http://pinktape.co.uk/cases/enforcement-of-contact-orders-let-it-be-shouted-out-from-the-roof-tops/

http://www.nytimes.com/2013/03/21/business/economy/as-men-lose-economic-ground-clues-in-the-family.html?_r=1&

Good afternoon my little muppets….

How are you both doing today ? Hope you are having lots of good times at school with all your little friends…..

I have been to the city this morning to meet some people from work , coming back home now I have driven back in the most horrendous storm with thunder and lightning and rain drops the size of a bucket each …. A hour journey took me about two and a half hours as you could not even see the car in front of you…..and people stopped all over the place on the side of the road , but least I got home safe and about 10 miles from home it’s bone dry no clouds nothing ….

Tomorrow I need to go spend the morning with my travel agent as I think all dates , places and meetings are now firm so I can proceed to make all the bookings. I can’t book the UK yet for Feb as the date I have suggested to see you both is as normal being ignored , so I guess if I can’t get to see you both not much point in coming to the UK for 3 hours in Court on a Friday…so will have to wait and see what the police and Court says they want to do ….I guess nothing as normal , lol , just makes me sad not knowing when I will be allowed to see you both again… Must all be part of the control game the real Narsisits are playing , just a pity the other people don’t seem to see it ….maybe one day , who knows , time has a funny way to expose people for who and what they really are….

Don’t know what you two have up your sleeve for tomorrow but I hope it is fun and safe and also that the weather will be good maybe for some outside time ….sure that would be nice ……..

Forgot to tell you both Oupa is doing better it seems , but Ouma and I still thinks it is just because he does not want to go to the hospital …. Will have to keep an eye on him over the next couple of days…..

I slept really well I think last night but feels like I have run a marathon this afternoon , think it is a early night for me tonight ……..

It is really humid here this afternoon so I guess the big storm from the city is en route this way , I hope so as it will break the heat a little …..

Well little men as always I will see you two a little later under our big old green tree in dream land , can’t wait for my bear hugs and cuddled….

Night , night little super stars , dream of great things ….happy things ……

Love you around the world and back and back again ….

Need to go sort some work email before it gets late ….

Love you both always champs ….

Dadxx

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/sciencetech/article-2518247/Growing-father-permanently-alter-BRAIN-Fatherless-children-likely-grow-angry-turn-drugs.html

Hello my Little O’s

Hope you two are doing very well on this very hot Sunday afternoon… Maybe not so hot where you are but still hope you are well…

I have spent most of today on the legal stuff again, I guess after this I should be pretty well suited to try and help other families in a similar situation….. The fact of the matter is that it is very apparent that Family Law in the UK is all based on the perception of the people involved , facts and evidence means nothing… Least I can hold my head up and say I have been constant in my approach and manner of dealing with those involved, the more I study this case and the process and games played the more it becomes clear who the two true Narsists are… Just makes me really sad to know you both are stuck in having to be around these people but as a person who thinks he is running this case ones elected to broadcast ‘ the truth will prevail’ and I honestly believe that with all my heart…..

So tomorrow is the start of yet one more new week with no contact with you both , I guess the weeks are all just blending into each other for me now after such a long separation from you both…somedays I can’t believe it’s only almost been a year as each day feels like a life time of missing you both….yes , yes , I know I am a wimp , sorry ,lol…

We should get the long overdue ‘response’ end of this week , sure it will be full of hot air and excuses but at least people had to now read the file and look at the details , just sad it had to come to this before people started doing their jobs ….maybe how the world works today …

I hope you have stared get your stuff ready for school tomorrow , you can’t leave it until the last minute or you might be late …..I sit here somedays just imagining what you both must be getting up to at school and if you both stick together at school or if you play separate , when I use to take you both to school and pick you up , you both wanted to do your own thing so I wonder if that has now changed……guess I will never be allowed to see or interact with you both in that normal environment…

Boys I really hope you two will have a great week full of fun and adventure and learning as little boys should ……

As always I will see you both a little later under our big old green tree in dream land , am so keen to see you both for a couple of dream minutes and give you both a huge bear cuddle …..

Night , night little Champs , sweet happy going to school dreams …..

Miss and love you both TttttttHhhhhhIiiiiiiiiSSSSS much and more ……

Love you boys ….

Dadxx

http://wholettheyankin.com/category/cafcass/

Just wanted to share this with you both little men….

Love you lots …

Dadxx