Author Archives: Phill Ferreira
‘That’ Statement on Overnight Contact And Where We Stand
Daily update for my Boys 20 June 2014
Hello Little Men !
How are my Champs doing on this lovely Friday ? I hope you are well and safe !
Apologies for the short update last night but I only had 5 min before I had to head out again and then only got back to the hotel around 1 am after dinner , we had a Chinese take-away at the local associates house …well ….I woke up at around 4 am not feeling great , had to go out this morning for some meetings in the city and thought I was going to be sick all the time , the guys brought me back to the hotel around midday as I think I was green by then , they got me some stuff from the chemist so feeling a little better but not great if I am honest …guess I have not had a bad run here the past 2 months as it’s the first time I have had food poisoning , normally I get it all the time here so I think I have just been lucky thus far 🙂
We had no power today at the factory again but luckily all the stock that had to go out was ready , so no big train smash , it seems we might have this problem for the next couple of weeks on Fridays so we are checking if we can give the lads off on a Friday and then work on a Sunday till things are back to normal.
I think Ramadan is starting end of next week or over the weekend so I am trying to close of my pending stuff and then head home I hope on Sunday next week.
No big plans here for the weekend working tomorrow and then Sunday night when the mall opens I need to go phone shopping as I said , it has now reached breaking point with all the phone issues , lol , I have just seen on twitter there is a new Blackberry out ! , yes , yes I know I said I have to move with the times but the new one looks pretty cool , it has a keyboard and very large screen so it seems the best of both worlds !
I hope you muppets will have a fun , safe happy weekend full of giggles , loads of playtime and plenty of learning 🙂 looks like you might have some sunshine also , so happy day !
Well Champs , I shall see you two monkeys a little later under our big old green tree in dreamland than , looking forward to some , hope you feel better, dream cuddles …
Night , night Little Men …..happy safe , fun playful weekend dreams ..
Love you both around the world and back and miss you a billion times more , today the emptiness just seems so much more …
Love you Champs ……always …..
Dad xx
Daily update for my Boys 19 June 2014
Hello Little Men !
Hope my Champs are doing great today !
I just want to say a quick hello , as I had to come to the hotel before a dinner meeting to clean my shoes , lol , yes , yes OCD , I know 🙂
Had a good day all and all not sure what time I will be back tonight so did not want to miss you before bed time !
Hope you two are safe and had a nice day also !
Can’t wait to see you both a little later under our big old green tree in dreamland , looking forward to some cool bear cuddles !
Night , night , sweet dreams …
Love you both lots and lots and miss you lots more ..
Dad xx
Understanding Borderline Personality Disorder ( BPD) / BPD Central
Protective Mothers' Alliance International
This article was originally posted on BPD Central ( link at bottom)
People with borderline personality disorder see people as all good or all bad and have extreme, blink-of-an-eye mood swings. Their fear of abandonment, combined with feelings of emptiness and self-loathing, makes others feel like they’re constantly walking on eggshells.
Some borderline individuals are suicidal and self-harm. Other rage, criticize, and make wild accusations. People with BPD suffer, and so do those around them. About a third of people with BPD also have narcissistic personality disorder (NPD); they are especially unwilling to look at themselves and their own behavior.
Familiar Fights
We all use defense mechanisms to get us through the day. But people with personality disorders use them to a greater extent, which makes it seem like they’re living in their own little world. If you spend too long isolated in a crazy environment, you may start to…
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Daily update for my Boys 18 June 2014
Hello Little Men!
Hope you monkeys are well and safe and had an oki doki loki day 🙂
I can not believe how hot it is here at the moment , today it felt as if the AC’s have not even worked , it started this morning when one of the other young fellas from work came to pick me up at Gloria Jeans , yes you guessed it , AC in his car was not working so I had a lovely 45 min drive at what felt like 6000000 degrees and humid , got to my office and had to head straight for production so by know it already must have looked like I was at a wet T shirt competition , lol , and even later in the office it’s as if the fans are only blowing air , same here now in the hotel room , maybe I am getting menopause , lol
Saying that , the heat I see has also given me full blown teenage attack of the killer acne 🙂 I have the biggest spot right in the middle of my eye brows ,and no I do not have an unibrow , funny monkeys 🙂 But I always get this mountain of a spot in very hot climates , always in the same place also , stop giggling muppets , it’s serious stuff this , you both still have all these fun things to come as you get older, lol
Ok , I got that off my chest , I think I am starting to suffer from cabin fever here just going to work and back all the time , Ouma’s Skype is still set on only sign langue so I have not spoken to them either the past couple of days and the hotel staff is only so stimulating for conversation when they bring my room service 🙂
I think I am going to have to go shopping the weekend to allow me some banter with the sales staff in the mall , I think I need a new phone again , the UK one does not switch on , the South African one has no signal here , the Dubai one had lost all the buttons on the side this week and the Pakistan one only gives me 2 hours talk time , I guess I have to admit defeat at some stage now and give up on Blackberry and switch to an iPhone or an other smart phone , I see the guys here have ones , I forget the name now, that takes 2 SIM cards , thus my logic is if I buy two of them I only have to carry 2 phones with me daily and not 4 , thus I think a great plan , even if I have to say so myself , need to go see how they work I guess first 🙂
I see you muppets are also in for some more great weather , hope you are making the most of it , spending lots of happy fun hours in the park with B&B and not tied up in the Bar or Costa as per your normal allowed outings…..
Well Champs , I need to go my dinner is here , so I will see you both a little later under our big old green tree in dreamland , packing you some nice cool fresh bear dream cuddles ….
Night , night Little men …happy dreams of better days 🙂
Love you both truck loads full and miss you fleets of them full ….
Love you Champs …always ….
Dad xx





























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