16 July 2014 – text – wordpress issues lol :-) re post

Good Evening Little Men!

I hope my Champs are well today !

Apologies for being a little late today again , but I was out most of the afternoon and had to sort some work stuff for Dubai when I got back and the past 3 hours have gone into responding to all the email from your blog and twitter. I must say I have met some really interesting people the past couple of months from all walks of life fighting the same cause and issues as what we three are dealing with , the stories are so similar from mums and dads on how incompetent the Family Courts and Cafcass are its a little scary to be honest.

I see the social media is all the buzz on the program re Social Services that aired last night in the UK , sad very sad stories but the great thing is that people are taking a stance to expose the system and force the change and transparency that is required for all involved.

Its pretty cold here tonight again I think , or maybe its just because I am not feeling great , my breathing is so poor , I might have to do what Ouma has been nagging me about and go back to the doctor but then I guess I admit that I am not well and am not getting better …mind over matter I think is still the better option for now !

I have managed to get all my flights booked for August and the hotels , so it seems I will be pretty busy with work stuff so no time for being sick 🙂

Ouma and Oupa texted to say they have arrived safely , I think it is colder there than what they have thought this time of the year but I really hope they will have a nice time. Oupa put his back out I think yesterday before they left as he helped me set up a generator as there is a lot of talk of load shedding perhaps over the weekend or next week but at least I am sorted now , I just need to go get some extra petrol I think to store in the garage should the power cuts be more than a couple of hours each day ….#gottoloveafrica

I have still not had any feedback on the Court stuff I filed on 28 June re your registration so I will email Paul at the Court tomorrow to check if the additional direction are now ready from Judge Rawkins in this regard. I will keep you posted.

I see the various protests from end of this week in London is picking up a lot of momentum , I really hope it goes well for all the mums and dads that are joining in.

I think I told you my friend Jaco is here from Cape Town tomorrow so we will be meeting up but we have agreed it needs to be an early night as we both are flying to Cape Town at 6 am on Friday morning, I should be back home late Friday night if all goes to plan.

Well muppets I hope you both are making the most of the nice weather in Chester as I think it's almost the last week of it in the UK , I see Sussex is hitting 30 degrees again , same as the past 2 years.

I hope you monkeys are well and safe and looking after B&B well also …:-)

Cant wait to see you both in a little bit under our big old green tree in dreamland …..looking forward to so nice warm Double O , cuddles and smiles.

Night . Night Champs ….fun dreams of great summer holiday adventures…

Love you both lots and lots and miss you the biggest lots more ….

Love you Little Men …..always ….

Dad xx

7 attributes of a great leader.

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There are a lot of leadership qualities that we associate with successful leaders. Different leaders employ different styles through which they provide direction, implement plans and motivate people. These styles can contradict one another. In today’s world, the complexity of globalization and technology are putting demands on leaders to move away from classical patterns of leadership and embrace combinations of different kinds of leadership styles which might be extreme in nature.

Here are the 7 ANDs of Leadership:

Dreams and Details
Sometimes it takes a dreamer to make the dreams of others come true. However, having big dreams and ideas is not enough.A leader should be able to dream big, make people believe in his dream, and be able to give out the tiniest details at any point of time. It’s this ability to dream big together with a keen attention to detail that differentiates a leader from the…

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Head Fuckery

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This is a fairly strong titled post….and apologies upfront to anyone offended by the title. The reason this is titled Head Fuckery is that is exactly what a Narcissist Sociopath does with their blame, lies, deceit, emotional blackmail, deflection/projection, abuse and so on.

How does Head Fuckery work?

  • ask a direct question~ get lies in return
  • abuse~ mental/emotional/physical and financial
  • turning their unacceptable behaviour into you are actually the one acting inappropriate
  • denial, denial, denial~ never do they accept accountability {yet you are to be 100% accountable}
  • hypercritical~ about most everything & everyone
  • falsely accuse you of things and/or events that they actually did and/or said
  • fault blaming~ they can point out every single fault they perceive you have
  • intentionally causing pain~ and then denying they did.
  • displays of limited emotional connection to a person or place

Being involved with a Narcissistic Sociopath is like getting into a washing machine and setting…

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Daily update for my Boys 15 July 2014

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Hello Little Men !

How are my muppets tonight ? I hope oki doki Loki 🙂

What a day ! Is all I can say , I think my ear is going to fall off from spending so much time one the phone , I had to charge the cordless twice today and also my dxb phone as they did not stop ! I think I might break my own work phone bill record this month ! Lol , I think I have dealt with 5 countries excluding South Africa and Mozambique today , it all seems to be happening at the same time , lots of exciting things.

I think today would have been one of those days when Jayne would get mad because I work 24 hours 7 days a week as I do not have the UK culture to not take calls or work when you are off , guess this is because I have always had a real job !

Just trying to catch up on the blog and twitter now also , the traffic is just exploding for some reason , I guess there is so much on the go re PAS and family law in the UK more and more people are telling their stories and standing up to the alienating child abusers , be that mums , dads , or grandparents …. I think on my list alone is around 1000 people now taking a stand against the family courts and the child abusers which I guess is still nothing as they say 3 000 0000 little ones are alienated from one of their patents in the UK alone at the hand of Cafcass and the Family Courts but all I can say is I am so proud of the people who have said enough is enough , as this is the only way we will bring these child abusers like you surrogate to justice.

Tomorrow I hope to have a little less busy day and Cape Town is now confirmed for Friday , it’s going to be a long day of back to back meetings but I want to try and get it all done in one day so I am home the weekend.

My friend Jaco is here from Cape Town on Thursday so hope to meet up with him Thursday afternoon or night for a bit of a catch up , but I have to be in bed by 9 as I am flying out at 6 am and have a hours drive to the airport plus a hour before the flight.

The Marx three have invited me to a braai at their new house on Sunday , so looks like the weekend is going to be a fun one 🙂 , can’t wait to see my little mate Jayden , sure he has lots to tell me about his new life on the farm , still need to try and get him a goat or maybe a lion or a tiger , lol

I hope you monkeys are having a nice week and I think you will have a nice visit now again from the Social Services as it seems they are now after 16 months starting to do their jobs and protect you from the daily child abuse you have to suffer from Jayne and Steve.

As always little men , can’t wait to see you both a little later under our big old green tree in dreamland ….please pack me some nice warm bear dream cuddles please ….

Night , night Champs ….dream big always ….

Love you both tttttthhhhiiiiiisssss much and miss you so much more …

Love you Little Men …always …..

Dad xx