– photo by Patty Scheeler
I get emails every day from people who are stuck in an obsessive cycle of feeling worthless, unattractive, and “no good”. This happens because their Ex-Narc conditioned them to believe these things and then left them for another partner, which only enforced this false illusion.
Being rejected or abandoned by someone we love is already painful enough, but when it happens at the hands of a Narcissist, it’s felt much more deeply. The difference is that in a normal relationship, one partner may decide to leave because they’ve met someone else (which was never planned), they’ve decided they want a different lifestyle, they want to discover themselves, etc. On the other hand, a Narcissist conditions their partners to believe they’re nothing – often mere days after establishing a relationship.
Conditioning
It doesn’t always come off as character assassination in the beginning. To seem credible, the…
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Hi Phil,
This was such a good post, have you seen her blog? It’s informative and interesting. I’m going to be checking out more of her posts today on her blog and maybe reblog a few if they hit me like this one did. A very talented writer on the rise and most deserved!
I hope this comment finds you well, Phil.
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Could not agree with you more , have only following her a couple of weeks but I think she is very gifted
Hope your little fury boy is doing ok
Take Care
Xx
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Hi Phill,
I’m so glad you’re reading her blog too. I believe she’s gifted as well.
Thank you for the kind words about my boy. He is struggling today. Just makes my heart ache.
Be blessed today, phil.. You and your boys are in my prayers everyday. 🙂
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Right back at you ! keep him warm and lots of extra treats please … X
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LOL! Phill, I have to pass on the treats! He’s overweight since his surgery last year. No more treats and we are now on a diet! But wieners are all about warmth and he gets lots and lots of that (plus he ‘steals’ my heating paid-hehe), and tons and tons of love Thank you for thinking of him.
He means so much to me. XXOO!
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Lol , well… A sneaky treat is maybe just what he needs ….. Or maybe one of those not so yummy wheat doggy biscuits with the chocolate coating ……. X
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PHIL! SHAME on you LOLOLOLOL!
I can give him rawhide bones with beef flavor. He loves those and they’re good for his teeth and his anxiety AND it keeps him from being hungry so much, although lately he’s not much up to eating a lot 😦
Have a very peaceful day, my friend. And please keep us up to date about where things stand for you.
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That sounds really yummy ….not … But if he likes them keep them coming ….
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LOL! Well of course NOT, Phill, we’re not dogs! LOL!
Pass the chocolate chip cookies please. Hehe…
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Thank you very much for the re-blog, Phill 🙂
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It’s a great pleasure …
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