Hello Little men!

How are my champs doing on this lovely Friday afternoon ? I hope great !

Boys we got a comment from a young lady called Katie today, I must say reading things like that and what other people have and are dealing with makes our issues seem trivial , but as I said to her we all have our battles and we all choose to deal with them in what we believe is the best way…Is that always right or wrong , I don’t know , I don’t think anybody does …all we can try and do is what we believe is right!

Your blog had it’s best day yesterday since it started in Dec , I am still amazed how many people from outside our normal life is taking the time to read ,follow and comment on this… The more I live this nightmare daily the more I see how the world will be changed by these issues , I read an article last night from the USA that states that since middle Dec 2013 , 1950 dads involved in family law cases have committed suicide , and that’s only the numbers that have been confirmed , that’s like 50 Dads a day leaving their children’s lives due to the system breaking them…..and people want to tell me this is fair and just….. And normal , o and don’t forget” in the best interest of the children” I am sorry but I don’t buy that for one minute , yes you get bad people in the world and they are mums and dads even if the world believes only dads are wrong ! Really sad but true….

I guess you both must still be in school, hope you both are having a fantastic day full of learning and giggles with all your little friends ….. Hope the pasta sticking or finger painting made you both smile ….why do I say that …as I have not seen you both smile for months not even on the photos I get on the monthly update , breaks my heart ….as little boys should be happy go lucky and smile , smile and smile …….

Ouma and I have a bit of a busy weekend ahead , printer paper ready so it’s all go here this weekend , night shift I think will be required , lol , but we will get it done….. All for the cause ………

Not sure what you both have planned for the weekend but I hope you both will have less paper cuts then us , lol. , maybe you will go take B&B out for a walk or a play , whatever you are doing , be safe , be warm , be happy and know you are in my thoughts each day all the time………

Night , night little men , fun weekend dreams……

Love you both more then you will ever know …….

Love you little men…

Dad xx