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I lived with and was married to a female malignant narcissist for 12 years who has BPD and HPD. I endured significant trauma, gas lighting, degrading comments and was left feeling worthless. Now I'm out, living with C-PTSD and watching my kids be treated like textbook Golden Child and Scapegoat children. My daily struggle to get them the hell away from her claws. Have questions, comments, advice? Ask, tell, share. I am here to recover.
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She may have wanted to check her spelling prior to filing this……’traumatized’ is a fairly significant allegation, and spelled correctly would make it a bit more credible 😆 ….and it just amazes me that when one parent seriously dislikes the other, they can file crap like this on a whim! Where is the best interest of the children in any of this??!! And does she really believe that by changing the surname will make you any less of the FATHER that you are???? Just because she has custody of the boys does that arbitrarily make her a MOTHER? NO! What i read here is a very angry woman who is probably over exaggerating this circumstances regarding this claim. There is always 3 sides to the story, his/hers/and the truth. I hope this all works out for you 😀
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Hi Tela , thank you for your comment , I have said from day one this story has 3 sides and thus I have taken the abuse I have been given because of this blog from people that don’t know the history ….makes me sad that she wants to blame me for her not wanting to deal with the truth 🙂 and who will be lied to for the rest of their lives our little men , being told I do not want to be part of their lives ….breaks my heart …..
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at what point do the adults start acting the adults? This is a level of power control, and as always with children involved, they are the ones at the end of the day that get hurt. My own opinion…….you are entitled to a blog, and i would not stoop to the smear campaign that she is now doing. Take the high road, keep talking to your boys via the blog. And pray the court see’s the senselessness that is taking place. Many blessings to you!
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Tela , I have tried from the first week I walked out to see and have contact with our boys and she and her father refused , a week after my first legal letter to her asking to see the boys she went and filed DV case , it has never been investigated nor even mentioned by Cafcass once as a issue but she has tried to blackmail and sell me time with the boys , the boys are her meal ticket thus she is hell bent on keeping control of them because is she does not do that she will loose her state benefits and will have to go get a job like a normal person and that she will never do , the boys are a much easier pay check for her …..
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that is truly sad! And there are many ‘parents’ {used lightly}, that would rather not provide financially for their children and depend on the other parent, yet, dangling the children like a pawn piece in their twisted game of chess. Hang in there Phill……I imagine it is difficult at best. Continue to be the stand-up parent, continue to let YOUR boys know how much you love and miss them {and by the way, just because they are not blood of your blood or bone of your bone, in NO way makes you any less of a parent}…..
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Thank you for your kind words , as always 🙂
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