Dr. Hedy Fry on Child Health

Good Post Kevin , well worth the read !

kevinpedersen1's avatarMake Abbotsford Aware

Dear Mr. Kevin Pedersen,

Canadian Children Physical Activitiy

Thank you for taking the time to contact my office on Bill C-560, An act to amend the divorce act (equal parenting).

It was a great privilege to receive your message Honourable Dr. Fry. Thank you for giving me a chance to discuss our children. I wish my own Member of Parliament would do so.

Consistent with the 1998 Joint Senate and House of Commons Committee on Custody and Access’s report For the Sake of the Children, I recognize that parenting is only an enhanced process when both parents are active participants; however, the Supreme Court of Canada has placed the best interests of the child as the foremost principle to be considered in such litigations.

First, our Divorce Act(Canada) is an application-based statute. At least one parent must apply for a divorce. In our case, neither parent applied. An application was entered for a child…

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Daily update for my Boys 22 May 2014

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Hello Little Men !

How are my monkeys doing today ? I hope well…

Well I slept until 7am this morning so that was really good ….

I had a good day all and all , mostly boring admin things but they needed doing , so all good.

Got my flights for June sorted now also , just need to make the hotel booking as I am in the hotel for a month again …let’s hope they have a different room service menu 🙂

You both must be almost on school holidays also , I hear the school are closing for the summer holidays in about a week here , so guess the roads will be a little better once I get back as I am planning to start driving myself , should be a proper cultural experience but hey on the upside if I am able to manage here I should be fine in India also… The extra car here is like a little 1000cc Suzuki thingy , not sure what they call them but it has AC which was my only request. Driving myself also means I can start my day much earlier as I don’t have to wait to be picked up each morning.

I have still not been able to sort the video link thing for the Court next week , thus we might have to ask for a date change for a week or two but I shall keep you posted , I have a friend looking into it now as the option the Court gave is crazy for that amount I can fly to the UK so makes no sense but then again we are talking about the High Court in the UK here so logic and common sense do not exist for these people.

I need to sort the Jenkings three’s birthday gifts also when I get home as the big party is next Saturday , I am pretty sure the twins must also be well excited for their big 03 birthday 🙂

Champs I so hope you are well and safe and being cared for well .. I have my doubts but can only hope ……

As always , I shall see you under our big old green tree in dreamland , looking forward to my Little O double dream cuddles ….

Night , night Champs ……dream big ….always …

I love you both this much ;

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And miss you the factory that was made in …

Love you Little Men ….always ..

Dad xx

Adapting To Change

tlollis72's avatarMother Forgotten...Parental Alienation

Image So here we are, together at last. I must admit it has been a struggle since the new PA has been in place, not just for me, but for my son as well. After so many years apart there has been a lot to learn, change and adapt to for the both of us. He has been through more than his fair share of struggles, moving around so much in his short 13 yrs of life. Now that he has finally got an established and stable home, it has been a difficult task for him to completely adjust to. Having ADHD/ADD and now suffering from depression, he is lost in which direction to go. From having to act like a grown-up to learning to be a true adolescent has truly taken it’s toll on both of us, emotionally and mentally. We have both been struggling to work through all the…

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Daily update for my Boys 21 May 2014

So this is me today Champs 🙂

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Lol , back to your daily update and Footprints …

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Good evening Little Men …

I hope my muppets are doing very , very fine today …

I assume you have settled down now a little again after the excitement of your big day yesterday …must have been a great deal of fun turning 3 and know being big little men 🙂

As I am sure you have seen I was awake most of last night , not sure why , I guess I had a lot on my mind thinking about you both and wondering how you are and if you had a nice day …..

I think I am just getting use to the time difference now , but am home next week and then traveling again , I have moved the dates for the visit to the Philippines as Darren and them want me to come for their birthday week , so that will only be in July , so I will only be home for the week and then back to work again ..

I think we got loads done here this month , the team have been fantastic and looked after me very well , I am really proud of all the progress they have made since I last spent some time with them , yes we have had ups and downs but hey , such is life , but things are continuing on the up and that is all that matters at the end of the day 🙂

We have had some more very nice messages of encouragement for your blog , boys I think you both will be proud one day to know that our story and struggles have and continue to touch so many peoples lives…will it help us ? I don’t know , maybe not but we have to keep trying and believing if not we have given up and I have never done that in my life , nor do I believe you two would ……

Not sure if you are back home yet , but if you are I hope you both allowed B&B to give you both a wet sloppy face lick to welcome you home as I am pretty sure they have missed you tons …..

Don’t have more news to report Champs , so as always I hope to see you both a little later under our big old green tree in dreamland , packing some big welcome home wet sloppy licking cuddles for you both ….

Night , night Little Men …..happy dreams ……

Love you both around the world and back , and miss you both so much more ….

Love you my BIG Little Men …..always …

Dad xx

A great quote , author unknown …….

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If you’re friends with a “favored parent,” the next time they say “If ‘target parent’ would simply stop posting on social media about parental alienation, our child would talk to them” say this to the favored parent…“If your child had a relationship with the other parent, then the other parent wouldn’t even have anything to post about in that regard. It seems to me that if you want the other parent to stop posting about parental alienation on social media, then it would be smart for you to make sure your child has a relationship with the other parent. Why don’t you call your child today and tell them that you WANT them to see their other parent as soon as possible and that you WANT them to have a happy and loving relationship with the other parent and that you won’t interfere with that in any way?”