Apologizing to a Narcissist

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Apologizing 2 Narc

In a normal relationship, if one has made a mistake, it is typically followed up with an apology.  This usually leads to the other party forgiving you or at least acknowledging your heart-felt attempt at making amends.  Not so with a Narcissist.

When you apologize to a Narcissist, they feel like they have struck gold.  You are always wrong, anyway, so for you to admit a mistake is akin to boarding a train for a one-way guilt trip.  Instead of the situation being dealt with in a mature way, there are a few possible scenarios that will ensue following an apology to a Narcissist:

  1. Self-Righteousness:  This is the equivalent of being pointed at and ridiculed on the playground, with the goal being to make you feel like the biggest idiot in town.  See how wrong you were?  Isn’t it just a load off now that you can see how…

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The hippopotamus (Hippopotamus amphibius).

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Sub-Saharan Africa is the home to the second heaviest land mammal in the world — the hippopotamus. Their dense bodies make it impossible for them to swim, even though they spend most of their time in the water. The body of the hippopotamus is well suited for aquatic life. Their eyes, ears and nostrils are located at the top of their head, so they are able to see, hear, and breathe while mostly submerged. A clear membrane covers and protects their eyes while allowing them to see underwater. Their nostrils close to keep water out, and they can hold their breath for several minutes.

As you can see from the pictures, Hippopotamuses love water, which is why the Greeks named them the “river horse.” Hippos spend up to 16 hours a day submerged in rivers and lakes to keep their massive bodies cool under the hot African sun. Hippos are…

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Daily update for my Boys 14 July 2014

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Good evening Little Men !

How are my Champs doing on this lovely Monday evening ? I hope very well and safe.

I don’t know where the time went today , only saw now it’s 8pm already, I was out most of the day and when I got back home this afternoon I had a mountain of email and missed calls , thus ended up spending the past 3 hours on the phone with work , so much for not working all the time , lol , the part time plan is really not going as well as I hoped , I seem to get more and more stuff on my desk now than ever before.

I must admit I never got around to the printing shop , got a little side lined 🙂

I am still struggling with my chest , Ouma is convinced I need to go to the doctor again , I think I am getting use to it now , I know I can’t move around fast and I need a couple of hours when I get up and before I go to bed to settle it…guess we will see how it goes the next couple of days.

Tomorrow I think I will just be at home doing projections and then looks like Cape Town on Thursday again.

Ouma and Oupa is leaving now on Wednesday only for their holiday , don’t think they have packed yet so I am pretty sure their house is going to be all stress tomorrow , lol

I just checked the Court orders also as I thought Jayne had to file stuff again today but I see it’s only on the 17 th , I still think if they have any brains they will also refuse to file and tell the judge to read as her story changed so many times since April last year there is no way she can do a summary on 4 pages double spaced font 14 typed lol 🙂 , if nothing else it should make for some amusing reading , I think the only thing her and Steve have now left to accuse me of is molesting you both as they have accused my of everything else in family law thus far ! Lol as they say desperate people to desperate things ! Or should it be low class stupid thick people do desperate things , either way they have to look in the mirror each day and see their faces knowing what they have done and how they have harmed you both as the child abusers they are.

The schools go back here next week , I am not sure if you both are back already but as I said last night I will get the guy to check on the name thing so we can file the contempt of court documents re your names once we get the letter from your school.

Well Champs I need to run I still need to get one or two work email off and have not even had time to respond to all the blog , twitter and Facebook stuff from today , so as always I will see you both a little later under our big old green tree in dreamland …..packing you both some nice African winter bear dream cuddles and smiles.

Night , night Little Men , sweet dreams of #PAS free days soon 🙂

Love you both around the world and back and miss you many trillion times more ….

Love you Champs …..always …

Dad xx

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Daily update for my Boys 13 July 2014

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Hello Little Men!

I hope my muppets are well today and that you are safe …

I had a good day here , it was a little warmer and even now tonight no heater so the winter might be over , lol

I got all my work stuff done by early afternoon , which was pretty cool , so I ended up chatting with mums and dads on twitter and Facebook most of the early evening , it’s seems their are quite a few people that want to to protest Preston Family Court so I have suggested we look at a rally the week of our next hearing , might even be worth to start the week before to build up some involvement from the local community seeing that the Cafcass office is also just around the corner. I will keep you posted but it looks like we will be able to pull this together , it might cost me a bit of money but hey it’s well worth it for the cause 🙂

Tomorrow I need to go do some shopping and look at T Shirts designs with your photo on and the banners to cover a Fiat 500 , if I can get the designs done here the UK guys said they will sort the printing , which sounds like a good plan.

I guess you have seen your blog stats , I was able to copy and paste it today again , your twitter account is also at 200 followers now already in the 2 weeks so the campaign to create awareness about our story is doing pretty well I think.

Don’t know what you muppets are doing this week but I hope it’s fun and also remember the Court order for your temp new name expired on 28 May so I will check tomorrow if Jayne is in contempt of court again as I am told she is still trying to use a false name for you both ;

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I also need to action the FOI request on Cafcass tomorrow as it seems Peter Morey has still not filed my formal complaint and their response with the Court as what he was suppose to do before the last hear on 28 Feb , yet more incompetence from him and Cafcass.

Can’t wait to see you both a little later under our big old green tree in dreamland , looking forward to my little O dream cuddles ….

Night , night Champs ….dream big of happier days soon ….

Love you both loads and lots and miss you bigger load lots more …

Love you Little Men ….always …

Dad xx