Good morning little men ,

Hope you both are doing well today and have arrived safely at school,

As you both know this blog is being written as a reference for you should you wish to know the truth or perhaps the other side of the story , so here goes,

After you stayed behind at your spokesperson home , I made a payment into your care grieves account , this was early April , on 12 April I opened a case with the CSA in Hastings to allow me to give you money , 2 weeks later they told me your care giver had closed the request as she wants nothing from me , that same week she drew all the cash out of my only bank account which she was a joint party to , and froze the account thus ensuring I have no access to money nor could my salary be paid to me as I had no bank account, she seamed to forget that the car she came to steal from my home was to be paid from this account.

After I was allowed to see you both on your birthday in 2013 , things seemed better , she allowed us to speak on Skype 3 times , after the 3rd time I emailed her a statement of account as adviced by the CSA showing that she owed me cash , that same day she cut off all contact we had and proceeded to file her own case , they told her that I have the right to deduct the car and any related contact costs , then she lied and said she did not have the car nor do I have had or want contact with you both , the end of this was that they took 800 pound a month from my salary plus she got 1400 pound in benefits because she is keeping you hostage, like she told her friends if she can keep you both away from me why would she ever have to work again in her life …

I needed a letter from her or a court order to say I may see you both to remain in the UK , she refused outright to do this , so she left me with no choice but to leave the UK , she also wrote in various letters after this that she wants no financial support , so I have set up bank accounts for you both 1 st in the uk as she could get her hands on your money , this has now been placed in a off shore account that you will get when your are 18 , but I am afraid to say due to your care givers attitude and level of parental alienation she will not get one penny from me ever ,

If you both need money as you get older ,please I will give you whatever you want but I just hope your care giver get a job at some point as living of the state is not the best life example for you both in my opinion. I am sure the extra income should help pay the drink and painkiller bill.

I also suggested to sell the car and share the profits , she refused , very silly as I got a very nice large refund after the car was sold on auction , but again she always knows better…proofed wrong again but hey that’s the story of my life for 5 years boys….

Today I get an email from your Aunt that implies because I dot give her money that is why I can’t see you both , so please remember this , it’s as bad as when your uncle tried to blackmail me to trade seeing you for furniture , these people are a joke in my eyes….

Have a good one at school boys , I will touch base with you this afternoon

Love you big lots ..

Dadxx