Butterfield

Thank you for you email regarding contact on the 27th February.

Whilst I appreciate Ms Greggs notes may say silent, it was very much discussed with Judge Sxxxxxx in Court regarding timings moving forward and all agreed 2 hours would be reasonable, I will of course wait to have this clarified on the 28th February and assume it will have been recorded in the Court Room itself.

I would add that I have absolutely no issues with Mr Ferreira seeing Xxxxxxand Xxxxxand at some point in the future am not opposed to longer sessions and other activities, but my children were left upset after the last episode and still to this day ask why is “Daddy crying”. Mr Ferreira can continue to call me every name under the sun and claim Parent Alienation on his Daily Blog, but my role as Xxxxxxand XxxxxxxMum is to protect them and that is exactly what I am doing at this point, there is no malice or ill feeling involved.

I would therefore like to confirm that 1-3pm is fine and also add on record, especially given the children will potentially be with their Dad for 2 hours that Xxxxxx and Xxxxx are nappy trained, I have been accused of yet again being a bad parent for not having my children nappy trained by the age of 2 and that if they lived in South Africa Social Services would have taken them into Care for this crime !!!! On the last visit Mr Ferreira would have noticed the children were in pull up pants NOT nappies as they were in September at the Lancaster Centre, he should remember as he changed Xxxxxx.However given they are only 2.5 years of age, they are not miracle workers and I WILL NOT ALLOW my children to be bullied if they do not feel safe on a three hour round trip wearing pants, so if the children are in pull up pants for a car journey then so be it….

To Confirm..

I have no issues with photographs being taken.
I have no issues with Gifts being given.
I will happily send packed lunches for Xxxxxxx and Xxxxxx

However I would like to add that I was accused on Christmas Day of forbidding Mr Ferreira to send Christmas Gifts to his Children, yet just one week later he sent wildlife DVD’s to my parents home address, a huge contradiction and whilst perhaps gave him a little more sympathy on his Blog, it certainly is untrue. I was also accused of buying the Children IPADS and allowing them to become part of the under 3 Tablet Generation to which I again can confirm that neither myself or any other member of my family or friends bought them such gift, however Mr Ferreira made the comment that it was his intention to purchase them, so should this be the case, I have no objections. I would like to ask that Mr Ferreira please limit large gifts as there is absolutely no room in the Children’s Play Room.

Regards

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