferreira wishes you to answer, and my view is that these are questions that should properly be put in either cross examination, or as formal questions to you with the permission of the Court.
I suggest that I raise this as an issue at the hearing on 28th February, as at this hearing the Judge will be determining Mr Ferreira’s application to set the final order aside, and if granted, the Court can consider whether these questions should be put in writing in advance of a final hearing, or whether they can simply be dealt with by way of cross examination.
If Mr Ferreira wishes to make an complaint to your governing body then that is a matter for him. No doubt they will notify you directly in due course in that event. However in relation to the questions he has asked, I suggest that you take no further action on these, as you are a jointly instructed expert and you have concluded the work that the Court has directed you to complete. I will contact you further after the hearing on 28th February to confirm the position.
It would be helpful if you could confirm in advance of the hearing, in the event that the Court does order responses to questions, your likely timescales and estimated costs for doing so. Could you also please confirm, in the event that the matter is listed for a further final hearing, your likely costs in attending Court for a full day inclusive of travel expenses, so that we can make the parties aware and arrange to be put in funds on account.
I will notify Mr Ferreira of the position.
Many thanks for your continued assistance.
Becky Butterfield
BSG Solicitors
From: Dalvinder Kaur-Kelly [mailto:info@nkpsychological.co.uk]
Sent: 10 February 2014 09:11
To: Rebecca Butterfield
Subject: Fwd: Request for information Case Number LA13P00059 , Mr & Mrs Ferreira
Dear Ms Butterfield,
I have received the email below from Mr Ferreira. I was not in my office on Friday. I would be grateful if you could provide me with some clarity on how the Parties/Court wish for me to respond to his email.
I look forward to hearing from you.
Kind regards,
Dalvinder Kaur-Kelly
———- Original Message ———-
From: Phill Ferreira
To: “info@nkpsychological.co.uk”
Date: 07 February 2014 at 12:05
Subject: Request for information Case Number LA13P00059 , Mr & Mrs Ferreira
Dear Mrs. Dalvinder Kaur Kelly,
I hope this email finds you well.
I am currently in consultation with the HPC and the Medical Ombudsman and have been asked to make this request for information to yourself and allow you 7 days to respond.
1. Please could you explain as an independent expert why you provided Cafcass with a draft report 2 days before your final report was provided to myself.
2. Please could you explain as an expert how basic details like even my age is incorrect in your report , was this in fact my evaluation you commented on or someone else
3. Please could you provide the details of time spend on testing and interviewing me , keeping in mind that you where 45 min late for our meeting and we had only 3 hours and 20 min before I had to leave for my flight to leave the UK
4. Please can you explain as an expert how you are able to make a diagnosis on one interview , but yet non of your peers would be able to do so or even claim that this is possible
5. Please could you explain as an expert how you are allowed to quote my personal emails but yet you claim to be independent
6. Please could you explain why you refuse to provide the scoring details on the test you made me complete
7. Please could you explain as an expert how you make no reference in your report to my cultural back ground and in fact being South African and not English and the alternative tests that should have been used.
8. Please can you as an expert explain how you are able to say my statements were rehearsed but you offer no example of what I have said in fact
9. Please can you as an expert explain the quotes you use of me which is words and fracases that as a South African , Afrikaans speaking person I would never use and don’t even know the meaning off
10. Please as an expert can you explain why you refused my request to review the case file going back to April 2013 to understand my frustration but yet you were happy to use an extract of some of my emails to the legal team
11. Please can you provide details of the number of family law cases you have been involved in and how many of them are shown with males having personality orders
12. Please can you as an expert explain why you have decided details we discussed in dept re the blackmail from my wife’s family should not be in your report.
The notice time will be recorded as per the ZAR local time that this email is sent to you.
Should I not receive and acknowledgement of this email by close of play today , I take it as seen by you and should you choose not to respond and handle this matter in Court , please confirm your intention of same ASAP.
Looking forward to hear from you.
Kind regards,
Phill Ferreira
Sent from my iPad
Dalvinder Kaur-Kelly [Mrs]
B.Sc[Hons], M.Sc, C.Psychol
Consultant Forensic Psychologist
NK Psychological Services Ltd
PO Box 1603
Rowley Regis
B62 2HR
t:
e:info@nkpsychological.co.uk
Look at what I told Babs boys and then see the email ?
I said the psychologist interviewed me for 2 hours the extra hour and 20 min was used for me to complete the testing forms , so how am I telling lies?
Funny , how going to a double medium school and being able two read and write more than one language makes you a lire by people that left school at 16 !
Monkeys and rope boys , that’s all I can say !
—————
Dear Ms Butterfield
Thank you for your email.
Perhaps Mr Ferreira’s selective memory would be better spent explaining why he tells so many lies looking for sympathy than the actual truth, see below, he clearly tells a very public blog in reply to Barbed Wire (sorry Barb Dwyer) than he was only seen for 2 hours at the airport, yet in his questions to Ms Kaur-Kelly states he was seen for 3 hours and 20 minutes as per Item 3.
Mr Ferreira since knowing him has always boasted of attending Private Schooling in an English Speaking School (could also be untrue I now realise), and has also prided himself of being completely westernized, yet now looks for excuses claiming he is South African and for consideration to be given for this poor excuse.
Phill Ferreira
February 3, 2014 at 12:25 pm
Hi Barbs,
Thank you for taking the time to read my boys blog. I am really sorry to hear about your situation, breaks my heart if I am honest!
I wanted my wife to return to work to support us as a family as I paid over a 100 pound a day for nurcery fees , we had a full time nanny , ironing lady and cleaner but my wife felt she could give my boys a better life on 1200 pound benefits as a single parent , because I have taken up the fight to see our boys Cafcass says I am crazy , I and my wife told police I pushed her once in 2009 when we lived in Dubai and thus I am a domestic violence perpetrator with no proof , so she could get legal aid !
Also a psycologist interviewed me for 2 hours at a airport and decided I have narsicisim
In my case my ex is playing the system to line her pockets as she is getting free child care from the state but still sits at home…..
Kind Regards
Phill
Ps , keep your chin up ! Things will get better for you…. Xx
Video update for my Boys 11 Feb 2014





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